MariaB
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@Freedomdwarf1, I'd call it negligence on the part of the parents. Right up until the age of 18 or when they leave home, parents are responsible for their offspring. Simples! Are you saying we shouldn't let a child under the age of 18 out of our sight or without other adult supervision? and if they have an accident when under adult supervision, someone should get nailed for it? Children have to be allowed out and whilst I appreciate that we have to educate our children (and that doesn't include instilling adult fear into them) we have to ensure they are playing in a safe environment, sometimes, even in what we consider a safe environment, accidents happen and there can be no blame attached. Many teenagers get up to mischief, no matter how their parents have brought them up. I was brought up very close to crags and no matter how many times I was told not to climb the crags, that's where I went at every opportunity. I solo free climbed for most of my young adult life but I started solo free climbing when I was 13 with little regard for what my superiors were telling me. Surprisingly though, I always had a huge amount of self preservation. Why should my superiors take the blame when it was actually me who chose to deceive them? Should they of kept me on a leash or followed me to make sure I was sitting in my friends orchard ? or hanging around at a shopping mall? I think what we must accept is, sometimes accidents happen. Recently here we lost 2 young boys Tito was a 12 year old boy with great promise in the climbing world. An adult had climbed a route before him and wrongly put in quick-draws which meant, when Tito climbed and eventually fell, he hit the deck and died. Someone was clearly responsible. The other was a 10 year old boy who was out with a climbing club when a rockfall crushed him. He was airlifted to hospital but his life support machine was switched off after 3 days. Nature is what killed the second child. The rock the club was climbing on has been used as a school wall for many generations but sometimes shit happens when you do a sport that includes unpredictable forces. In this second case, as heartbroken as the parents are, they are not looking to blame anyone.
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