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RE: Blackmail - 9/8/2013 11:22:28 AM

littlewonder

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So you told him no but you still gave him nude photos of you? eeerr....oookk. <scratches head>

And if you told you s/o, why is it such a big deal if he tells him?

How does he know who your family is and how to contact them to send them the info? How does he know where you work and who your boss is? Did you give him that info as well? And if so, WHY???

At your age, one would think you would be smarter than that....but then again.....

Anyway, delete, ignore and write him off as just another person trying to get a rise out of you and doing a damn fine job of it.

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RE: Blackmail - 9/8/2013 11:44:46 AM

DOM68005

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This is one reason we as a community need to be careful with safecall procedures. When you fully comply, the rest is pure trust the other parties are not this kind of character.

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RE: Blackmail - 9/8/2013 11:52:55 AM

MarieDomina

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This guy is no Dom. No real Dom would behave in such a despicable manner. He is nothing more than a predator who jumped on the BDSM bandwagon to abuse women. The best thing for you to do is to get a restraining order against him. Handle him legally. This will teach him a lesson about blackmail and intimidation.

There are some in this lifestyle that engage in a blackmail fetish and apparently this asshole has gotten it all wrong. I wouldn't dare attempt to blackmail a slave. Even if he wanted Me too. There is just too much room for things to go horribly wrong and you ending up in a court room facing a judge. No thank you!

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RE: Blackmail - 9/8/2013 11:55:42 PM

SerWhiteTiger

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ORIGINAL: MizzSpitfire

If you already told your partner about your interest in the lifestyle, why are you so concerned about them being re-told? I also have a hard time with the fact that an intelligent adult person would have given out that much information about themself, to someone they hadn't actually met, on ANY website- vanilla OR kink.
It's starting to stink in here.

Who are these intelligent adult persons you speak of?

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RE: Blackmail - 9/9/2013 6:12:56 AM

thishereboi

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ORIGINAL: Hellrider1

I was curious about this lifestyle and made a couple of friends on this site. Mainly talking about our love of motorbikes actually. During this the Dom kept asking for me to be his sub and I said no. We agreed to remain friends though. I then met a partner in vanilla life and told my friends on here. I also told my new partner I was curious about this lifestyle. So for all who pre judged me, I have not lied to anyone. The Dom seems to have taken this new information as a tool to further threaten me. He says he will tell my partner of my lifestyle, my family and send evidence to my employer also if I do not comply to his demands.

For those offering support and advice, thank you.

If what you say is true and you came here made a few friends then there is nothing he can use to blackmail you with. You claim to have already told your partner so he can't tell him anything new. Although I am guessing from your profile that he hasn't actually been here to see it. None of the pics reveal anything that anyone would care about. Now your partner may be upset that you seem to be looking for a replacement for him but other than that there isn't a lot there.

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RE: Blackmail - 9/9/2013 6:18:05 AM

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ORIGINAL: DOM68005

This is one reason we as a community need to be careful with safecall procedures. When you fully comply, the rest is pure trust the other parties are not this kind of character.

Maybe you could explain how a safecall procedure could have helped in this case. I am just not seeing it.

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RE: Blackmail - 9/9/2013 6:26:08 AM

lilcracker

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quote:

ORIGINAL: thishereboi

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ORIGINAL: DOM68005

This is one reason we as a community need to be careful with safecall procedures. When you fully comply, the rest is pure trust the other parties are not this kind of character.

Maybe you could explain how a safecall procedure could have helped in this case. I am just not seeing it.

LMAO, thanks thishereboi, I spit coffee on this one. Still laughing.

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RE: Blackmail - 9/9/2013 12:35:23 PM

Traveler0471

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Take the information directly to the policy and have his ass put in Jail. Find a very good lawyer and hope that your employer fires you because of the information this man produced. Sue Him, and your employer. You will walk away with an out of court settlement that provides you with enough to take your partner to a new location and start a new life. OH, your family will love you no matter what, if they don't than who cares.

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RE: Blackmail - 9/9/2013 12:39:34 PM

OsideGirl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: thishereboi

quote:

ORIGINAL: DOM68005

This is one reason we as a community need to be careful with safecall procedures. When you fully comply, the rest is pure trust the other parties are not this kind of character.

Maybe you could explain how a safecall procedure could have helped in this case. I am just not seeing it.

Oh, stop being contrary. You're just supposed to agree with the Twue Doms regardless of whether it makes sense or not.

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RE: Blackmail - 9/9/2013 6:53:56 PM

littlewonder

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safe calls....great way to find the body.