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MasterCaneman -> RE: What good is helpless bondage if there is no sex? (11/18/2013 12:45:11 PM)
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What Resident Sadist said, at least for the most part. It really depended on what the particular dynamics of my partner at the time was looking for. The majority were looking for kinky sex, and they got it, but I've had a couple whose main vibe was the act of being in bondage alone. They chose me because I'd established a reputation among the players in the circle I ran with as being mindful of their limits, and not thinking with my dick.
One in particular comes to mind. She was an infrequent player who'd come out maybe once or twice a month. Married and otherwise faithful to her husband, she had this 'need' to experience being held prisoner for a spell. Just that, no sex or any physical abuse, just being tied up, chained, or otherwise restrained, fully clothed, no exceptions. I could (and usually did) have another playmate during our sessions that I did have relations with while she was sitting, lying, or standing there. For some reason fathomable only to her, she just wanted to be held captive by someone who was both scary and unthreatening (if that makes any sense). I agreed to it because hey, I got to have a living, breathing prop I could play off of with whoever else I was shtupping at the time.
It was a bit weird at first, but for the time we played together it seemed to work out okay for her. And most of my other partners didn't seem to mind. In fact, it kind of turned them on to be sceneing with a dude that had another woman in chains on the other side of the room. She liked it very restrictive, too, perhaps a commentary on her Mormon upbringing and lifestyle in the daylight world. She was turned onto me by one of my past partners who she'd approached at one of the bars I went to. Again, a weird scene, but a memorable one. We lost touch after I had one of my epiphanies and bowed out of the local scene to get my head on straight, but I can only say it makes for some interesting memories.
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