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RE: How to tell if a woman is dominant? - 10/17/2013 4:22:15 PM

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And they make a point of cuffing the heads of small boys when they think no-one's looking.

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RE: How to tell if a woman is dominant? - 10/17/2013 4:24:23 PM

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And they sing along to Phil Collins songs, very raucously, enjoying the embarrassment of all their vanilla female friends around them.

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RE: How to tell if a woman is dominant? - 10/17/2013 4:25:38 PM

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And they tend to have quite large noses. A woman with an exceptionally huge nose, especially a sharply-pointed one, is almost certainly a femdom.

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RE: How to tell if a woman is dominant? - 10/17/2013 4:27:04 PM

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I hope that helps.

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RE: How to tell if a woman is dominant? - 10/17/2013 5:05:13 PM

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Peon, where have you been finding your Dommes? At play parties near Bath? Was it the London UV scene? Were they sweaty before or after kicking your ass or beating you with that strap?

My butt is most decidedly not square-shaped, I don't have a large nose, and nix to whatever else you said. I only shave in between waxings, dear, much to the chagrin of my wax girl.

Silly boy.

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RE: How to tell if a woman is dominant? - 10/17/2013 7:28:18 PM

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No worries, TL, plenty of fine femdommes have backsides that are hexagonal, too.

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RE: How to tell if a woman is dominant? - 10/25/2013 3:28:50 AM

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Hmm, well, I do sweat more than my bestest friend in the universe (she's more pistachio than vanilla though, just that I'm birthday cake topped with black cherry compared), and my nostrils probably do flare on occasion. I tend to pop my lips when I'm annoyed rather than compress them, though I probably do that too. I absolutely do not cover my butt with denim (strictly skirts and anyone who argues can deal with me getting snippy about how femininity does not equal submissiveness), and I'm not entirely sure what shape my butt is. I'm pretty sure it's just butt shaped. My nose is small and apparently "perfect shaped" according to my councilor at Bible camp when I was 13, and how can I argue with that kind of wisdom.

Also I do obsessively shave my armpits but only because of that sweating problem.

So! Can I get that domme ID card now? I think there's room for it in my ass.

As for the OP...

I don't know, how can you tell you're not a domme? And are you looking for someone dominant? A top? A demanding bottom? A sadist? There are so many things that make people uniquely themselves. I don't ping as dominant at all. I giggle and I look fluffy and I'm a very good host who goes out of her way to keep people happy and oh yeah I get my rocks off by smacking people and scratching their backs raw and so on and so forth. Some people who are looking for 'dominants' want 'sadistic', some people just want demanding bitches of true glory, some people are do-me subs who really just want a sub who will top them to their wishes and the only way to find out what you are and what your target is are to, oh, I dunno, communicate, learn, watch, read, know what you want so you can clearly communicate it or be willing to screw around and figure out what you don't want by trial and error.

It's not like there's a handy dandy list of traits up there in the posts above me for your convenience. It's not like I really have a whip and an ID card in my ass verifying my sexual preferences. It's not like there aren't subs who wear heels and tight skirts made out of pleather.

If there were color coded preference bars above people's heads with their HP, MP, fetishes, sexuality, gender ID, life might be easier but it would be way less fun.

Personally, I'd carry around a whip. If when you smack her ass with it, she rips it out of your hands and beats you black and blue, congratulations! You've discovered a domme! You might even get a chance to throw a pokeball at her before you get knocked out. :D

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RE: How to tell if a woman is dominant? - 10/25/2013 11:16:06 PM

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Very difficult to tell strictly from brief social interactions. Conversely, she may seem shy and innocent but then love to take control once she lets her hair down. Unless she's intentionally giving off vibes to probe you, you'll just have to get to know her the old fashioned way.

I agree with this! He describes me fairly well with the second sentence. M

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