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Doing the right thing... - 6/3/2013 9:23:05 PM   
Whiplashsmile4


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Status: offline 		Today, I made up my mind to take the Higher Ground in the middle of an
extremely fucked up situation.

I'm soon going to "Out myself" or expose myself for being into BDSM
in the process of contacting an "Abuse hotline" and/or dealing with legal
authorities.

My own morals and code of conduct when it comes to this lifestyle is one
which is based upon consent.

I find was humanly impossible for me to use and reduce another human
being to TEARS (intense Real Tears) without them knowing that was what
the Main Goal or objective was in mind.

I had first encountered this amazing Girl though a CL listings, we talked
for many hours. Got a good sense of limits and whatnot. We were going
to hook up last Sunday. Things fell apart.

I had responded to another CL listing (similar in nature) on Monday.
I had asked her if it was a AD for her, just to make certain before
responding to it. On Monday I responded to it. Thinking at the very
least another Play Date partner to hook up with.

However the more and more interaction it became crystal clear that
it was for the same girl. Only being arranged by a third party.

As it turned out, she had volunteered to take on a debt of some girl
that had a drug addiction debt. This dude had paid off the debt and
was expecting sexual use and favors in exchange.

My Girl, The one I had been originally talking with and getting to know
for awhile. It seems had volunteered to take on this debt in place of her.

So for the next 32 email exchanges I played a long, making certain to
make the sales pitch that I was the man for the job!! Down to reducing
this Bitch down to tears (which was the dealbreaker).

Anyways, Come Wed, I set off down the road... I showed up... and
started to engaged in this fucked up rape scene. I had blind folded her.
Keep in mind that this girl has a rape fantasy which I need about, and
we talked about a head of time. Still she was a stiff as a fucking mannequin.
I myself could not get my Dick up to save my life.. even though I tried.

I finally had enough of the expectations which these two other guys placed
in the scene!! I remember saying "Fuck this, Fuck those guys, Fuck what
the Hell they want!"....

This is when I played her against the wall, hands and legs spread wide..
went down stairs and snagged a beer!! I knew she would appreciate a
sip.. so i went back up.. pressed the neck of the bottle to her lips.. so she
could have a sip. I had snagged the blind fold and it came down.

I quickly spun here around.. my hands on each side of her face...her
eyes looked like a deer in the headlights. And I blurted out something
along the lines of "Trust, Please Trust me Girl... I really really Like you,
Just please Trust me!!" Her eyes light up and happy to see that It was me
there, and not somebody else. She was so relieved..

She totally relaxed and we spend the rest of the night tonight talking and
having fun. I had cut those strings which were attached. I was supposed
to take pictures and so many other things. A lot of intense I was supposed
to have done to her.

I let her know about the conditions of how I was supposed to deeply hurt
her and BREAK her DOWN INTO INTENSE TEARS... which she was shocked
about.

Anyways, we ended up playing and it was far far way better than acting
out a Rape Scene (or rather a stage planned Real Rape).

It's a good thing here and I had had that long 6 hour+ phone conversation
the week before. seriously.

I told her that I was glad it was me and not some truly sadistic fuck.
Even though I had to pass myself off a bit of a sadistic fuck in the screening
process to get to her.

Hell, It was an amazing night. I remember in the early morning hours
when I started playing with rope bondage with her. Had her ankles wrapped
and ties and her thighs wrapped and tied... and stood her up on the floor.

She was happy.. she started to use her toes of her feet to shuffle along.
Remined me of the "Happy feet" movie. Kind of waddling a long.. and I was
okay smart ass.. don't make me get out the shoe laces and go for toe bondage
on you. We embraced... with a great big hug and deep passionate kiss.

Truly Priceless moment. I sincerely really really like this girl.

Now here's were the problems start to occur.. we both started to question
if I had been in on a setup job or if she had been in on a setup job.

I really started to wonder if these other guys from the other CL listing
were real or not. That perhaps this was some elaborate scheme setup
for her to live out a an intense rape scene.

Things just did not add up, because this debt was a $4,000 debt. The dude
collecting on the Debt,, I honestly did not see what he was getting out of it.

What they guys wanted me to do.. matched up to what she was wanting
to do and explore. with the exception of having her limited pushed so damn
hard and that was TO USE her so BAD that she was to have a BREAK DOWN
and TURN into a MESS of TEARS and even be Extremely Scared.

