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TieMeInKnottss -> RE: Blow job techniques (7/4/2013 2:10:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Focus50 quote: ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss Wait a minute!!! There is a difference between blow jobs and throat fucking??? Think I was only taught one of those...which is why my post seemed off Yes, I'd rather give than receive.... [8D] Mr Generosity. Seriously? I would have thought you would be a fan of receiving[:D]. As a Dom, is it the control aspect that makes you prefer to perform oral sex.... One oddity that I have learned is that, in the vanilla world, all men seem to like getting blow jobs & all women seem to like to give them but here, in the Land of Kink....oral sex is more of a control issue & a pretty good number of doms seem to dislike. I should start a poll down in the Random section.....

Focus50 -> RE: Blow job techniques (7/4/2013 5:10:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss quote: ORIGINAL: Focus50 quote: ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss Wait a minute!!! There is a difference between blow jobs and throat fucking??? Think I was only taught one of those...which is why my post seemed off Yes, I'd rather give than receive.... [8D] Mr Generosity. Seriously? I would have thought you would be a fan of receiving[:D]. As a Dom, is it the control aspect that makes you prefer to perform oral sex.... One oddity that I have learned is that, in the vanilla world, all men seem to like getting blow jobs & all women seem to like to give them but here, in the Land of Kink....oral sex is more of a control issue & a pretty good number of doms seem to dislike. I should start a poll down in the Random section..... Well yeah, when I'm in "dom mode", everything is about control. Plus I may have been accused of being some sorta control freak in my vanilla past, anyway.... And I'm not the one who's performing oral sex so much as applying all the energy. Not that she has a lot of options as a throat-fucking will at the very least include her hands tied behind while mine have a firm grip of her hair or head. Now if there's a more affective way to physically personify control of Dom over sub than to have her naked, bound and kneeling such that she can see herself in my big mirrors while I've got her by the hair and forcing my cock down her throat, I've yet to hear of it. 'Cause there's a lot more than sexual gratification going on here. A LOT more.... Plus I get some kind of weird thrill in having her orally clean my equipment after, while she's down there.... Now if the girl wants to express any perceived bj technique, she can do that as my vanilla partner. Since there's no control aspect in play, she can be "bad" to her heart's content. Focus.

tazzygirl -> RE: Blow job techniques (7/4/2013 12:03:36 PM)
"Bad"? I have been called many things, but "bad" at giving head... never. There is something about taking control of that act.... about a guy simply laying back and enjoying... I like to see how long I can keep him on the edge, using various techniques, listening for what pleases him most. And, yes, thats pretty easy to tell. I dont like quick blod jobs... I love to draw them out. Cock worship is an art form.

Focus50 -> RE: Blow job techniques (7/4/2013 9:50:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl "Bad"? I have been called many things, but "bad" at giving head... never. There is something about taking control of that act.... about a guy simply laying back and enjoying... I like to see how long I can keep him on the edge, using various techniques, listening for what pleases him most. And, yes, thats pretty easy to tell. I dont like quick blod jobs... I love to draw them out. Cock worship is an art form. The concept of "bad" (= good) dates back to the seventies. You weren't about then? I checked your profile for an age clue, BUT, you know.... And yes, there absolutely is something about the one sucking being in control of the act, which is the point I've been making. And that's ok in a vanilla sense (IMO); I've learnt to suffer through it. ;) Where'd "quick" become a subject issue? Giving or receiving, I'm usually not in any rush to get there. Just the same, I think you're giving up too many trade secrets when we haven't even been on that first date yet. A little mystery, please...! [8D] Focus.

TieMeInKnottss -> RE: Blow job techniques (7/5/2013 5:28:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Focus50 quote: ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss quote: ORIGINAL: Focus50 quote: ORIGINAL: TieMeInKnottss Wait a minute!!! There is a difference between blow jobs and throat fucking??? Think I was only taught one of those...which is why my post seemed off Well yeah, when I'm in "dom mode", everything is about control. Plus I may have been accused of being some sorta control freak in my vanilla past, anyway.... And I'm not the one who's performing oral sex so much as applying all the energy. Not that she has a lot of options as a throat-fucking will at the very least include her hands tied behind while mine have a firm grip of her hair or head. Now if there's a more affective way to physically personify control of Dom over sub than to have her naked, bound and kneeling such that she can see herself in my big mirrors while I've got her by the hair and forcing my cock down her throat, I've yet to hear of it. 'Cause there's a lot more than sexual gratification going on here. A LOT more.... Plus I get some kind of weird thrill in having her orally clean my equipment after, while she's down there.... Now if the girl wants to express any perceived bj technique, she can do that as my vanilla partner. Since there's no control aspect in play, she can be "bad" to her heart's content. Focus. You and my first Dom have a LOT in common!!!![:D]

