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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/2/2013 2:32:36 PM   
UllrsIshtar


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Status: offline 		Oh another thing I just thought of:

When you're with a guy who does like the feeling of very deep penetration, it's often a lot of fun for both of you to use a masturbation sleeve that's cut to length to aid in that sensation. Something like this cut to the right length for you both: http://masturbationsleeve.net/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/handjob-stroker.jpg

That way you can focus on the part of his cock that you can easily take in your mouth without gagging, and use your tongue to stimulate the most sensitive parts of his cock, while your hand manipulates the sleeve on the bottom part of his cock in the same rhythm your mouth is going.

It will give a much better sensation that an actual deep-throat does, which still providing the feeling for him that he's penetrating all the way, without any chance of making you gag. So unless the guy is really after the fantasy of the deep-throat, or is into making you gag on purpose, it's the best of both worlds.

That's not to say that it's a bad idea to learn to control your gag reflex, but some women have a hard time doing that, AND it's not necessary at all to be able to deep-throat in order to give a guy the most mind-blowing head he's ever had.

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/2/2013 2:38:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thank you very much for all this good information :-). I will look into what you have said and look at the links you put up for me.

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/2/2013 2:41:20 PM   
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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/3/2013 12:04:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		On one of the early pages, she mentioned that her old boyfriend didn't like oral. I am in the same boat. I don't really like it (as in I'd much prefer to do something else). Although the idea of a woman being forced to swallow is kinda hot. I can imagine myself telling her to keep that mouth closed until I'm suck try lol. Maybe that's just because it's an opportunity to train my slave (and whip her ass for failing).

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/3/2013 2:27:18 AM   
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Do a lot of doms expect their subs to already be good at blow jobs? I mean if they have to teach me is it going to feel like too much trouble?


I'm one of those doms (or men) who doesn't much care for pondering what other dicks might've been in my girl's mouth. Am strange like that....

But I'm also a dom who'd much rather give her a throat fucking than receive a blow-job. So her technique is basically about maintaining a seal and being careful with her teeth and I take care of everything else. Gagging is permitted. ;)

And teaching my girl *anything* I need her to know is NEVER too much trouble. Anything new is an opportunity to fuck with her mind and I don't waste those....

Hmmm, blowjobs...? Puts her in quite a position of control and I'd rather she wasn't. So I tend to accept them in a vanilla way, where she even gets to keep her hands.

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/3/2013 3:43:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		Wait a minute!!! There is a difference between blow jobs and throat fucking??? Think I was only taught one of those...which is why my post seemed off

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/3/2013 3:56:34 AM   
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Yes there are different types - the blow jobs on the head and shaft with lots of tongue and deep throating or throat fucking where you're likely to gag
Of course most males want you to gag

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/3/2013 6:25:04 AM   
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Hmmm, blowjobs...? Puts her in quite a position of control and I'd rather she wasn't. So I tend to accept them in a vanilla way, where she even gets to keep her hands.


Hahahaha

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/3/2013 6:53:40 AM   
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Of course most males want you to gag



Not my experience at all. Out of about 50 or so 'test subjects' I've given bjs, I'd say less than 10% of men wants to consistently make you gag, less than 25% wants to occasionally make you gag on purpose, and more then half considers any gagging at all a cause for concern on their behalf and/or a turn off.


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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/3/2013 10:04:41 AM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks for your reply :-). I will keep that in mind.

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/3/2013 4:18:29 PM   
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I am not very experienced with blow jobs and I am hoping to get some advice on how to work through a really strong gag reflex and maybe some tips on how to get better at them. Any advice is welcome. Thanks in advance.


There's a technique?

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/3/2013 6:05:05 PM   
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man didn't like oral sex at all


That simply is NOT computing.

