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OsideGirl -> RE: Different stances on drinking alcohol (9/20/2013 3:48:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 I have the opposite problem. I never meet men who like to drink. I am a social drinker and like it when dining out. No one ever told or asked me not to drink, but since its no fun drinking when your partner doesn't, then I didn't. It's nice to have similar interests but its not a deal breaker for me. I consider myself lucky that Master has come to love wine as much as do.

NuevaVida -> RE: Different stances on drinking alcohol (9/20/2013 4:19:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl I consider myself lucky that Master has come to love wine as much as do. I had a growing affinity for wine when I met the Mister. He was a 2-Buck Chuck kinda guy and used to tease me by calling me a wine snob. It didn't bother me that he didn't care about wines, other than I really didn't like the wine he had at his place. He has since come to love wine tasting with me, and we've joined a few wine clubs, gone to release parties, etc. It's definitely a shared interest now. I think if he didn't drink at all, there would have been a disconnect. Not that I'm a lush, but I do drink socially, and occasionally at home, as well. Even living alone, if I cooked myself a nice dinner (because I do that), I like to have a glass of wine with it.

MistressDarkArt -> RE: Different stances on drinking alcohol (9/20/2013 4:28:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SailingBum . I had to laff at you remark of gobblie goop CBDs counteract THC. If you know anything about modern medicine you would understand that what you describe very rarely happens with any medications. Coming from a pharmacological background, I will accurately say quite a few medications counteract effects of other medications. The list is too long for this board. As I said before, marijuana can be bred to mitigate or eliminate unwanted effects (high) and isolate the compounds which are helpful. You know what? If someone tied me down and tried to force alcohol on me I'd find a way to put out their lights, yet I don't begrudge those who drink responsibly to do so. Sounds to me you may feel the same about marijuana. Absolutely your choice; don't use it if that's how you feel. But until I or my partners find something in your 'studies' that conclusively show us the error of our ways, we would appreciate folks keep an open mind about its medical use and refrain from belittling those who might have no other choice but medicate this way to maintain a decent quality of life. Thank you for the good-health well-wishes. I am improving, and symptom relief from MC continues to be a big help. Good health to you as well.

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Different stances on drinking alcohol (9/20/2013 4:28:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HerrKeuner I'm a dominant. I'm not sure how to deal with this case, so I'm asking other dominants for ideas. I do not drink alcohol, nor do I approve of its usage due to my philosophical stance. However, I'm aware that I'm in the minority, so it's probable that the potential submissives that I can get to know will not share my views about the matter (i.e. they'l drink socially, or they'll like wine and beer when they eat). My doubt is how to deal with these circumstances: I think that a flat-out prohibition/ forcing her into my standards could have social consequences for my potential submissive: my folks know that I don't drink, but her folks may be puzzled about the sudden change. It's true that I'm her dominant, I wouldn't want to alienate my submissive from her circles. However, as her dominant also, I'd like for her to take example of me. How would you deal/have you dealt with this questio? Well, I'd (it's just me) let her drink. But....I don't have a questio about this.

MAINEiacMISTRESS -> RE: Different stances on drinking alcohol (9/20/2013 4:54:03 PM)
Oside's first line says it. If you prefer to have a sub who isn't a boozer, then simply look for one who ISN'T and don't accept one who is...the same way you'd not take in a drug addict, smoker, person with a criminal history, or whatever else you consider a Hard Limit. SIMPLY STAY AWAY FROM THAT TYPE. Yes, as the Dominant you can make it one of your Demands for your sub to not drink, but it's really only going to stick if THEY recognize they have a problem and are seeking to cut back on drinking. Why seek to change a person (which doesn't work by the way) when the RIGHT person is still out there? quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl Personally, when I was single I looked for someone that shared my moral/core values. You can't make someone else change their morals or values. You might convince them to change those for themselves. You might find someone that is willing to agree to not drink, but I wouldn't expect them to change their morals or values over it. As for her friends and family having an issue with her not drinking....it's really none of their business. If pressed beyond that, a simple "I'm trying to be healthier" would stop most people from pursuing it further. I will say though, that I wouldn't have been interested in someone that pulled the "I like you, now change" routine.

MistressDarkArt -> RE: Different stances on drinking alcohol (9/22/2013 10:41:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SailingBum I would like to suggest that you spend quite a bit of time reading the actual studies on weed for the past 50 or so years, like I have, Citations and links for these studies you read please, Bum. You're welcome to pm them on the other side so as not to hijack the thread.

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