CelticPrince -> RE: Blow job techniques (7/7/2013 2:39:51 PM)
SA, A blow Job?? Well how about a face fuck! Best method is practice on a dildo and it will come a lot easier! CP

SimplyMichael -> RE: Blow job techniques (7/7/2013 4:53:54 PM)
Ron Jeremy has a swingers resort in Oregon called Club Sasso and a friend teaches classes on blowjobs, she has a CD I think and she is on fet...TheKinkyMinx. Look her up.

tazzygirl -> RE: Blow job techniques (7/7/2013 4:57:02 PM)
quote: And yes, there absolutely is something about the one sucking being in control of the act, which is the point I've been making. And that's ok in a vanilla sense (IMO); I've learnt to suffer through it. ;) Oh poor baby! Having to suffer through a blow job! The horror!! The torment!! Im so sorry you had to go through that humiliating experience!!!! quote: Where'd "quick" become a subject issue? Giving or receiving, I'm usually not in any rush to get there. Just the same, I think you're giving up too many trade secrets when we haven't even been on that first date yet. A little mystery, please...! ~smirks Oh there is plenty of mystery.. such as.. what do I have in my left hand while my right is filled with... delightful male flesh. [;)]

wckdmnd -> RE: Blow job techniques (7/7/2013 5:03:34 PM)
With her arms bound behind her back and her on her knees. Grip the bottom of her jaw in one hand. Grip the top of her head (including hair unless she's bald) in the other. Hold her head at the right height and hold her jaw open. Thrust deeply down her throat until sated. she has no control. why give her any?

chemeli -> RE: Blow job techniques (7/7/2013 5:04:09 PM)
It's hot in here isnt it....all that talk of blow job, forced blow jobs......ouf!!!

tazzygirl -> RE: Blow job techniques (7/7/2013 8:34:15 PM)
quote: why give her any? Why not? Ultimate control isnt hers if she is truly mastered... so whats the worry?

DesFIP -> RE: Blow job techniques (7/7/2013 8:43:13 PM)
Not to mention that unless she's toothless, she always has the ability of taking control of the situation. She's not powerless, she's just choosing to forego her power right then.

cbaby -> RE: Blow job techniques (7/7/2013 9:32:14 PM)
where do they make men who don't like getting head (besides Lorena Bobbitt's husband and him you can't blame in the least)...mind boggling i find gag reflex depends also on the thickness of the man in question...i can deep throat a long thin man where a thicker man is more likely to set off my gag reflex (yes, i can gag while brushing my teeth and forget about brushing the tongue, that is never going to happen...LOL)...enjoy what you're doing and don't worry about being the best cock sucker....be the best that you can be for you (i've never had a man say no) :)

tazzygirl -> RE: Blow job techniques (7/7/2013 9:43:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP Not to mention that unless she's toothless, she always has the ability of taking control of the situation. She's not powerless, she's just choosing to forego her power right then. Shhh.. I wasnt gonna tell them that

hlen5 -> RE: Blow job techniques (7/7/2013 10:16:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetAngel43211 .............is it going to feel like too much trouble? Somehow I think they'll take the time and trouble!![;)]

wckdmnd -> RE: Blow job techniques (7/8/2013 9:05:01 AM)
Oh tazzygirl .. no worry. It's just how I like to fuck a throat. It is all about me isn't it *chuckles

tazzygirl -> RE: Blow job techniques (7/8/2013 11:08:12 AM)
~smirks If you like to believe that.... you go on with your bad self.

wckdmnd -> RE: Blow job techniques (7/8/2013 11:13:15 AM)
Well it's not like the slave is the prize. she's the receptacle *grinz

tazzygirl -> RE: Blow job techniques (7/8/2013 11:14:05 AM)
How many have you owned?

wckdmnd -> RE: Blow job techniques (7/8/2013 12:26:52 PM)
Oh used many. Owned 3. 2 released because contracts were done and had no desire to renew. 1 released because she was a lying little cunt that wouldn't straighten up no matter what. Stubborn lil twat she was. Why?

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