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Why are so many girls unwilling to date a shorter guy? - 7/10/2013 12:00:14 PM

Slaveboytoy2

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I have gone out on a limb at least 6 times in 2 mounths only to be shot down because my hight. What the hell is that all about?

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RE: Why are so many girls unwilling to date a shorter guy? - 7/10/2013 12:01:40 PM

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It's a preference, just like everything else.

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RE: Why are so many girls unwilling to date a shorter guy? - 7/10/2013 12:01:48 PM

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People have preferences....as I am sure you do also.

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RE: Why are so many girls unwilling to date a shorter guy? - 7/10/2013 12:02:33 PM

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I'm 5'7 on a good day and don't have much of a problem.
6' tall women make for a hell of a fun slow dance.

Maybe it's something besides your height.

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RE: Why are so many girls unwilling to date a shorter guy? - 7/10/2013 12:11:09 PM

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What do you mean, you have gone out on a limb? Your profile states your height, so they had to know that from the start. Does that mean you went out on a limb and emailed someone?

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RE: Why are so many girls unwilling to date a shorter guy? - 7/10/2013 12:13:32 PM

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your profile has nothing attractive to catch the eye in it, it's extremely bare bones, and if I was searching i'd pass it on by, not because the height, but because it has nothing to catch my interest in it.

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RE: Why are so many girls unwilling to date a shorter guy? - 7/10/2013 12:28:22 PM

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Yeah. I'm another who isn't entirely convinced that it's your height. Unless all six of those women wrote back to the email that you sent and told you specifically that you are too short, I'm thinking there might be something else at play here.

Did you happen to read the recommendations that were given to you in the thread you started in Ask A Mistress? I see from the main photo that you haven't necessarily implemented any of them.

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RE: Why are so many girls unwilling to date a shorter guy? - 7/10/2013 12:29:27 PM

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OP - I prefer tall guys but if I were single and Hillwilliam were local, I'd be all over him because I like what I see on the discussion boards.

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I'm 5'7 on a good day and don't have much of a problem.
6' tall women make for a hell of a fun slow dance.

Maybe it's something besides your height.

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RE: Why are so many girls unwilling to date a shorter guy? - 7/10/2013 12:39:29 PM

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Short women also ask the same question.

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RE: Why are so many girls unwilling to date a shorter guy? - 7/10/2013 12:41:43 PM

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OP - I prefer tall guys but if I were single and Hillwilliam were local, I'd be all over him because I like what I see on the discussion boards.

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I'm 5'7 on a good day and don't have much of a problem.
6' tall women make for a hell of a fun slow dance.

Maybe it's something besides your height.

Second this! And because of his profile pic, of course.

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RE: Why are so many girls unwilling to date a shorter guy? - 7/10/2013 12:44:28 PM

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You need to look for taller women.

I'm about 5'11" and I care far less what height a guy is, especially for submissives where I consider it rather fun if he's significantly shorter than me. It's been my casual observation (from a previous CM thread on this topic as well as day to day life) that most women of shorter and average-ish height are more picky about their partner's height than taller women tend to be.

On the previous CM thread, most women that indicated that they prefer a man with a minimum height of 6' (a lot even wanted 6'2"-3" as a minimum) were under 5'6" themselves.
Most women that indicated that they cared less about a height difference or the guy being shorter were over 5'7".

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RE: Why are so many girls unwilling to date a shorter guy? - 7/10/2013 12:46:37 PM

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OP - When you go out on a limb do you approach women who are tall and women who are short? Women who are very overweight, who are very thin, who are muscular? Black women, white women, Asian women, Hispanic women? Big and small boobs and butts? Big ears, hairy legs, glasses, tattoos....

Or do you find certain things more attractive?

Everyone is entitled to turn someone down for any reason, or no reason at all. My vagina and my heart are two places where equal opportunities don't apply. If you don't excite me it doesn't matter why, no amount of reasoning will change that. On the same note if you wanted to turn me down because I have red hair or freckles or stretch marks or small hands or muscular legs thats up to you.

Most women I know are pretty flexible about a guy's looks IF he has some other spark about him that makes him appealing - smart, kind, funny, adventurous etc. I'd take a four with personality over a ten with no substance, you know? There's a poster called BambiBoi - I've never seen a photo, he has described himself as short and chubby, and I'm pretty sure I'd give him a shot even if he turned out to have three eyes. My point is, be awesome, and awesome people will want to be with you.

That said, every post I've seen of yours so far has come across a little... desperate. It's all about how you need to find someone right now. If you come across like that in person your height might be a convenient excuse to turn you down.

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RE: Why are so many girls unwilling to date a shorter guy? - 7/10/2013 12:48:31 PM

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There's a poster called BambiBoi - I've never seen a photo, he has described himself as short and chubby, and I'm pretty sure I'd give him a shot even if he turned out to have three eyes.

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RE: Why are so many girls unwilling to date a shorter guy? - 7/10/2013 1:06:35 PM

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What, we can't share?

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RE: Why are so many girls unwilling to date a shorter guy? - 7/10/2013 1:08:08 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kalikshama

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I'm 5'7 on a good day and don't have much of a problem.
6' tall women make for a hell of a fun slow dance.

Maybe it's something besides your height.

OP - I prefer tall guys but if I were single and Hillwilliam were local, I'd be all over him because I like what I see on the discussion boards.

Me too. Well....that and his giant cock.

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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders
That said, every post I've seen of yours so far has come across a little... desperate. It's all about how you need to find someone right now. If you come across like that in person your height might be a convenient excuse to turn you down.

There's some truth to this. It's a lot less uncomfortable to say "I don't date short guys" than to say "You're creeping me out".

That said OP, ever decline a woman because of her weight? It's the same thing. It's a personal preference.

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RE: Why are so many girls unwilling to date a shorter guy? - 7/10/2013 1:11:03 PM

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wait bro are people actually saying the words to you, "sorry you're too short. get outta here, half pint!"? or are you just assuming it's your height?

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RE: Why are so many girls unwilling to date a shorter guy? - 7/10/2013 1:18:49 PM

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I have gone out on a limb at least 6 times in 2 mounths only to be shot down because my hight. What the hell is that all about?

But, but, how did you get on the limb-aren't you too short to reach it?

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RE: Why are so many girls unwilling to date a shorter guy? - 7/10/2013 1:53:48 PM

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Shoes with springs on them!

I doubt it is your height that is the problem.

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RE: Why are so many girls unwilling to date a shorter guy? - 7/10/2013 1:58:00 PM

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RE: Why are so many girls unwilling to date a shorter guy? - 7/10/2013 2:38:27 PM

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I prefer shorter guys but if they have a self esteem issue, it is better off that I leave them alone.

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