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MarcEsadrian -> RE: How old are you really? (8/27/2013 11:40:01 AM)
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ORIGINAL: orgasmdenial12
The common wisdom is that men grow better with age and that women enjoy the company of an older man. Is this no longer the case? Are men now under pressure to fake youthfulness to be considered attractive?
To a certain degree, I think that is the case, at least online. Or, perhaps, the phenomenon is more evident online. More and more females between the ages of 20-35 within social networks like these appear to be showing a standoffish attitude toward older males, if not males in general. "No one over 35, please," is an increasingly common line. On one hand, I can understand the carnal desire for one of your own age or approximate age, but on the other, I think a lot of fish fall off the hook with that attitude, too.
I'm in my early forties and can easily pass for late thirties, though one of my slaves is fifty-five. One is slightly younger than I, and yet another prospective slave is in her early twenties. The gamut is fairly wide in my circle. Holding out for that perfect 18 year-old blonde, big-titted and blue-eyed hottie who is also perfectly amenable to consensual slavery is going to involve a fairly long wait. Similarly, a young woman holding out for a Christian Grey archetype in his twenties who knows everything he needs to know (including himself) will find her available selections rather impoverished, to say the least.
When I crossed over the forties threshold, I noticed I received significantly less queries, online, that is. Offline, I actually get the same attention that I always have and that's because in the world of flesh and blood, you don't go around with an age stapled to your forehead; you go around with who and what you are. People in the world of digital profiles make too much of a number before even glancing one pixel at the person, I think, and this phenomenon swings, unfortunately, in all directions.
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