Focus50
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Joined: 12/28/2004 From: Newcastle, Australia Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: sexyred1 What the mod said about attacking the post and not the poster is the issue. I get it. Well yeah, I made that point, too, maybe it was even to you. Not sure; had a few posts nuked by the Admins. Including how I like your new avatar. Ruthless Chi! Or poise.... Or...? quote:
Problem is, some posters take criticism of the post way too personally and then it all turns bad for them. These "some posters" are all too often newbies. Not knowing how the system works defines their newbie-ism. And I'm at least one who can't and won't blame them for that. quote:
Read all the posts where someone asks a question people answer their opinion and then, POW, they say OMG you are all so mean! Nothing can help people who post expecting all hearts and flowers agreement from all. Again, blaming newbies for being new. And I'm sure it's not just me who can see considerable acreage between "all hearts and flowers agreement" and the gang-bashing of regulars on newbie. Focus.
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Never underestimate the persuasive power of stupid people in large groups. <unknown> Your food is for eating, not torturing. <my mum> (Errm, when I was a kid)
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