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RE: Male Superiority? - 9/10/2013 8:47:23 PM   
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Peon, superiority or inferiority may be a human opinion or judgment, but the basic idea is evident in the animal kingdom.
Reproductive, compeditive and environmental challenges will invariably reveal superiority and inferiority by genitic survival/success or lack thereof.

JeffBC said it well...
What's the context or measuring stick?


Exactly - what is the context or measuring stick? That's always a human opinion or judgement - so the idea isn't within the animal kingdom, it's within us.


What definitions you are working from?
**(The definitions of superior and inferior that is... I get the feeling we're talking about different things.)**

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RE: Male Superiority? - 9/11/2013 12:35:58 AM   
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Can anyone be 'naturally' superior or inferior, when the whole idea of superior/inferior is a human construct, and artificial (by definition), anyway?


Utter politically correct "everyone must be the same and respected" claptrap.

Do you not know that multiple species have dominant and submissive hierarchies? Wolves, horses, bonobo monkies to name a few...?




That's dominance and submission, not superior and inferior. What good is a leader without a pack or vice versa? Both roles are necessary, so how can one be inferior?

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RE: Male Superiority? - 9/11/2013 6:47:26 AM   
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Animals do talk. My grandfather had a minor bird who spoke better English and had higher intelligence then some humans I have met, ha, I'm just saying.

Does status and class exist in the animal world and the human world, absolutely.

Do I believe good men should make the big decisions? yes. Do I believe women have the ability to make the big decisions? yes.

Should a servant be treated differently then a king, if they are people of equality in body and brain? No, but its life. ITs people.

Difference between us and animals is, we are suppose evolve to treat ALL PEOPLE EQUAL. It is no secret people with money, get better treatment, It is no secret people sometimes when people get money or have money or lets say power too, they get to big for their britches. Lose humility. No secret aggressive can trump meekness quickly.

Even if I do believe in my own little bubble world, that I prefer and believe GOOD men are best on the big stuff, doesn't mean I believe the smaller things are not equally as important and the respect should be the same.

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RE: Male Superiority? - 9/11/2013 7:32:59 AM   
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If an asteroid hits the earth it wins. It has more power. There is no debate. there is no nothing.
If a lion and an elephant get into it, the elephant wins... period.


Jeff . . . this is getting weird now.

What does the asteroid win - a gold cup? A big certificate to show its mum? What does the Earth lose? What does either care? What kind of 'power' are you talking about? There's not only debate, there's a ton of it. As for the lion and the elephant getting into it . . . what does that really mean and what's it supposed to imply? Lions can and do kill and eat baby elephants while running rings around their parents. They don't get into pitched one-to-one battles with elephants, nor elephants with lions, because that would make no sense in their world. Neither has any status to uphold. Both just want to eat something without being harmed. It would be a patent anthropomorphism to assume that either thinks of the other in terms of 'superior' and/or 'inferior'. They both want to survive - and that's just about it.

When you watch a pack of lions pursuing a herd of wildebeest on a nature doc, do you think in terms of 'superior' and 'inferior'? I did, once. I assumed the lion was 'above', somehow, in some overall 'natural hierarchy'. But then I realised that this was bollocks. The number of wildebeest far exceeds the number of lions, for a start. Secondly, the wildebeest only needs to bend its neck to eat grass. The lions have to stalk, run and frequently risk their lives in order even to get a snack. We routinely call the lion the 'king of the jungle' - it could just as easily be called the beggar.

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""Power" is not some made up human construct. Nor is it some sort of BDSM theory. It's a fact of life and it matters. In the end, when we got done with all the pious hand-wringing it may be all that matters.


Firstly, yes it is indeed a human construct. Unless . . . can you cite me a source written by some other creature on the 'nature of power'? Now, to move past that obvious point: the idea of 'power' is a human construct that has enduring value because it appears to fit the world around us. Therein lies its seductive appeal, though: it gets muddy and awkward when its application is taken out of physics and used in the context of, say, politics; but it gets seriously misapplied, and frequently, in the context of non-human animals.

