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RE: how often do you contact your dom - 6/17/2013 2:26:19 PM

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Of those three places I know of zero lol!

Ps I wish this thread would mysteriously delete already, but the admins dont love me haha

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RE: how often do you contact your dom - 6/17/2013 3:27:51 PM

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On Fetlife, if you type your nearest city into the search box, it brings up a screen where you can choose from people, groups or events. They will have munches/socials etc listed within the groups and events categories.

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RE: how often do you contact your dom - 6/17/2013 3:57:22 PM

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You do ok on there?

I know a nice profilemessaged me,maybe that person knows something about them too

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RE: how often do you contact your dom - 6/17/2013 4:09:02 PM

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I use it as kinky Facebook. When we lived close to LA, we were very active in the community. So, it's a good way to stay in touch.

But, it really is the best place to find events.

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RE: how often do you contact your dom - 6/17/2013 4:13:55 PM

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Im not sure Im ready for events. Im still sitting out a bit.

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RE: how often do you contact your dom - 6/17/2013 4:15:19 PM

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Munches/socials are easy. It's usually held in a restaurant and it's just people talking and getting to know each other.

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RE: how often do you contact your dom - 6/17/2013 4:19:37 PM

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Ohhhhh lol. If you knew what I thoughtlol

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RE: how often do you contact your dom - 6/17/2013 4:41:46 PM

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Munches/socials are easy. It's usually held in a restaurant and it's just people talking and getting to know each other.

Sounds very easy if you are a gregarious type of person.
In principal, I agree.
But if you don't have that level of confidence or just aren't the gregarious type, it's asking the impossible.

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RE: how often do you contact your dom - 6/17/2013 5:03:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: goodgirlmary

In the summer,we cant see each other much.i get that.but i long for the conversation we used to have.so ill message him several times a day sometimes.is that too much?should i wait for himto message me?what are the dom sub boundaries on this?

I say this to all the subs who submit questions like this to the forums: DISCUSS IT WITH YOUR DOMINANT, not with STRANGERS. You should have an open enough communication channel with your D by the time you decide to submit that you feel you can ask questions like this and he should be setting up some sort of rules for you to follow. Doing things the way OTHERS prefer is not necessarily the way your DOMINANT wants you to do things. How do we know he isn't batshit crazy and ENJOYS you pestering him frequently? Maybe that's his fetish.

For Mine, I usually set up a daily or weekly "REPORT IN" arrangement, depending on their vanilla activities. Obviously family/job takes priority, we all have that to deal with. Contact frequency depends on what Tasks I have them working on so I can monitor progress...if they are diabetic and trying to improve their BG levels, then I want daily check-ins so I can get their results. Weight loss, usually 3 or 4 times a week. G.E.D. depends on if they are struggling with something and need tutoring. I usually keep the computer on and most of Mine still check in almost daily to at least say "Hi Mistress" and then again at night to say "Goodnight". I'm on a big "BRUSH YOUR FUCKING TEETH" thing right now due to My discovering a couple of them have tooth issues, so I remind them nightly as well as frequently during the day, Drop everything and go brush them---NOW!!!

But like I said, that's O/our arrangement. You and yours need to make your own.

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RE: how often do you contact your dom - 6/17/2013 5:14:57 PM

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What are thry like?

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RE: how often do you contact your dom - 6/17/2013 5:16:10 PM

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