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I've seen some threads here and there pertaining to Financial Domination, but I figured I would start a topic that may facilitate a little bit more of an understanding for the fetish itself. Recently, as I've begun to become more active in the community, I've gotten a lot of questions from people on the matter. Here is an over view onto my opinion and my experiences:


I should start by stating that my desires, or target fetishes, are not limited to cash and people's wallets. My dominations and preferences include mind control, denial, hyno, and humiliation.



There is a specific genre of men (and women), usually whom work very hard or are reasonably wealthy and/or unhappy with their otherwise mundane lives, who enjoy having to devote and tribute their money or other worldly goods to a beautiful, intelligent, demanding woman; it acts as sort of a release. In reality, it is the willingness to surrender control that is appealing in regards to fin-domination - not necessarily the cash. At least, this is the case for me.



A lot of people attribute fin-domme to women who need money and are skulking around to get by; or more simply, women who are greedy and lazy. Greed, more than anything, is an affect of our persona's as fin-dommes, and while there are a lot of women who are ruining the art of fem-domme, there are also many who are careful not to abuse or ruin our slaves. Many of us also require that the majority of tribute that the "pay pets" give us is given to various charities (something I personally prefer)...

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dominations and preferences include mind control, denial, hyno, and humiliation......... am not a domme who expects tribute without providing a true and long-term d/s relationship............

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ORIGINAL: thegoddessxenoa


I myself am a fin-domme, out of desire - NOT out of necessity, and I am not a domme who expects tribute without providing a true and long-term d/s relationship. The slaves I own are under contract and receive the desired attention they deserve, so far as training, punishment, and nurturing.

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ORIGINAL: Rawni


The other threads have covered the things you say... I see this more as... here I am... come and take this goddess on so she can drain your wallet while you waste your time working.

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

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dominations and preferences include mind control, denial, hyno, and humiliation......... am not a domme who expects tribute without providing a true and long-term d/s relationship............

Then you aren't a pro . . . so why the thread?

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ORIGINAL: SomethingCatchy

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

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dominations and preferences include mind control, denial, hyno, and humiliation......... am not a domme who expects tribute without providing a true and long-term d/s relationship............

Then you aren't a pro . . . so why the thread?

Financial domination does not equal a professional. A professional is paid for services like a clerk is paid to check people out at Target. When the job is done there is no more interaction. Financial domination involves controlling someone's finances to any degree.

I am into financial domination because I enjoy having control over every aspect of someone's personal life. I have no interest in becoming a professional dominant and getting paid for my services. I'm incapable of being interested in someone when the only thing happening between us is cash flow.

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ORIGINAL: thegoddessxenoa

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I've seen some threads here and there pertaining to Financial Domination, but I figured I would start a topic that may facilitate a little bit more of an understanding for the fetish itself. Recently, as I've begun to become more active in the community, I've gotten a lot of questions from people on the matter. Here is an over view onto my opinion and my experiences:


I should start by stating that my desires, or target fetishes, are not limited to cash and people's wallets. My dominations and preferences include mind control, denial, hyno, and humiliation.



There is a specific genre of men (and women), usually whom work very hard or are reasonably wealthy and/or unhappy with their otherwise mundane lives, who enjoy having to devote and tribute their money or other worldly goods to a beautiful, intelligent, demanding woman; it acts as sort of a release. In reality, it is the willingness to surrender control that is appealing in regards to fin-domination - not necessarily the cash. At least, this is the case for me.



A lot of people attribute fin-domme to women who need money and are skulking around to get by; or more simply, women who are greedy and lazy. Greed, more than anything, is an affect of our persona's as fin-dommes, and while there are a lot of women who are ruining the art of fem-domme, there are also many who are careful not to abuse or ruin our slaves. Many of us also require that the majority of tribute that the "pay pets" give us is given to various charities (something I personally prefer)...

Given the responses to this thread, I'd like to put this statement on the back burner, and hopefully learn a little more before I put my two cents in...

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ORIGINAL: thegoddessxenoa
If you wouldn't mind, could you elaborate? I don't think the way I handle my slaves and our relationship denotes my level of professionalism.

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ORIGINAL: SomethingCatchy

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

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dominations and preferences include mind control, denial, hyno, and humiliation......... am not a domme who expects tribute without providing a true and long-term d/s relationship............

Then you aren't a pro . . . so why the thread?

Financial domination does not equal a professional. A professional is paid for services like a clerk is paid to check people out at Target. When the job is done there is no more interaction. Financial domination involves controlling someone's finances to any degree.

I am into financial domination because I enjoy having control over every aspect of someone's personal life. I have no interest in becoming a professional dominant and getting paid for my services. I'm incapable of being interested in someone when the only thing happening between us is cash flow.

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ORIGINAL: Charles6682

This I agree with when it comes to Fin-Dommes.I have nothing against true genuine Fin-Dommes,even if its not my thing.


"I am willing to concede that there is a place for the genuine 'findomme', it's not a area that interests me greatly, but many are into it.

I think however there are a lot of very young girls, especially in the UK, that consider it an easy way to make money, thereby undermining the whole concept, you mention all the stuff that transcends the mere act of paying tribute, that I don't think these girls have, or even wanted to consider.

The title of your post is 'In defence Of Fin-Dom', It's not the concept of it that's under attack, but the fact that it's being hijacked by unscrupulous young girls, who are in it just to make a quick buck. The ethical consequences go flying out of the window.

Of course there is a place for the responsible Financial Dominant, but, the arena is beginning to be flooded out by scamsters."

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

In My opinion, any phrasing of terms like "ignorant" and "professional" constitute an oxymoron.