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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 7/28/2013 7:47:49 AM

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Edited, changed my mind on this post. Wait and see reply on previous post.

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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 7/28/2013 9:16:05 AM

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Hiya NBMG!

Why is it all you ladies try to depress us male subs, by saying that we vastly outnumber Lady Dommes! I simply do not believe you! I believe the situation is actually the reverse. There are whole platoons of Dominant ladies on CM just screaming out for submissives , crying into their evening cocoa, when their kinks are not met

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I also believe this is just a myth bought about to perpetuate the existing CM World Order!

Enough already, tell us the truth, give us the facts

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Also NBMG,

What's this about 'tickling your fancy' & 'titillate your dangly bits'? Someone's been watching too many Carry On films, don't you think ma'am? Ooh Matron!

No doubt I'll be hearing from you in due course, at which time I shall offer a heart felt apology

xx.

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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 7/28/2013 9:23:11 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: imtempting

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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl
What you're expecting is for someone to just tickle your fancy and titillate your dangly bits without being in any variety of a relationship. If you don't want to put the time in to get to know her as a person and just want a fetish-delivery system, even if it is just talk, why shouldn't you pay her?

NBMG

So basically what your saying is if you want sex without trying, you should just pay for a prostitute? so if you want to just have a fetish filled without effort, you should just pay for it? Hmm, they both seem identical.

Nope. She never mentioned sex or prostitution. That was your addition.

Look, if you just want NSA play, go to a play party. At the ones I attend, there are few Dommes but there are several female subs that will top a man on a lark.

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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 7/28/2013 1:42:48 PM

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So many people trying to say what another chatter meant by her words. Maybe you people should become involved in politics if your not already and read between the lines of what the side is saying. Or in business to see what the company your dealing with is actually saying.

As I said before, she can answer for herself and not need others to answer for her.

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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 7/28/2013 1:57:38 PM

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We don't have to do that, the thread is here, we can look to see what was said.
I never saw sex mentioned either.

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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 7/28/2013 3:11:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: imtempting
So many people trying to say what another chatter meant by her words.

Which is EXACTLY what you're doing here:

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ORIGINAL: imtempting
So basically what your saying is if you want sex without trying, you should just pay for a prostitute? so if you want to just have a fetish filled without effort, you should just pay for it? Hmm, they both seem identical.

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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 8/6/2013 10:31:36 PM

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Think about it this way: you want what you want, you're not interested in giving her what she wants (or only to a point), so what does she get out of the exchange? Very little. Hence the request for compensation for her time, or a fee paid up front to show you're not a deadbeat who will log off after he gets off and leave her in a lurch. If you want someone to sex you up for free, you need to develop a relationship with a woman who shares your interests and actually gets something from the play or conversation. Otherwise, you pay for a service provided and order exactly what you want.

It doesn't sound like you're dealing with findom, more like amateurs who think they are financial dominants or else pro-dommes. Financial domination is a large part of what I do and simply demanding money isn't findom. It's a fetish and there is a lot more to it than just demanding payment. Surrendering financial control to the domme is a huge turn-on for some subs and definitely facilitates the power exchange within the relationship, since money represents power. It's extremely pleasurable and titillatingly thrilling for many. If you're not paying out for the thrill and titillation, then you should consider yourself paying a fee for services, which is something else, not findom.

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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 11/5/2013 11:46:39 AM

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When you write an email on CM on the top of the page is a WARNING message in bold red font. DO NOT SEND money to people for any reason. If a financial Domme requests that you send them money before chatting report them and CM will delete their profile.

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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 11/5/2013 3:35:28 PM

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With the Finsubs I accept, I've never had a problem with them not following through with anything. Perhaps that is because I'm particular about the subs that I choose. However I require a quality sub regardless because I use them to conduct studies for my potential future career. I can't have any mindless schlub under me. This is something I engage in for my personal pleasure and needs. So I cannot speak on behalf of FinDommes who do it as a job/career.

I was a lifestyle Domme for 5 years, so I enjoy a quality sub now and then who isn't apart of my Fin fetish. But many of them don't follow through. And I have found that even if they do, they aren't that enjoyable to waste my time with. Allot of subs enjoy talking about what they will do, Finsubs show you what they will do.

It seems to me allot of you complaining about "real" Dommes seem to think that we are sex toys to service your fantasy. You are clearly mistaken. In general, no Domme is going to want to sex chat with you. Just as in everyday life no one cares about your sexual fantasies and whether you have someone to service them or not.

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RE: Why Financial Mistress - 11/5/2013 3:43:10 PM

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Per the guidelines of the forums: Please do not resurrect threads that are more than three months old.

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