As for that 'pious hand-wringing' comment - nup . . . I'm still at a loss as to how anything I've said is about 'piety' or the lack thereof. Likewise Phydeaux's 'political correctness'. I'm baffled at how either of these things crept in for you and him.

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As I said above, I see that statement as nothing other than narcissistic swill.... "Oh, humans are the center of the universe" type stuff. No, we're not all that different from animals in an awful lot of ways and I choose Occam's razor rather than making up elaborate theories to explain away the obvious.

Scientist gives food to one chimp but not the other and the one given food refuses to eat it along with various expressions of aggravation. Looks pretty simple to me.
Scientist gives food to one chimp but not the other and the one given food refuses to eat it along with various expressions of aggravation. Looks pretty simple to me.


Re the chimp: it could be about some sense of 'fairness' - or it could be that the chimp offered food just doesn't want to get beaten up by the unfed chimp. Or it could be that the chimp assumes the food is tainted in some way else all the chimps would be offered it. Who knows a chimp's reasoning?

I agree, of course, that we're not separated from non-human nature - that's the most obvious kind of arrogance. Another arrogance, though perhaps a less obvious one, is that though we are part of nature, we still do have a host of characteristics that aren't shared by even our closest relatives. Just because we now accept that we're part of the animal kingdom rather than apart from it, that doesn't wipe away the problem of anthropomorphism - of our seeing what we want to see in other species, not seeing what we don't want to see.

This all reminds me of the (true case) of the woman who visited the ape house in the zoo in order to 'bond' with the silverback gorilla. She would sit looking fondly into its eyes, seeing its own warm facial expressions as it gazed back at her. Occam's razor: fondness, expressed by eye-to-eye connection. Obvious. Until said silverback suddenly went apoplectic with fury one day, broke out of the pen and beat her up.




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RE: Male Superiority? - 9/11/2013 11:26:55 AM   
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There is a substantial section of the Fem Domme / male sub community who adopt views very similar to radical feminists - they believe that biological differences between men and women lead to differences in behaviour - such as male aggression, female nurturing, etc. They see Fem Dom as a kind of revenge on the patriarchal system and even espouse theories about women taking over the world and all men being slaves. I personally think that sociobiological accounts of male and female differences in personality and ambition to be sexist and unscientific, so I am very much opposed to this subsection.

As regards female submission and male superiority, of course I do not believe in that, but there are many who seem to on a sort of lower level. In particular, I am often contacted by male doms who tell me that women are inferior to men and that it's natural for men to be Dominant and women to be passive. I also speak to a lot of people who do believe in inherent personality differences bewteen the sexes, such as stereotypical views about men and women. It's a slippery slope in my opinion.

I do regard my Dom as superior to me, but that's because I admire him and because I am happy to be lower in status to him, not because he's male, or I'm female.

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RE: Male Superiority? - 9/16/2013 6:49:32 PM   
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I'm submissive because I like the idea of being able to to trust so deeply in someone. Not because I think men are superior.

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RE: Male Superiority? - 9/17/2013 11:01:50 AM   
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The male is superior.

King. Son. Dom. Master. All words describing the Male rather than the male. We don't accept demotions because there are fat, lazy males in the world who are superior to nothing and cause women to assume unnatural roles.

One ignoring this truth forgets the alpha male controls the world and is the object of female admiration and submission.

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RE: Male Superiority? - 9/20/2013 4:57:40 PM   
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Yes, male being superiors to worthless slabs of meaningless flesh with absolutely no redeeming qualities is the "natural order" and the way the world should be. If all women were trained from birth in the art of pleasing and worshiping their male superiors than we could create heaven on earth, as women were designed to be sexually, physically, emotionally, and mentally submissive to men. And I plan on creating the natural order on earth. That way a man will never have to worry again. A man will truly be happy and know they will have a virgin sex slave at whatever age he chooses delivered to him upon him turning into a man. And girls will truly be happy in their servitude of their male superiors. A man shouldn't have to woo a woman. He's a man. If he can overpower a girl, then it his right by nature to have his way with her. And girls don't know what they want by programming. God designed them that way so they can finally experience the truest and most beloved joy in their life when they're finally stripped of their dignity, and taught their place on their hands and knees serving us. :) Trust me, I designed you ladies that way.

