tj444
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ORIGINAL: tj444 IMO.. the best thing parents, teachers, etc can do is teach kids to think independently and not succumb to pressure to try drugs (including cigs, booze, etc) in the first place (if that shite is so great then why the need to pressure someone into using it?).. I am not talking about the "just say no" stuff, but teach them to think first, evaluate the pros and cons of any situation or decision with a clear & honest head/mind and that will help them (imo) to decide on their own that the risk of addiction isn't worth "trying it" even once.. That hasn't worked out too well it seems. Teens are not at an age where they will think independently and outside the group to which they wish attachment. Biologically, the inhibiting prefrontal cortex is not completely developed until around age 25, give or take. quote:
I cant say what is the best way to deal with addicts once they are addicted.. but I think that is up to them to have hit bottom and finally decided to quit for good, and they have to try different things to help them reach that goal.. as has been said, for some it might be taking up yoga or whatever release to control stress, for others it could be creating a new life with new friends, new home, new job, etc.. to find what works for each one, can be hit and miss, trial and error until they find what works for them.. The point raised in the video is that 'rock bottom' is a myth for too many and they would rather die than face life or face themselves. Parents need to start teaching independence very, very early, starting that too late is pointless.. I give my mother credit for instilling that in me cuz I think it probably saved me from a lot of potential grief/bad shite.. I expect there were guys that would have raped me had I not decided at 16 that I wouldn't drink booze at all, had I not made that decision guys would have most certainly plied me with booze to do just that.. (not that I considered that as a possibility at the time, I see that clearly in retrospect tho).. I was living on my own at 17 and the only one in all my friends and young/ish people i knew that didn't drink, didn't smoke cigs or do drugs.. I seriously doubt that many parents have instilled that in their kids tho, I don't know of any others that have.. Whether you call it rock bottom or a pivot point, until they reach the decision to stop, they wont.. and they may not be successful the first time.. or second time, etc.. i imagine its a fierce battle for them..
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