If a truely sadistic Fuck been there instead of me, it all would have happened.
She was in shock and terrorized at the Conditions which were place on me
to do to her.

Anyways, I made up a story to feed these too fucks about how Extremely
used I used here that night. To help get her out of this debt.

She wanted to see me again. However many things simply were not
adding up. I was actually wondering if this Girl was behind the staged
rape scene and I these two guys never existed.

I tried to get them to call me voice afterwards, to no avail. I really
was not very trusting of shit after wards. Aniexty started to set in, it grew.
Even thoughts of these fuckers turning around and doing more to her,
to break her down into a fucking mess. (Rape the real deal).

I finally got a Message back from one of them, when trying to get
them to call me.

"What make you think this is all we got (or are going to get) out of it?"
This implied that there was more to come....

One of these dude's operates a prostitution escort service, and I know
would love to turn her into One of his girls. She had refused to do so..

This is another reason why I intentionally did not take pictures to share
with his fucking ass. So there was no blackmail material.

So, now... It's time for me to shut this whole game down on ice.
I'm getting ready to make phone calls soon. I'm going to out myself.
Share all the email correspondence and whatnot.

Get this girl out what from whatever mess she's into, and take the
matter of worrying about it from my own hands.

She is a very sweet girl, I even have her son a piggy back ride
in the morning when he came from from the baby sitter.

I've not deal well this the levels of Anxiety for the last few days,
between worrying and wondering about the truth.

I actually had to take some tranquilizers to settle my ass down.

Whenever, I had found myself in situations like this.. I have always
stepped up to the plate and Went for Doing the right thing.

I think I'm getting ready to do the right there here. It's something
I know I can humanly live with.

Funny. I remember tiring her up in the morning showing her all
he different positions. Then her saying this just not make it
easy for sexually use... then the light Bulb going off inside her
head. with her a questioning comments "So Bondage is really
not about Sex"... I said "Exactly, but it can be"...

There was also a found moment, after getting out of the shower
together.. where I was toweling her down. She was saying
how great it was and nobody done that since we was a kid.
I openly admitted it was part of the Daddy dom part of me.

Sooooooooooo.. anyways... there's more going at this very
moment.

I'm not certain who to contact, the Rape abuse hotline, or
whatever... or whoever to spill all this mess out to. I collected
all my email correspondence in a folder. Been getting prepared.

I'm pretty much resolved to Outting myself to who, Outing me
being into BDSM and crazy kinky stuff.

I'm washing myself of this whole situation, reporting it and
letting the trained professionals come in and deal with it.

It's hard to me to not do this... and have it eating at my soul
and conscious if something truly bad or true harm comes to
this girl.

I plan on making this move in the next 48 hours. I would
appreciate... anybody's thoughts and opinions on this matter.

Even including how much of a dumbass I am... but I'm hard
pressed here with my own conscious in Doing the right thing.

I'm totally open to any questions. I'm not wishing to get into
any fights about this stuff either.

I'm also on tranquilizers at the moment, so I'm not so emotionally
fucked up. Think I can engage in civil exchanges on this thread.

This whole experience is rather surreal and I never been in it
before. I really really Love you guys to death.

This is a bit of a serious situation... just please please I ask
for some seriously consideration in how you guys responded.

I greatly appreciate it.




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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/3/2013 9:56:38 PM   
littleclip


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Status: offline 		i understand how you feel i had to do something similar recently where it was worse if i did nothing than if i did something and many hated me for it. i am a nurse so i have a duty to act to prevent harm and that's what my counselor said and advised me to act to prevent and stop harm. i am still readjusting to the emotional wave i was hit by myself and it hurts but its the long term i am looking at and not for me. i hope your situation works out for the best as i hope for mine to

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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/3/2013 9:57:49 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4
This is a bit of a serious situation... just please please I ask
for some seriously consideration in how you guys responded.

I dont' know really how to "exchange" anything with you on this thread. The situation itself is too convoluted and too potentially serious for me to want to make recommendations. The most I can observe is the choices you are facing based upon what you believe to be true or possibly true are pretty fucking deadly serious to me. You are choosing whether you are honorable or not and you are choosing whether you are dominant or submissive (in the social sense I mean those words). Of course you will want to choose wisely since you are defining your very self in this moment.