In the words of me, "I am your God. And you are my slave. And I'll whip you until you learn to behave."

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RE: Male Superiority? - 9/20/2013 9:09:02 PM   
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Yes, male being superiors to worthless slabs of meaningless flesh with absolutely no redeeming qualities...

Why in the world would you want to own a worthless slab of meaningless flesh with absolutely no redeeming qualities??

Do you strive for nothing more? Do you deserve nothing more?

How utterly bizarre.

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RE: Male Superiority? - 9/21/2013 12:18:18 AM   
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Superiority? It depends on how you define 'superior'. Are we talking about quality of model and make? Like one brand of tires vs. a cheap knock off? The quality of a cut of meat?

Living things aren't something that can be so easily quantified due to the vast differences between individuals. One's perspective might indeed lend to the idea that their partner is superior. However, an outsider may see them both with disgust in their eyes due to a high dose of head in ass-itis.

I'm guilty of judging, of assuming, I think we all do at some point. However, superiority of one gender/sex over another? It's just a matter of perspective. When you're at the bottom looking up, everything seems better. If someone reaches down to help you out of that hole, they may momentarily be on a pedestal. One mistake and you find out they have clay feet.

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RE: Male Superiority? - 9/21/2013 12:31:10 AM   
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Yes, male being superiors to worthless slabs of meaningless flesh with absolutely no redeeming qualities is the "natural order" and the way the world should be. If all women were trained from birth in the art of pleasing and worshiping their male superiors than we could create heaven on earth, as women were designed to be sexually, physically, emotionally, and mentally submissive to men. And I plan on creating the natural order on earth. That way a man will never have to worry again. A man will truly be happy and know they will have a virgin sex slave at whatever age he chooses delivered to him upon him turning into a man. And girls will truly be happy in their servitude of their male superiors. A man shouldn't have to woo a woman. He's a man. If he can overpower a girl, then it his right by nature to have his way with her. And girls don't know what they want by programming. God designed them that way so they can finally experience the truest and most beloved joy in their life when they're finally stripped of their dignity, and taught their place on their hands and knees serving us. :) Trust me, I designed you ladies that way.

In the words of me, "I am your God. And you are my slave. And I'll whip you until you learn to behave."


I hope you had a moist towel nearby. The title of your picture suits you (the red words are "Filth Machine". I couldn't agree more). I love your included smiley emoticon.


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RE: Male Superiority? - 9/21/2013 12:45:58 AM   
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In the words of me, "I am your God. And you are my slave. And I'll whip you until you learn to behave."


HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!

Oh man, THAT was funny!

It's at times like this that I'm glad I'm an atheist


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RE: Male Superiority? - 9/21/2013 12:58:58 AM   
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In the words of me, "I am your God. And you are my slave. And I'll whip you until you learn to behave."


HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!

Oh man, THAT was funny!

It's at times like this that I'm glad I'm an atheist



But without God, there's no manna from heaven (like the comedic gold above!)!!!

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RE: Male Superiority? - 9/21/2013 5:35:48 AM   
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RE: Male Superiority? - 9/21/2013 12:20:02 PM   
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Yes, male being superiors to worthless slabs of meaningless flesh with absolutely no redeeming qualities is the "natural order" and the way the world should be. If all women were trained from birth in the art of pleasing and worshiping their male superiors than we could create heaven on earth, as women were designed to be sexually, physically, emotionally, and mentally submissive to men. And I plan on creating the natural order on earth. That way a man will never have to worry again. A man will truly be happy and know they will have a virgin sex slave at whatever age he chooses delivered to him upon him turning into a man. And girls will truly be happy in their servitude of their male superiors. A man shouldn't have to woo a woman. He's a man. If he can overpower a girl, then it his right by nature to have his way with her. And girls don't know what they want by programming. God designed them that way so they can finally experience the truest and most beloved joy in their life when they're finally stripped of their dignity, and taught their place on their hands and knees serving us. :) Trust me, I designed you ladies that way.

