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BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/29/2006 8:22:56 AM)

Thanks for the cute visuals [8D] .  M



zenofeller -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/29/2006 8:25:51 AM)

well that thread somehow mysteriously didn't end up one gazzilion terrabytes worth of...uhh... ymmv i guess.

but i will anyway.



MistressOfGa -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/29/2006 8:35:10 AM)

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Girl it's all personal to someone somewhere.  I'm outraged... Not sure at what yet, but I'll think of it. [:'(]


Oh this is priceless!! lol if ever there is a thread about the funniest things said...oh wait..there was..well this one should be added to it <s>

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It takes much more skill and commitment to do that because the issues and remedies aren't "sexy". The rewards are so much greater, however, and the relationships themselves seem to be  so much more interesting.
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Well thank God you're here to tell us what it takes to be a dominant, and the motives one ought to have when into wiitwd.    You must be very special to have such clarity.   M

 
No, I take it back. THIS is the best of the thread. BTF, I love your sense of humor and wit. Thank you for making me laugh first thing this morning :)






MistressOfGa -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/29/2006 8:39:25 AM)

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ORIGINAL: zenofeller

ok, let me try and end this monstrosity already


ok ?


You know, there are some men who just shot a load in their pants looking at these photos, they like them so much. You think you are being insulting, but in fact, you just gave some guy some wanking material.
 
Ok?



mnottertail -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/29/2006 8:41:20 AM)

I used to go with a girl that looked like the first picture once, but she was mean so I left her.



BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/29/2006 8:44:47 AM)

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BTF, I love your sense of humor and wit. Thank you for making me laugh first thing this morning :)
Thank you MOG, I'm glad to have passed along the laughter TexasMaam gave me this morning. [:)]  M



zenofeller -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/29/2006 8:54:11 AM)

no ga, i wasn't thinking i'm insulting anyone. and someone shooting in their pants doesn't prove i failed to insult anyone, if indeed i was after that.

not a great psychic, not a great dialectician.



LiliesDoGrow -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/29/2006 8:55:51 AM)

If Mr. Rogers and Tom Hanks had a kid, it would be you.




LiliesDoGrow -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/29/2006 8:57:44 AM)

But do the pictures represent the  "fair share" of BDSM women?



MistressOfGa -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/29/2006 8:58:48 AM)

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not a great psychic, not a great dialectician.


I like a man who knows his limitations. Try not to be too hard on yourself.



BBBTBW -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/29/2006 9:05:10 AM)

Other than the recent thread he started, I like Zenofeller, he makes me chuckle a bit.  Too bad he is DOMINANT though, cuz I would definitely try to woo him into my fold, or is that folds (Immuah big girl 6'1 300 lbs) LOL

Ms Loren



midniterider7 -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/29/2006 9:05:39 AM)

Things that make you say "Hmmmmmm"



litleone8620 -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/29/2006 9:35:00 AM)

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ORIGINAL: BBBTBW




So what are you saying? Are you saying that overweight subs are more likely to eat ice cream than any other subs? Ugh, how incredibly close minded of you. [:D]

QD, as much as we all want this thread to disappear into the night, it's not going to. There will be new people coming in who didn't catch it the first time around, and will want to post their opinion.

Good try though.



There will also be those that have posted about a dozen times and complain that they want it to end yet CONTINUE to post.

If you are tired of it, stop reading it and stop posting to it.  Plain and simple.


If you had read the rest of my posts after the one you're commenting on, i've since changed my mind. I am a woman, and allowed to do that.




BossySSBBW -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/29/2006 9:42:08 AM)

Perhaps it could be from being ignored by men who though they were too good for us in our younger years, or just wanting to "hold the reins" so to speak in a relationship.  To be worshipped now as we should have been then.
Or maybe we just like the power of having men do as we say, when we say.
For me the sex part of the relationship is lagniappe as we say down here in Louisiana.  The power is the thing I look for.
For the most part I have found that in my younger days, men let society and their friends lead their lives.  Now that they have matured, they find that their tastes were different than they allowed themselves to know. 
Or now it is just the fact that the population is growing larger everyday not just in procreation ways...lol.



zenofeller -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/29/2006 10:00:58 AM)

i appreciate the all caps dominant :)



Dnomyar -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/29/2006 11:22:45 AM)

Im very happy with the way I am and how I look. If someone finds a flaw in me then it is their flaw not mine. It is a flaw that they would find in thmeselfes and try to put it on another person.