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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/3/2013 10:06:15 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		Dude, imo, you fell for one of the biggest scams on CL. If I were you, I'd run far away from that gal before you find yourself robbed blind or worse.

Don't contact anyone. It will just blow up in your face. Just walk away.

I'm still puzzled why anyone in their right minds would use CL just to get laid.


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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/3/2013 10:12:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm with Little Wonder...., your gut is telling you something is seriously not quite right with the picture there.
If you don't walk away...., you could seriously be walking into a one big humungous mess that could really mess up the next few years of your life.

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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/3/2013 10:18:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		I just think he'll get robbed blind or dead from the attempt.

I'm just always amazed people still fall for all these scams in this day and age.

This whole story reminds me of "tap tap tap"


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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/3/2013 10:24:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		Unless you live as a hermit and have no other contact with anyone besides this "girl", your decisions will effect others in your life. Being dominant doesnt mean you have to ride to every damsel in distress. I suggest you think long and hard about your course of action, and weigh all the effects your decision will have on everyone in your life.



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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/3/2013 11:17:59 PM   
AthenaSurrenders


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Status: offline 		I'm totally baffled by this story.

May I try to break it down to see if I'm understanding any of it?

- You were browsing craigslist. You came across two ads for the same woman but one had been placed by somebody else.
- The man placing the ad claims he paid off the debt of one of her friends, and as such she is making it up to him by having sex with strangers of his choosing on craiglist.
- In order to get a piece of this, you promise to be extra sadistic during a rape scene and cause her some trauma and real distress. You did this because you think it's better for you to be involved that someone really sadistic.
- You turn up to meet this stranger and jump right into a rape scene which you had negotiated with this other guy instead of her. Shockingly, it doesn't work that well, you can't get it up, so you share some beer.
- You eventually have your fun together. She is shocked by what you agreed to do to her and yet somehow doesn't hold this against you.
- You play along with the other guy telling him you raped her as requested.
- You decide you want to rescue this woman by reporting this to rape hotlines or whoever. You are happy to out yourself to do this because you feel it is a heroic act.


Well I have no idea about taking the higher ground but I'm afraid you don't come off as a bigger person in that story at all. There's some flawed thinking there. If you were concerned someone is setting her up, why not just speak to her and ask her about it? Why would you send 30-something emails about agreeing to rape her (that'll look good if she makes some complaints about you!) with a third party. Why would you turn up and start playing with her if you thought something was wrong?

Honestly it comes across that you just wanted to get yours and were willing to play along, combined with some odd sense of rescuing her. It doesn't ring true to me that this girl was horrified to hear what you had promised but still happy to play with you - if I met a play partner, even one I was into, and he told me he'd spoken to someone behind my back and agreed to rape me and do xyz, I would be FURIOUS and you'd better get out of range of me kicking you in the nuts.

Does she WANT you to get the authorities involved? Because no crime has been committed against you. And in fact, she wasn't actually raped if your story is true. I don't see this ending well for you and truthfully you'll be outing yourself not only as kinky, but also as having very poor judgment and boundaries.

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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/3/2013 11:29:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		All of the things about Outing myself, I'm prepared to deal with and will accept responsibility for my part in this affair and matter. I had not actually raped her... I could not do it. The blind fold coming off... and embracing her. To show her that I was which showed up, instead of sadistic fuck was all the difference in the world.



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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/3/2013 11:31:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		But if she cries rape... what are you going to do? She has plenty of evidence that you were all up for it. All she has to say is that once she got there, she changed her mind, and you raped her because, by George, you were going to get what she agreed too.

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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/3/2013 11:34:30 PM   
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quote:

I had first encountered this amazing Girl though a CL listings, we talked
for many hours. Got a good sense of limits and whatnot. We were going
to hook up last Sunday. Things fell apart.

How come?

quote:

I had responded to another CL listing (similar in nature) on Monday.
I had asked her if it was a AD for her, just to make certain before
responding to it.

How did you suspect the Ad was for her?

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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/4/2013 12:23:59 AM   
Whiplashsmile4


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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl
But if she cries rape... what are you going to do? She has plenty of evidence that you were all up for it. All she has to say is that once she got there, she changed her mind, and you raped her because, by George, you were going to get what she agreed too.


I have text messages and proof that she wanted to make ceratin I made it home safe and sound afterwards! Have copies of stuff which prove otherwise..
I'm not worried about this at all... My ass is covered here..