In the words of me, "I am your God. And you are my slave. And I'll whip you until you learn to behave."


That is interesting. Especially since what you wrote me privately was so much more......how should I say this......filthy.

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RE: Male Superiority? - 9/21/2013 12:24:21 PM   
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That is interesting. Especially since what you wrote me privately was so much more......how should I say this......filthy.


His profile and intro post were the very first I've read that moved me to block and hide him instantly.
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RE: Male Superiority? - 9/21/2013 12:32:21 PM   
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That is interesting. Especially since what you wrote me privately was so much more......how should I say this......filthy.



Same here. His posts show a fundamental lack of understanding of the BDSM D/s community. Or even how to behave like something more than a horny 13 year old.

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His profile and intro post were the very first I've read that moved me to block and hide him instantly.
Love those features.
I reported and blocked his emails. The Mods have effectively blocked him here.

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RE: Male Superiority? - 9/21/2013 12:35:53 PM   
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Yes, male being superiors to worthless slabs of meaningless flesh with absolutely no redeeming qualities is the "natural order" and the way the world should be. If all women were trained from birth in the art of pleasing and worshiping their male superiors than we could create heaven on earth, as women were designed to be sexually, physically, emotionally, and mentally submissive to men. And I plan on creating the natural order on earth. That way a man will never have to worry again. A man will truly be happy and know they will have a virgin sex slave at whatever age he chooses delivered to him upon him turning into a man. And girls will truly be happy in their servitude of their male superiors. A man shouldn't have to woo a woman. He's a man. If he can overpower a girl, then it his right by nature to have his way with her. And girls don't know what they want by programming. God designed them that way so they can finally experience the truest and most beloved joy in their life when they're finally stripped of their dignity, and taught their place on their hands and knees serving us. :) Trust me, I designed you ladies that way.

In the words of me, "I am your God. And you are my slave. And I'll whip you until you learn to behave."



So glad again to be a feminist. An atheist. Careful with that whole "no matter what age" thing. That could get you into a lot of hot water. One hopes.

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RE: Male Superiority? - 9/21/2013 1:31:25 PM   
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Yes, male being superiors to worthless slabs of meaningless flesh with absolutely no redeeming qualities is the "natural order" and the way the world should be. If all women were trained from birth in the art of pleasing and worshiping their male superiors than we could create heaven on earth, as women were designed to be sexually, physically, emotionally, and mentally submissive to men. And I plan on creating the natural order on earth. That way a man will never have to worry again. A man will truly be happy and know they will have a virgin sex slave at whatever age he chooses delivered to him upon him turning into a man. And girls will truly be happy in their servitude of their male superiors. A man shouldn't have to woo a woman. He's a man. If he can overpower a girl, then it his right by nature to have his way with her. And girls don't know what they want by programming. God designed them that way so they can finally experience the truest and most beloved joy in their life when they're finally stripped of their dignity, and taught their place on their hands and knees serving us. :) Trust me, I designed you ladies that way.

In the words of me, "I am your God. And you are my slave. And I'll whip you until you learn to behave."


Fella, you're claiming to speak on behalf of all of us men. You don't.

And as far as singlehandedly reprogramming all women... Um.

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RE: Male Superiority? - 9/21/2013 1:54:09 PM   
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Superior? Maybe in some physical aspects men are superior, but that is where it pretty much begins and ends.

I really do not think that either gender is superior over the other. I do believe that there are superior intellects and personalities, this also has absolutely nothing to do with environmental causality. I have met some women that made me feel like a mental midget and conversely I have met some that were dumber than tin foil... the same can be said about men that I have met. The personality thing basically comes down to how one conducts themselves, assholes are simply assholes and good people are good people. There are dominant personalities and submissive personalities in both genders.

I detest using the word inferior when referencing other humans. It smacks of lack of acceptance and intolerance and is the basis for pretty much all racism ever. We are all generally the same. The cumulative effect of our life experiences is what makes us different, not gender or skin color. I pretty much view things this way: You are either a good and decent person or you are not... I cannot determine value from that, I can only determine my personal preference as to who I choose to allow into my life.

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