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Lucylastic -> RE: What do you see as a "men's" issue? (9/28/2013 4:33:44 AM)

thats only a male issue Lookie?




SweetAnise -> RE: What do you see as a "men's" issue? (9/28/2013 4:34:30 AM)

Some men do not want to take a look at themselves. They often view (not always) their behavior from the point of view of others. Someone else is the problem. Or not at all. By the time they start looking at self they either are on the brink of losing everything or they already have.




jola37 -> RE: What do you see as a "men's" issue? (9/28/2013 5:00:54 AM)

lol Lucy. Yes, I spose you do have to put up with other women hehe :P




Lucylastic -> RE: What do you see as a "men's" issue? (9/28/2013 5:17:06 AM)

Absolutely:) LOL
mothers , sisters, aunts, grans, cousins, friends, emenies, ad nauseam, its a nightmare I tells ya:)




TigressLily -> RE: What do you see as a "men's" issue? (9/28/2013 6:01:51 AM)


Aw, 'fess up--it's only cuz you love us so much that you can't do without us in your life, baby.

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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

That we have to deal with women.


Actually, Nick, any unwanted attention is creepy. It could come from another woman, no matter how attractive she is.

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ORIGINAL: naughtynick81

if an undesirable man gives her attention, it's considered creepy, sleazy, rapey, stalker-like, while if the man is desirable, all them negative prejudices drop.


And your point is?

Would you want an undesirable woman making suggestive advances toward you?


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ORIGINAL: naughtynick81

Kinda like if the average guy thought a woman's feet were hot, it would probably be considered creepy to the woman. If a Brad Pitt clone thought the same, that fear wouldn't be there.


Oh wait, that's right. If she has pretty feet, you could overlook the rest. Not so much of a double standard, is there?

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ORIGINAL: metamorfosis

No, just unbridled altruism.


What's wrong with 'unbridled altruism'? Do you mean as opposed to bridled altruism?

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metamorfosis -> RE: What do you see as a "men's" issue? (9/28/2013 10:56:34 AM)

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ORIGINAL: TigressLily

What's wrong with 'unbridled altruism'? Do you mean as opposed to bridled altruism?


Well, actually...yes. Altruism should have a limit. Each person is responsible for their own well being first. The idea that it's our responsibility as human beings to protect everyone weaker than us is rather foolish, barring certain exceptions.




TigressLily -> RE: What do you see as a "men's" issue? (9/28/2013 3:54:07 PM)

My smart-aleckiness aside, I certainly didn't intend for anyone to arbitrarily take vows of poverty and celibacy *HELL NO*, shave his/her head, run off to join a monastery or convent, and leave family behind forsaking all worldly goods. I did specify 'one person at a time,' which is doable, especially within one's own family for starters. One can hardly 'protect everyone.'

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ORIGINAL: metamorfosis

Altruism should have a limit. Each person is responsible for their own well being first. The idea that it's our responsibility as human beings to protect everyone weaker than us is rather foolish, barring certain exceptions.


Granted, there should be limits to the extent that one is a do-gooder, which can turn into an ego-driven personality complex. However, Love is Limitless and meant to be shared, not squandered. Particularly unselfish altruistic love - which some equate with charity/charitableness - a foreign concept to many, unfortunately.

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egern -> RE: What do you see as a "men's" issue? (9/29/2013 1:46:24 AM)


When will you post the discussion thread, and what will it be called?

Interesting topic!




naughtynick81 -> RE: What do you see as a "men's" issue? (9/30/2013 12:32:03 PM)

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When will you post the discussion thread, and what will it be called?


If men are even considered enough for such. Society always places our problems at the back seat.




NoBimbosAllowed -> RE: What do you see as a "men's" issue? (9/30/2013 7:22:42 PM)

'FR It says a lot when using ones personal likes n dislikes and mental issues as being a singular gender issue, that there is nothing more intelligent to report. '

except that such things fly out the window completely when it comes to Oprah and Ellen TV show 'rah rah' crap. When a woman has used a man as a beard, and cheats for a year or more without admitting anything, it's applauded as 'finding herself' and 'empowering herself'. When a man does the same, it's "a bastard being on the down-lo and cheating on an honest, good woman'. All politically correct claptrap supported by nothing more than double standards are far more of a personal dislike buttressed by a mental issue.

and having to weed out one from the other is a men's issue.




slavekate80 -> RE: What do you see as a "men's" issue? (9/30/2013 9:38:09 PM)

Men who don't want children are told not to have sex with women if they don't want kids, or at least get a vasectomy and annihilate their future chances of fatherhood with the right person if they should want that later, and their consent to sex without sterilization is legally considered consent to fatherhood (or, at least, to 18+ years of paying child support, with no guarantee that they'll be allowed to see their children). Tell women not to have sex with men if they don't want kids, or else get their tubes tied first, and someone will bite your head off.




egern -> RE: What do you see as a "men's" issue? (10/2/2013 1:40:59 PM)


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ORIGINAL: slavekate80

Men who don't want children are told not to have sex with women if they don't want kids, or at least get a vasectomy and annihilate their future chances of fatherhood with the right person if they should want that later, and their consent to sex without sterilization is legally considered consent to fatherhood (or, at least, to 18+ years of paying child support, with no guarantee that they'll be allowed to see their children). Tell women not to have sex with men if they don't want kids, or else get their tubes tied first, and someone will bite your head off.


I thought we were supposed to wait with the discussion till the topic came up as such?




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