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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/4/2013 12:26:51 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4

All of the things about Outing myself, I'm prepared to deal with and will accept responsibility for my part in this affair and matter. I had not actually raped her... I could not do it. The blind fold coming off... and embracing her. To show her that I was which showed up, instead of sadistic fuck was all the difference in the world.




I understand you hadn't actually raped her, but there's some pretty damning evidence against you if she decides to claim that whatever you did was without her consent.

Your thinking about it being better that you turned up and not 'some sadistic fuck' is flawed. Your presence on this one occasion did not negate the chances of other sadistic fucks being involved. You seem to be using the logic that this man was putting her in danger and she had no idea, so you went in as the good guy to rescue her. Firstly I suspect she knew exactly what was going on all along, but if she didn't, you realise that you even turning up and starting the scene, however briefly, is still a massive breach of her trust? If you thought she was in danger from this, or wasn't fully on board, why didn't you get in touch and say 'Hey, I've noticed this ad and it seems to be about you, I wanted to check that you know about it and that no one is trying to hurt you'.

Even as you whipped off the blindfold to reveal yourself, all she knows of you is a six hour conversation. That wouldn't be enough to confirm for me that you WEREN'T some sadistic fuck - the fact that you went along with it even for a moment would terrify me.

I guess I just can't fathom why turning up and playing with this woman was your response to believing that she is in danger/someone is trying to get her raped/she's being coerced into sex with strangers. Not only is that far from the moral high ground, it also put yourself in a risky situation. I'm kinda surprised that this story doesn't end with you getting beaten and robbed. It may still end with you being blackmailed with your (fake) confession of rape.

Either way, it's not up to you to report this to anyone. She clearly has access to phones and the internet and time alone. She has the options to make reports if she wishes.

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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/4/2013 12:29:42 AM   
Whiplashsmile4


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ORIGINAL: Greta75

quote:

I had first encountered this amazing Girl though a CL listings, we talked
for many hours. Got a good sense of limits and whatnot. We were going
to hook up last Sunday. Things fell apart.

How come?

quote:

I had responded to another CL listing (similar in nature) on Monday.
I had asked her if it was a AD for her, just to make certain before
responding to it.

How did you suspect the Ad was for her?



Her son got Hurt.. and she needed to go get him.. so that's why the meetup on Sunday not happen.
I have a text message from her about how she had really really wanted to hook and and be together
on SUNDAY... plus text messages from her asking if I was going to be bringing my Restraints and other
play toys. Messages from a couple of days leading up to it.

I suspected the AD was for her.. because of how similar yet different the AD was... I had asked her
if it was for Her.. she said Nope. Just in case I went and responded to it as another kinky hookup.

But still it was rather strange how much these two listings had in common for the area, and it was
for the a girl of the same age. Hope this answers your questions.






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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/4/2013 12:34:38 AM   
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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/4/2013 12:41:59 AM   
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Her son got Hurt.. and she needed to go get him.. so that's why the meetup on Sunday not happen.
I have a text message from her about how she had really really wanted to hook and and be together
on SUNDAY... plus text messages from her asking if I was going to be bringing my Restraints and other
play toys. Messages from a couple of days leading up to it.

I suspected the AD was for her.. because of how similar yet different the AD was... I had asked her
if it was for Her.. she said Nope. Just in case I went and responded to it as another kinky hookup.

But still it was rather strange how much these two listings had in common for the area, and it was
for the a girl of the same age. Hope this answers your questions.


Understanding the scenario alot better now...., here is the thing, if you want to go to authorities, she is infact the person you need to discuss this plan with. Is she okay with that? I mean..., it sounds like she just got herself into some major mess, and if you step in, you are putting your life on the line for her. It's very romantic and heroic, but...., it's alot to give for a girl you barely know and you don't even know if she is in cahoots with these men or is she a genuine victim?


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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/4/2013 12:49:23 AM   
Whiplashsmile4


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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders


quote:

ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4

All of the things about Outing myself, I'm prepared to deal with and will accept responsibility for my part in this affair and matter. I had not actually raped her... I could not do it. The blind fold coming off... and embracing her. To show her that I was which showed up, instead of sadistic fuck was all the difference in the world.




I understand you hadn't actually raped her, but there's some pretty damning evidence against you if she decides to claim that whatever you did was without her consent.

