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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 7/23/2013 7:44:03 AM   
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Why are there so many Financial Doms out there? I only wanna talk/online sex chat with a regular Female Dom, and I am tired of Female Doms requesting guys to pay fees or get gifts to prove themselves. As a Dom myself I'd never make my sub buy me a gift or pay me to be dominated :/





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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 7/23/2013 8:38:37 AM   
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It doesn't really work the same for the sexes when it comes to sexual attention, which is what you are looking for. Women aren't generally as interested in casual encounters of whatever variety, men are. Therefore if you want attention and time from women you need to give them something they ARE interested in - either plan on investing time and effort into a woman to get your rocks off, or give them money. There simply aren't women lurking about that are waiting, like you, to get off with someone else's help. Do you generally run across women in person whose purpose in life is to take strangers to bed? Well, it doesn't really happen online either. I'm sure there's the rare encounter where two people meet for a NSA one off kind of thing...but generally in real life too, in order to get regular sexual attention you need to build a relationship of some sort.

As far as your question about why there are so many financial Dommes around...think about it. They exist because there are a ton of horny men out there giving them money to make their penises happy. It's a market that is driven by the men. If you don't agree with the amount of women out there asking for money, then take it up with the men who are giving them money and thereby perpetuating the cycle.

You really need to educate yourself a bit more, your comment on not 'making your sub (which you don't have)' buy you a gift or pay you is laughable, there are far too many men on this site for that to work. 'Your sub' would just move onto someone else. Besides all that, I'm not sure why you are referring to yourself as a Dom on this thread, when you've marked yourself as a switch on your profile, and are actively looking for a Domme...very confusing.


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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 7/23/2013 8:52:22 AM   
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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 7/23/2013 11:04:29 AM   
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LadyPact, you've just depressed me . You're usually such a tonic .

Sorry about that, gary, but I happen to think that it's true. A lot of folks join this site thinking that their kinks are automatically going to be fulfilled. With a number of factors involved, it just really doesn't work that way.

Keep in mind that this is coming from a person who does play casually. (Many don't because they only play in the context of a relationship.) First, you have to consider that for many, playing in person is way more fun than typing out things on the computer. Second, even at a play party, I'm going to prefer to play with people that I know, rather than those I don't. Friends are more fun to play with than strangers. Third, I generally wouldn't be talking about My sex life or another person's if they were somebody I didn't know. When is the last time you walked up to somebody on the street and asked them about their sexual preferences? I know you wouldn't because it wouldn't exactly be a polite thing to do. It's really the same thing on the net for some people.

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As a general comment, I'd like to take this opportunity to remind folks that it's not just women that propel this particular kink. Last night after I posted on this thread, I received an email from a gentleman who wanted to be financially dominated by Me. I don't even engage in this practice but I get emails of this type on a regular basis. Let Me assure you it's not a singular or a rare occurrence and that's coming from somebody who isn't even looking to be involved in that type of kink.



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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 7/23/2013 11:44:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
As a general comment, I'd like to take this opportunity to remind folks that it's not just women that propel this particular kink. Last night after I posted on this thread, I received an email from a gentleman who wanted to be financially dominated by Me. I don't even engage in this practice but I get emails of this type on a regular basis. Let Me assure you it's not a singular or a rare occurrence and that's coming from somebody who isn't even looking to be involved in that type of kink.
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Yes, this is so true. It's not My particular kink, but I have been approached by some who wish for it (mostly as a "please watch over me and manage my bad spending habits" type requests). If they fulfill My own interests I'll participate.

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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 7/23/2013 1:32:18 PM   
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Why are there so many Financial Doms out there? I only wanna talk/online sex chat with a regular Female Dom, and I am tired of Female Doms requesting guys to pay fees or get gifts to prove themselves. As a Dom myself I'd never make my sub buy me a gift or pay me to be dominated :/



Why do some women charge money to chat?

Because they can.

Although, given the ratio between "online findoms" on this site, and men who are suc... er willing to pay them, I'd be surprised if many of them are making much money at it.

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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 7/23/2013 3:36:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		Would you just approach a woman in a grocery store and expect her to go home and have sex with you? Most women will want to get to know you, be taken out on dates, and take time before they'll jump in the sack. The benefits of a sexual relationship in that case is a emotional bond. I'm not saying it never happens without one and people have one night stands but women are bombarded by men that want to have sex with all the time. So why is online different? What is the benefit to them? That's why a lot of financial dommes do it and others genuinely enjoy the power. Regardless this topic has been beaten to death.

