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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck
You know I love you. While I don't disagree with what you say I will say this. I've been a Cuckholdress from day 1, before I even knew there was a name for it. Back then I was simply just a "slut" evidently. I agree that many cucks attempt to top from the bottom and give a laundry list of what they will and won't do. Fuck that. No going to happen. Its up to Me as the Domme, as the Cuckoldress to explain that giving a list of what they agree to do or not do is not submission. It's trying to control in a situation in which they agreed to give up control.

What they want is what I call "Submission of convenience". They want to submit when and how they want to rather than 24/7. To me the real definition of submission is to do whatever is asked, even the things they least want to do, in order to please their Dominant. Because if all they are doing is what they want to do, what turns them on and gets them off...well that isn't submission in my book.

But what do I know :^)

The bolded above is exactly why I say I love the kink but am not interested in 99% of the males who want it. For a lot of cucks, it's all about what excites them, what gets them off, what they get to see, and what they want to do. That's not what it is as far as I'm concerned. It's about Me owning My sexuality and theirs, up to and including what activities are engaged in or not.