MistressSassy66 -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/29/2006 11:54:16 AM)

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ORIGINAL: agirl

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ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66

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ORIGINAL: agirl




Hello zumala,

I agree. There's a few people at my gym that are a LOT fitter than I am even though they look *fatter* than I do. Having said that ...... It's not too hard to tell someone that's sporting a lot of fat from someone that's sporting a lot of muscle.

Apart from medical issues, people are generally over-weight because they eat too much or too much of the type of food that will result in weight gain and they do not move around enough. You can gorge on lambs lettuce and barely gain an ounce...... if you gorge on choc, you'll pile it on.

For most people ( not all, ok)....it's perfectly possible to be whatever *size* you wish to be, for your genetic build.........being fat is attainable , being slim is attainable, being fit is attainable........ it's mostly choice.

agirl








I hate to tell you this...but its not just medical conditions that make people
big.There is family history,genectics and metabolism.

And not to mention it matters whatever you 'gorge' on you can get fat.
Even if its just fruit...overeating is overeating no matter what food is on your plate.
Moderation and exercise are the keys to staying fit.




 Hello MistressSassy,

I know this ......(Have you TRIED gorging on lambs lettuce?...lol)

I also mentioned genetic build.

I spoke *generally* and made that clear .

Evenso, for the majority of over-weight people, what i said, still is the case.

agirl







No I havent actually..should I?...LOL

"Generally speaking you can be any size you want to.....Its mostly choice."

I just cant agree with that. So agreeing to disagree will be the best thing.



agirl -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/29/2006 2:49:41 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66

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ORIGINAL: agirl

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ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66

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ORIGINAL: agirl




Hello zumala,

I agree. There's a few people at my gym that are a LOT fitter than I am even though they look *fatter* than I do. Having said that ...... It's not too hard to tell someone that's sporting a lot of fat from someone that's sporting a lot of muscle.

Apart from medical issues, people are generally over-weight because they eat too much or too much of the type of food that will result in weight gain and they do not move around enough. You can gorge on lambs lettuce and barely gain an ounce...... if you gorge on choc, you'll pile it on.

For most people ( not all, ok)....it's perfectly possible to be whatever *size* you wish to be, for your genetic build.........being fat is attainable , being slim is attainable, being fit is attainable........ it's mostly choice.

agirl








I hate to tell you this...but its not just medical conditions that make people
big.There is family history,genectics and metabolism.

And not to mention it matters whatever you 'gorge' on you can get fat.
Even if its just fruit...overeating is overeating no matter what food is on your plate.
Moderation and exercise are the keys to staying fit.




 Hello MistressSassy,

I know this ......(Have you TRIED gorging on lambs lettuce?...lol)

I also mentioned genetic build.

I spoke *generally* and made that clear .

Evenso, for the majority of over-weight people, what i said, still is the case.

agirl







No I havent actually..should I?...LOL

"Generally speaking you can be any size you want to.....Its mostly choice."

I just cant agree with that. So agreeing to disagree will be the best thing.


Hi again,

Well, It IS rather nice...but I've never gorged on it either..lol

I didn't actually say what you typed....I've highlighted  my original statement.

Obviously someone with a large frame genetically will not be slender and willowy and if you have  broad shoulders and slim hips, that's just your shape.........just as some people are wonderfully curvy and some, straight up and down.


But I'm content to agree to disagree too.

Regards, agirl



Invictus754 -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/29/2006 8:40:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
How does a person having a vice equate to not being able to be a master in a relationship?

That's like saying a slave can't have kids because having to take care of the kids will take priority over taking care of the master.

Your conclusion does not in any logical way follow from your premise.


LuckyAlbatross,
I never thought I would say this (and it will probably shock you, too), but I agree with you. [:D]



Skier -> RE: Overweight bdsm women (6/29/2006 9:23:34 PM)

It's "logical" because, as I've stated a number of times, it's my opinion and  I defined the terms. Can a man or woman be a leader and have a vice...you bet. Sometimes I think certain vices are mandatory for them.  I'm sure we can think of a myriad of individuals who fit the bill. For me, someone can be a BDSM dominant or top...a CEO....a dictator....a president....a televangelist and have a vice(s).  But ya can't be a BDSM Master and be fat...or smoke....be addicted to drugs....engage in fiscal profligacy....drink too much...any number of things. Why? My definition and my standards. I'm not  advancing a universal philosophical position here. Excluding medical conditions that are genetic , smoking is the number one killer in this country followed by obesity. I have to  question the judgment of someone who chooses to continue smoking or remain obese. I simply cannot take them seriously as a BDSM Master/Mistress. Top? Dom/me? Yeah, but not a Master/Mistress. S/he can't be a Master because s/he hasn't sufficiently  mastered him/herself. My opinion. My definitions. My standards. Only mine.



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