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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/8/2013 12:39:14 PM

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Contracts... gotcha

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/8/2013 1:41:58 PM

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Contracts

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Oh used many. Owned 3. 2 released because contracts were done and had no desire to renew. 1 released because she was a lying little cunt that wouldn't straighten up no matter what. Stubborn lil twat she was. Why?

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/8/2013 2:13:46 PM

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Please refer your comments to the thread I started on the subject. Thanks

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/8/2013 4:37:28 PM

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Actually, I believe someone I know had, with his prior sub, an initial 12 month contract that they then evaluated at the end of the year and then signed a new one for an additional length of time...

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/8/2013 5:00:06 PM

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Slaves get contracts?

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/8/2013 5:16:46 PM

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Granted...I wasn't totally listening so I may have missed something but, I believe that initially they were D/s... I stick by my original belief, though, sometimes spelling out each party's expectations and responsibilities upfront can help to prevent future misunderstandings.

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/8/2013 5:39:05 PM

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Oh without a doubt, it can prevent misunderstandings. I just find contracts... silly (for lack of a better word)... because they arent enforceable. Anyone can still walk at any time.

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/8/2013 6:03:04 PM

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Anyone can still walk at anytime anyway. Unless they're being held against their will. Which is a no no even in consensual slavery. Which btw, in contract form it's referred to as voluntary servitude. Which is legal. But people can argue legalities til the cows come home. It makes no real difference. The point of a contract is to lay out what is and isn't expected of the submissive and dominant. In a hard written format. Because to read, agree and sign has a different meaning mentally than to just talk about it and commit. Which, with time, can become very ambiguous.

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/8/2013 6:26:45 PM

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We definitely think in different terms. I have been held against my will, because his will held me despite what my own desired. Didnt need a contract for that.

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/8/2013 6:59:38 PM

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And if you wished to press charges for that. He'd go to prison for unlawful imprisonment. Which seems kind of ironic actually

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/8/2013 7:00:31 PM

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lol... no... he didnt chain me... he didnt force me... he didnt coerce me... yet he did. There is nothing he would go to jail for

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If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/8/2013 7:09:18 PM

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I believe you missed her point completely.

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And if you wished to press charges for that. He'd go to prison for unlawful imprisonment. Which seems kind of ironic actually

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/8/2013 7:15:44 PM

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I fear the concept of "mastering" a slave is a lost one on many people.

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Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/8/2013 7:28:10 PM

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FR,

Here's the new contracts thread: http://www.collarchat.com/m_4491166/tm.htm

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/8/2013 11:04:51 PM

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And yes, there absolutely is something about the one sucking being in control of the act, which is the point I've been making. And that's ok in a vanilla sense (IMO); I've learnt to suffer through it. ;)

Oh poor baby! Having to suffer through a blow job! The horror!! The torment!! Im so sorry you had to go through that humiliating experience!!!!

I've always appreciated that you "get" me.

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/8/2013 11:09:54 PM

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Telling me to take Midol wont help your butthurt.
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Dont judge me because I sin differently than you.
If you want it sugar coated, dont ask me what i think! It would violate TOS.

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/8/2013 11:33:21 PM

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Not to mention that unless she's toothless, she always has the ability of taking control of the situation. She's not powerless, she's just choosing to forego her power right then.

True, I'm neither female nor submissive, but I'm still not entirely convinced this is the kind of (power-struggle) quandary going through the average fem/sub's mind at such times.

For that matter, some of us doms are quite particular about where we do stick our dicks - that any mouth open and (apparently) willing doesn't quite qualify. But that's me....

Focus.

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/9/2013 2:39:25 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Focus50

quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Not to mention that unless she's toothless, she always has the ability of taking control of the situation. She's not powerless, she's just choosing to forego her power right then.

True, I'm neither female nor submissive, but I'm still not entirely convinced this is the kind of (power-struggle) quandary going through the average fem/sub's mind at such times.

For that matter, some of us doms are quite particular about where we do stick our dicks - that any mouth open and (apparently) willing doesn't quite qualify. But that's me....

Focus.

Not that I'd call myself average (of for a matter of fact, submissive these days), but I've been known to bite, especially during rape play scenes.

And not to gloat, cause every guy is obviously different, and if it doesn't work for your headspace, it's obviously not going to work but... my ex boyfriend was convinced he didn't like blow jobs and couldn't reach orgasm from them. Until I finally convinced him to let me. It took a while (at least until I got to know his quirks a little better) but I easily got him off. Apparently he just never had had a decent blow job... and not by lack of sexual partners either.

Also for me personally, getting throat fucked is far less of a submissive act than giving a man a blow job unrestricted in any way.
That's because I get off on force, and am likely to see a bound throat fuck being as much the guy servicing my kinks as I am his. A 'voluntary' blow job on the other hand... that's all service... and it's all pleasing him. The only thing I may get out of that -and it's not even a given that I will- is the pleasure in pleasing him. It's far more one-sided focussed all on him, than the 'fair exchange' I consider forced throat fucks to be.

< Message edited by UllrsIshtar -- 7/9/2013 2:40:04 AM >

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/9/2013 3:33:05 AM

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar
Also for me personally, getting throat fucked is far less of a submissive act than giving a man a blow job unrestricted in any way.
That's because I get off on force, and am likely to see a bound throat fuck being as much the guy servicing my kinks as I am his. A 'voluntary' blow job on the other hand... that's all service... and it's all pleasing him. The only thing I may get out of that -and it's not even a given that I will- is the pleasure in pleasing him. It's far more one-sided focussed all on him, than the 'fair exchange' I consider forced throat fucks to be.

Christ all mighty-I just love the way slaves think.

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RE: Blow job techniques - 7/9/2013 3:47:21 AM

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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar
Also for me personally, getting throat fucked is far less of a submissive act than giving a man a blow job unrestricted in any way.
That's because I get off on force, and am likely to see a bound throat fuck being as much the guy servicing my kinks as I am his. A 'voluntary' blow job on the other hand... that's all service... and it's all pleasing him. The only thing I may get out of that -and it's not even a given that I will- is the pleasure in pleasing him. It's far more one-sided focussed all on him, than the 'fair exchange' I consider forced throat fucks to be.

I never thought of it that way but oh yeah!!! I love the throat fucking for the same reason...I get off on being forced, used, owned...the aggression that he uses on me so I guess that is probably in the "things that get me horny & happy" category.... Not the same as me giving him a back rub... I guess that means that the offer of a back rub has more meaning as a "gift" then the "throat fucking"
BUT DAMMIT- Now I have to find him a new birthday present!!

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