When Master and I got together years ago, He stated he didn't care for it either. He had never been gone down on by me (or anyone else who was as good at is as I am). That is not bragging, it is fact according to Him. He loved it from the first time we were together and it's something He enjoys more and more as time goes by. To quote Him: there IS such a thing as a bad blow job...........luci

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/3/2013 6:12:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SweetAngel43211

I am not very experienced with blow jobs and I am hoping to get some advice on how to work through a really strong gag reflex and maybe some tips on how to get better at them. Any advice is welcome. Thanks in advance.


Mine was triggered by two things, anything touching my tongue (other than food and drinks, lol), and...taste. Pre-ejaculate makes me gag. ;)

For the tongue problem, I handled it by...when I'm brushing my teeth, I brush my tongue. At first, I could only get in there 1/3 of the way before gagging. Within a few weeks or months I could take the brush all the way to the back of my throat. (This gag reduction I worked on only works with penises when they stay the f*ck still and let me do my thing; if the dude tries to take over, deciding when his penis is going to move...I will vomit all over his belly and dangly bits.)

For the pre-ejaculate, put an Altoids under your tongue or between your teeth and a cheek. It will kill the taste. There are also mint flavored condoms that are thinner and made for giving blow jobs, no need to clench up, worried that he will shoot his load into your mouth, gagging you silly. ;)

If you want to have a book in your hands, maybe read it with your boyfriend and try out stuff, I can recommend Tickle His Pickle. You can buy it on Amazon.com or Ebay.

I haven't read this entire thread yet...so I don't know if others offered links to library type archives that explain blowjob techniques. If you want them, I can probably find links, lol.

Try Youtube. I found some great links there to explain to guys about the G-spot and how to find it and stimulate it the right way.

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/3/2013 6:37:42 PM   
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I'm surprised no one has referred OP to Professor Ron's "BJ101: The Art of Sucking Cock (and no, we aren't talkin' roosters)" course

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/3/2013 7:38:08 PM   
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~FRing it~

I'm surprised no one has referred OP to Professor Ron's "BJ101: The Art of Sucking Cock (and no, we aren't talkin' roosters)" course


Missed when that one was posted. Never saw it. Will have to look it up later.
(going offline for a while to watch a movie)

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/3/2013 8:55:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks for the tips :-). I can't use most condoms because I am allergic to latex. But if they make them in non-latex materials that would be great :-).

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/4/2013 1:04:13 AM   
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man didn't like oral sex at all

That simply is NOT computing.


A man that does not like Oral? Really? My mind is fried now...



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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/4/2013 1:07:32 AM   
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Wait a minute!!! There is a difference between blow jobs and throat fucking??? Think I was only taught one of those...which is why my post seemed off


Don't forget licking, tonguing, kissing, stroking, swirling mouth, also... areas around the cock. Balls and even below the balls. So so much more involved. Some killer hand skills are involved with this too. Way Way more besides messy deep throat fucking. LOL

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/4/2013 1:42:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss

Wait a minute!!! There is a difference between blow jobs and throat fucking??? Think I was only taught one of those...which is why my post seemed off


Yes, I'd rather give than receive....

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/4/2013 2:04:20 AM   
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ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss

I typically do NOT like to be sexually graphic...but there is no other way to answer this...so forgive my vulgarity

My first Dom was HUGE and extremely into blow jobs...so his first thing was teaching me how to suck him and get it so I could put my forehead against his groin while doing so...the only thing that helps the gag reflex is desensitization through practice and that means..pushing at the back of your throat with a toothbrush, straw... Every day (just like exercise..want results...practice). Once you get past the gagging thing, you have to be able to maneuver your tongue (I said huge..I meant huge) but still keep your teeth covered. I practiced on water bottles. Once it is "show time"...position is everything...you must be able to open the entire throat so no scrunching down..laying on the bed with your head hanging off is one good way, another is kneeling in front of him if he is tall enough that you must work with your head back a little (think CPR...first thing they do is tilt the head back to open the airway). From there it is all what he likes...some like scraping teeth, some like suction, some like licking..

And if this posting doesn't make my popularity soar, I don't know what would!


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