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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 7/23/2013 5:00:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

As a general comment, I'd like to take this opportunity to remind folks that it's not just women that propel this particular kink. Last night after I posted on this thread, I received an email from a gentleman who wanted to be financially dominated by Me. I don't even engage in this practice but I get emails of this type on a regular basis. Let Me assure you it's not a singular or a rare occurrence and that's coming from somebody who isn't even looking to be involved in that type of kink.





This comment leads me to add one more. And that is because Lady Pact is right ... a LOT of men LIKE to pay ...

I say this because there actually is a web site, the name is something along the lines of Seeking Arrangements, and the point of it is to connect men who are willing to pay, with women who want the money.

The sight is NOT kink related per se, rather allegedly, a "Sugar Daddy - sugar baby" type thing.

The point though ... men who are willing and able to pay to go on a date, get what they want. And girls are begging them to go out.

The exact opposite of the Dominant Woman - sub male ratios.

While I have my own personal thoughts on the whole financial thing, objectively it is clear ... a LOT of men are willing to pay ... and a LOT of women are willing to take the money. So I am thinking, boys, if you are going pay ... find someone to do it in in person!



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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 7/24/2013 6:24:52 AM   
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ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle

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ORIGINAL: Jacobo2011

Why are there so many Financial Doms out there? I only wanna talk/online sex chat with a regular Female Dom, and I am tired of Female Doms requesting guys to pay fees or get gifts to prove themselves. As a Dom myself I'd never make my sub buy me a gift or pay me to be dominated :/



Why do some women charge money to chat?

Because they can.

Although, given the ratio between "online findoms" on this site, and men who are suc... er willing to pay them, I'd be surprised if many of them are making much money at it.


I've often wondered about that myself. Some of the findom profiles I've seen express some level of frustration about "fakes," which I read as "those unwilling to pay." It seems that the market must be pretty saturated.

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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 7/24/2013 6:42:40 AM   
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I've often wondered about that myself. Some of the findom profiles I've seen express some level of frustration about "fakes," which I read as "those unwilling to pay." It seems that the market must be pretty saturated.


I'd guess that 'clients' will often see how much they can get from a given findom before they have to pay anything. Just as with porn sites, except that with a findom there's what might feel like the added satisfaction of getting free personal contact along with the invigorating pictures.

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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 7/24/2013 11:38:58 AM   
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invigorating pictures.



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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 7/24/2013 1:40:44 PM   
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invigorating pictures.





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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 7/24/2013 2:37:10 PM   
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It seems that the market must be pretty saturated


maybe, or it is used as an advertising trick to make it seem there's lots of interest in it.

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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 7/24/2013 2:45:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Zonie63
It seems that the market must be pretty saturated


maybe, or it is used as an advertising trick to make it seem there's lots of interest in it.



A lot of female subs get multiple offers of money for us to dominate male subs. There IS lots of interest.

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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 7/24/2013 4:31:21 PM   
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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 7/24/2013 5:56:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Zonie63
It seems that the market must be pretty saturated


maybe, or it is used as an advertising trick to make it seem there's lots of interest in it.



A lot of female subs get multiple offers of money for us to dominate male subs. There IS lots of interest.


I wonder. If every submissive women who receives offers of money to dominate submissive me were to accept every such offer, how many of those offers would actually result in her getting said money? If I were a betting man, I'd bet the answer would be "very few."

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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 7/24/2013 6:20:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Zonie63
It seems that the market must be pretty saturated


maybe, or it is used as an advertising trick to make it seem there's lots of interest in it.



A lot of female subs get multiple offers of money for us to dominate male subs. There IS lots of interest.


I wonder. If every submissive women who receives offers of money to dominate submissive me were to accept every such offer, how many of those offers would actually result in her getting said money? If I were a betting man, I'd bet the answer would be "very few."



And that is why the fin-doms complain about "fakes".

One guy offered me $500 to peg him, but didn't want to pay me anything until after it was done. And he lived across the country from me. He gets off on the fantasy of paying, but I do know that there are men that do want to pay. There was a guy in Ask A Mistress who wanted to take a beautiful woman shopping.

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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 7/24/2013 7:56:38 PM   
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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 7/24/2013 8:20:27 PM   
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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 7/24/2013 8:28:46 PM   
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If you want free cyber sex cam girls are wonderful ladies


So are you saying if I wanted to have you strip and finger yourself on cam for me, you wouldn't charge a single dime?


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