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ORIGINAL: ARIES83

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ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

and #3. .............. you're Australian - what would you know about anything!

HOW DARE EWE

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
Bit of a woolly

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ORIGINAL: Focus50



'Cause this one's called "Mob Mentality".

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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

Im running low in Focus induced intelligence

What is really starting to get to me with you is that, yes, there are a few... few... who are into the attack mode almost all the time. Think its not noticed? of course it is... but its not the majority of women on these threads. You know me, I call em out on that bullshit when its aimed at me. But Im not here to protect the newer people. I answer questions to the best of my ability. Sure, I get snarky every once in a while. Even had a post pulled yesterday (politics) for making the poster the topic.

What I find interesting is, as I looked around at the other threads, the amount of men who are playing into the attack mode.... via agreement with others. Its not always subtle.... and yet no one seems to notice... or mind.

Now, I really have to wonder how much of this "discussion" for you is personal.

But as to the other. Honestly, if we were discussing a newbie who posted they were into..say... impregnating their 18 year old slave. No issue, right? Then you discover that said slave is also their daughter because its on their profile. Do you still not have an issue?

Should only one person speak out against that?

Should no one because its a kink and they are both adults?

In that scenario, I could care less what two adults screw... as long as both are adults and both are consenting, with the legal ability to consent. I would have massive issues with the impregnation part and would be quite vocal about that aspect. Its my field. if I and 3 others speak out against that part, and others speak out against the "incest"... is it still ganging up?

Actually, your post in 38 didnt cover my question.

Not being the kinda Dom who'd intentionally get under a sub's skin....

Scratch that.

Well yeah, your question is predominantly a hypothetical. I didn't address your actual hypothetical but between here and those 2 other related threads, I felt sure you'd have the gist of my views by now.

It's a matter of where the line is drawn. The Mods have their version and I had my own. Not being one to turn a blind eye to a cowardly attack, to "cross the street" etc makes me a White Knight, apparently. I'd venture there's a line in there, too. <shrugs>

Anyway, a common theme to a particular topic question becomes a gang attack on the person asking the question. Blaming me for harping on about it is to blame that newbie OP for keeping the thread going by not running away. I'm wrong and she's wrong because there are more saying the opposite? And this is where I point out that I never once said any of you were wrong for your views on cheating, but the way those views were being expressed, yeah, I said plenty.

Sexyred openly stated she didn't address the topic at all because the topic had been done "adnauseum". Apparently I'm to conclude that even more CM regulars piling into that newbie OP had yet to be done "adnauseum" enough.

Give up?

Focus.

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ORIGINAL: Rawni

What time of the month? Full moons?

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And this is where I point out that I never once said any of you were wrong for your views on cheating, but the way those views were being expressed, yeah, I said plenty.

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Sexyred openly stated she didn't address the topic at all because the topic had been done "adnauseum". Apparently I'm to conclude that even more CM regulars piling into that newbie OP had yet to be done "adnauseum" enough.

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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ORIGINAL: Focus50



'Cause this one's called "Mob Mentality".

Focus,

I was just wondering whether you'd noticed that the women here, particularly, gang up on someone at a particular time of the month. I've never noticed such a thing myself, I should say. And since I still have some fondness for my life, I probably won't notice it in the future, either.

The main thing is, you put my name to this.

We Doms have inbuilt antennae for detecting sub manipulation. You don't know that????

I'm also very capable of walking into my own shit-storms.

You don't know that, either?

Focus.

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ORIGINAL: ARIES83

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ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

and #3. .............. you're Australian - what would you know about anything!

HOW DARE EWE

OK - I cry mob mentality here - the Aussies are piling on me - its not fair, there's just one of me and two of them and they are both men and and i', just a woman and its not fairrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!


Ha!

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

If one more person tries to call participation in the forum a mob mentality, I am going to go medieval on them!

I should make allowances for you not being accustomed to posting on topic recently?

'Cause this one's called "Mob Mentality".

Hmmmm, no "tossing a hand grenade" gif thingy....

Focus.

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And this is where I point out that I never once said any of you were wrong for your views on cheating, but the way those views were being expressed, yeah, I said plenty.

Where did I say she was wrong for cheating? All of my posts remained, as far as I can tell.

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Sexyred openly stated she didn't address the topic at all because the topic had been done "adnauseum". Apparently I'm to conclude that even more CM regulars piling into that newbie OP had yet to be done "adnauseum" enough.

Yep, I caught that too. I bet if you shift through that thread again, you can find about 3 others that might fit your complaint. The rest? Nope, not in my opinion.
The problem is, your attack on the mob mentality was a blanket attack. Why not address the individuals? They certainly do not have a problem addressing the OP. I could run down the list... you seem to believe people are blind. Im not blind, nor am I stupid, and I really resent being treated as such. You cloaked your attack in a manner you felt would have the biggest effect in shutting people up. Problem was, you were trying to shut up those who never should have been a part of your attack.

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I did not address the topic, because I did not need to since it was addressed ad nauseum by everyone else.

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

I think Tazzygirl is right, this whole thing is personal for you.

I have never seen you this active.

Having a lot of attention is fun, right?

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And this is where I point out that I never once said any of you were wrong for your views on cheating, but the way those views were being expressed, yeah, I said plenty.

Where did I say she was wrong for cheating? All of my posts remained, as far as I can tell.

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Sexyred openly stated she didn't address the topic at all because the topic had been done "adnauseum". Apparently I'm to conclude that even more CM regulars piling into that newbie OP had yet to be done "adnauseum" enough.

Yep, I caught that too. I bet if you shift through that thread again, you can find about 3 others that might fit your complaint. The rest? Nope, not in my opinion.
The problem is, your attack on the mob mentality was a blanket attack. Why not address the individuals? They certainly do not have a problem addressing the OP. I could run down the list... you seem to believe people are blind. Im not blind, nor am I stupid, and I really resent being treated as such. You cloaked your attack in a manner you felt would have the biggest effect in shutting people up. Problem was, you were trying to shut up those who never should have been a part of your attack.

WTF? You caught what? Are you being a total hypocrite or what?

Wow, I think you have drank the Focus Kool-Aid since I was out all day.

Why are you even discussing me?

I have been completely upfront about what I said, why I said it and now somehow, I have become the Queen of Mob Mentality.

That is hilarious.

Honestly, I could give a fuck what you or Focus think about my posting; only the Mods have a say in that.

You are being hypocritical because you are at the heart of many of these fun threads and now you are agreeing with Focus, who seems obsessed with my posts for some unknown reason.

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And in 9 years of predominantly coming to CM for the discussion forums, you've got double my posts in less time and tazzy's got 5 times yours again.

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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

The problem is, your attack on the mob mentality was a blanket attack. Why not address the individuals? They certainly do not have a problem addressing the OP. I could run down the list... you seem to believe people are blind. Im not blind, nor am I stupid, and I really resent being treated as such. You cloaked your attack in a manner you felt would have the biggest effect in shutting people up. Problem was, you were trying to shut up those who never should have been a part of your attack.

Because it's individuals acting on a common theme. And as I just said to sexyred, I'm neither obliged nor so stupid as to feel I should make 10 responses to their individual one. If they're acting as a mob (and they were IMO), I address them/it as such and just choose individual posts to make my point.

As for the rest here; about you apparently being blind and stupid and of me "cloaking" anything etc - I concede you've completely lost me....

Focus.