Your thinking about it being better that you turned up and not 'some sadistic fuck' is flawed. Your presence on this one occasion did not negate the chances of other sadistic fucks being involved. You seem to be using the logic that this man was putting her in danger and she had no idea, so you went in as the good guy to rescue her. Firstly I suspect she knew exactly what was going on all along, but if she didn't, you realise that you even turning up and starting the scene, however briefly, is still a massive breach of her trust? If you thought she was in danger from this, or wasn't fully on board, why didn't you get in touch and say 'Hey, I've noticed this ad and it seems to be about you, I wanted to check that you know about it and that no one is trying to hurt you'.

Even as you whipped off the blindfold to reveal yourself, all she knows of you is a six hour conversation. That wouldn't be enough to confirm for me that you WEREN'T some sadistic fuck - the fact that you went along with it even for a moment would terrify me.

I guess I just can't fathom why turning up and playing with this woman was your response to believing that she is in danger/someone is trying to get her raped/she's being coerced into sex with strangers. Not only is that far from the moral high ground, it also put yourself in a risky situation. I'm kinda surprised that this story doesn't end with you getting beaten and robbed. It may still end with you being blackmailed with your (fake) confession of rape.

Either way, it's not up to you to report this to anyone. She clearly has access to phones and the internet and time alone. She has the options to make reports if she wishes.


These are all great points!! She had text message me before how she really had been looking forward to hooking and being with me. I did not text message her that I was going to be the phone showing up because I wanted it to be a pleasant suprise. Plus, I had wondered if she was behind both ads. I did text message her on my way there... Saying Hi! and got one back from her... saying hi back at me.. that she was crashed out in bed.

I sincerely, if I could do it all over again. Would have contacted and let her know it was me that was showing up!! Instead of playing it as a surprise!! She truely was greatful and so Happy to discover it was me! So yeah, she had actually thought I had wanted nothing to do with her.. and she was a little bummed about it. So it made it a great awesome surprise for me. I had complete trust that I was not going to be beaten and robbed. I know there is a risk of be being perhaps Blackmailed with my Fake Confession of rape. But that's through the other party. All the emails between her and I were about how we pulled the wool over these other guys eyes. (in contrast to any confession to them)... LOL

I'm willing to have my PC turned inside out to prove this, along with Cell phone text messages... This is all stuff which can get sorted out by the authorities. I not have a problem with this high level of transparency. I'd rather go through all this shit... than let something truly truly awful happen to her ass.

There are a number of things where I feel I could have made better choices in walking the higher ground. It's walking the high ground in the end dispite all else.. which matters to me the most right now. Else, I'll truly have no soul in the matter. I am more than prepared to be drilled and undergo this type of scrutiny. This is the price to being accountable for things. I don't have a problem being held accountable for what I did or could have done better.

I'm going for full transparency on my part... screw worrying about trying to hide shit nor not take responsibility. At the very least. I'll be able to live with myself in the end. Hope this makes sense.



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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/4/2013 12:53:22 AM   
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Walk away!


This is what I have done with her. I outright told her... in text messages.. That I was done with this madness. Was blowing things up and moving on. Too much for me to deal with. No doubling back into my life. I want her to be gone!! I also want to make certain whatever mess she got herself into is gone as well for her own good. I wish her nor anybody any harm.

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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/4/2013 12:56:00 AM   
AllisonWilder


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Status: offline 		So you didn't actually rape her, but you were planning to and you think that's okay? Just because you 'couldn't get it up' doesn't make things okay. It's still attempted rape. I'm just completely fucking baffled about you wanting to save her but turning up to try to rape her anyway. Why not just talk to her before you tried to put your penis in her? Common sense, get some.

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RE: Doing the right thing... - 6/4/2013 1:00:45 AM   
Whiplashsmile4


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Status: offline 		I just got off the phone with a Girl at the National Sexual Assault Hotline!! It was an intense conversation... Yes tell her that I'm into BDSM and kinky stuff and explain to her all this madness.

The girl brought up a good point, that there's a good chance that these Guys are doing the same things with other women!!
That this is not right. So, what I've embarked upon make spare other women of the same treatment and use.

I need to contact the main office during business hours for somebody which can be of more assistance tomorrow,
and I'm also going to waive my right to keeping this confidential.. where they are free to share this information
and my interaction with authorities. I want a high degree of transparency to exist. However, I'm going to go
with the advice that the National Sexual Assault Online is going to provide.




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