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ORIGINAL: Mistressinwis

Even in this "venue" as you refer to it, I am a Domme, and as such, demand the respect of submissives. You don't have to respect me personally, because you don't know me, but you give respect to my station. It is the same as the President, you don't have to respect the man holding Office, but you have to respect the Office. By disrespecting the man, you disrespect the Office.

If you tell people you are a submissive, then I will expect you to act like one whether in the company of your "Sir" or not.

In my BDSM community, respect and protocol are the first thing a slave and sub are taught. Punishment for disrespect is swift, and carried out by the Dominant that the disrespect was toward, whether that Dom/Domme owns the sub or not. It is to teach respect for all, and get them out of the habit of only respecting their Owner.

Mistress A

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The internet has become the greatest tool of the centry for making the world a smaller place and meeting people from all walks of life. Unfortunatly, as with every good thing, there are bad things that go with it. The internet has also given anonymity. Which in turn, has fostered disrespect, rudeness, and socially unacceptable behavior. Because of the anonymous nature of the internet, there is no social consequences, as there are in real life situations. Also,  there is no way to really "punish" a person that abuses others in a forum such as Collarme. As with any social setting, I would like to invite users of this website to activly email the webmasters of any disrespectful, or nasty emails you do get, so they have the opportunity to take steps to keep this community free from falling victim to the users that are less than desirable.

I have had numerous nasty emails from males, in fact that is one reason i abandoned my first user account and started another. I have not had this user account for more than a few hours, and got a very disrespectful and rude email.

I invite the moderators of this site to make a clear and easy way for users to report nasty emails.

Mistress A

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Ignoring bad behavior is how Hitler got most of Europe. As a Dominant, it's up to us to keep order within our community.  I don't know what your real life BDSM community is like, but the one I belong to is very old school.  slaves and subs speak only when spoken to, and very little or no direct eye contact. As to the rest, I will let you use your imagination. So you can understand my distress when a male that calls himself a slave has the audacity to dare speak to me in anything other than complete respect. I refuse to "turn the other cheek" in that instance.

Of course, I am always free to move on. I have had no luck finding any "real" female subs on this website. I thought this would be the perfect atmosphere, safe, annonymous.  But all I have met are internet players. I admit to getting frustrated, and having to deal with disrespect adds insult to injury.

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ORIGINAL: Mistressinwis

Even in this "venue" as you refer to it, I am a Domme, and as such, demand the respect of submissives. You don't have to respect me personally, because you don't know me, but you give respect to my station. It is the same as the President, you don't have to respect the man holding Office, but you have to respect the Office. By disrespecting the man, you disrespect the Office.

If you tell people you are a submissive, then I will expect you to act like one whether in the company of your "Sir" or not.

In my BDSM community, respect and protocol are the first thing a slave and sub are taught. Punishment for disrespect is swift, and carried out by the Dominant that the disrespect was toward, whether that Dom/Domme owns the sub or not. It is to teach respect for all, and get them out of the habit of only respecting their Owner.

Mistress A

You demand what you have failed to earn and you insist its your right to disrepect other D/M's by getting your kink fulfilled using there property. You need to learn some respect yourself.

(in reply to Mistressinwis)

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ORIGINAL: Mistressinwis

Even in this "venue" as you refer to it, I am a Domme, and as such, demand the respect of submissives.

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You don't have to respect me personally, because you don't know me, but you give respect to my station. It is the same as the President, you don't have to respect the man holding Office, but you have to respect the Office. By disrespecting the man, you disrespect the Office.

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If you tell people you are a submissive, then I will expect you to act like one whether in the company of your "Sir" or not.

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In my BDSM community, respect and protocol are the first thing a slave and sub are taught. Punishment for disrespect is swift, and carried out by the Dominant that the disrespect was toward, whether that Dom/Domme owns the sub or not.

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It is to teach respect for all, and get them out of the habit of only respecting their Owner.