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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: DsCouple23

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

Wow, this is hilarious.

I'll say this, though, DsCouple: a lot of your posts have a competitive air to them.

I found it indicative that he felt it necessary to say that he had been with around 40 women, all at least 7.5s (in another post) and then felt the need to mention that he has a Mercedes.

Find away. lol not sure why you think that all matters to me. Or anyone else.. they can use the search key as good as you can.

I know it doesn't matter to you. That much is really obvious. Clearly, since others have commented, they have also noticed the same behavior. And the search button comment makes no sense.

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ORIGINAL: DsCouple23

I believe i have run into this before.

Have you ever ran into the sub that didn't want to be a sub, but declared she was a sub?

It seems like there was one in my past. But it could of been the fact i never met her face to face. She was just incapable of following direction (and i didn't assume really any control, prior to our scheduled/failed meeting). For instance:

Her: I would love if you would send me a pic
Me: Sure, but it is pic for pic, so if i send one , you send one.
Her: OK :)
Me: Pic
Her: say please!
Me: I can't be handled that way, i don't say please when it is unecessary, and in this case it isn't, it's pic for pic, i have delivered, now its your turn.
Her: MMM I forgot how awesome you were, i'm not at home, i will send it tonight when i get home for u :)

Elapsed a day or so, no pic.

Then i called her out, then she said "say please" and i reffered her over to my last text lol.

Seems as though this one (this happened a year ago btw, and i have a good memory), just didn't want to be sub... instead just wanted to screw around and waste time.

Thoughts? Are there a lot of so called submissives that truly are not submissive, or is it me? Quite frankly after our interactions (there is much more history not disclosed from this particular one), i would say any dom who ever had her, could not control her unless face to face, and even then would have to modify her behaviour really really significantly to tame her.

J

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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

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ORIGINAL: DsCouple23

I believe i have run into this before.

Have you ever ran into the sub that didn't want to be a sub, but declared she was a sub?

It seems like there was one in my past. But it could of been the fact i never met her face to face. She was just incapable of following direction (and i didn't assume really any control, prior to our scheduled/failed meeting). For instance:

Her: I would love if you would send me a pic
Me: Sure, but it is pic for pic, so if i send one , you send one.
Her: OK :)
Me: Pic
Her: say please!
Me: I can't be handled that way, i don't say please when it is unecessary, and in this case it isn't, it's pic for pic, i have delivered, now its your turn.
Her: MMM I forgot how awesome you were, i'm not at home, i will send it tonight when i get home for u :)

Elapsed a day or so, no pic.

Then i called her out, then she said "say please" and i reffered her over to my last text lol.

Seems as though this one (this happened a year ago btw, and i have a good memory), just didn't want to be sub... instead just wanted to screw around and waste time.

Thoughts? Are there a lot of so called submissives that truly are not submissive, or is it me? Quite frankly after our interactions (there is much more history not disclosed from this particular one), i would say any dom who ever had her, could not control her unless face to face, and even then would have to modify her behaviour really really significantly to tame her.

J

I don't see her as non-submissive.

If you did not "own" her, no matter how many times you met or time you feel you invested, then demands may not have sit well with her.
She wanted politeness.
I don't see that as a bratty quality.
It is a personal preference that is apparently incompatible with your persona.


What is bothering me about your post is that it really has a sour grapes tone to it.
It happened quite awhile ago.
You got along well enough until she made the request and now you are pointing out all the things that were wrong with her.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Fast reply......

In My opinion, I am not in the position to give orders of any kind to anyone unless they belong to Me. Yep, that means I say "please" when I am asking for something.

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists
Hell... I say please even to those I own. Sometimes ;)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists
Hell... I say please even to those I own. Sometimes ;)

Very key word there, KoM. I think it's also important to remember that, in certain situations, with certain people, they get their little joy buzz when they are not asked....... They are told.

If we, as Dominants, realize that a part of our joy comes from a place of being in control, we must also realize that those we own are fulfilled by being controlled.

As Ron would say, you can quote Me.

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


Master says "please" and he's not asking, it's an order. But, I understand where you're coming from too.

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


Master says "please" and he's not asking, it's an order. But, I understand where you're coming from too.

The tone and inflection of ones voice speaks sometimes more than the words themselves.

"Please get me a water?"

Is very different than

"Please get me a water!"

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ORIGINAL: crazyml

Ya know, from reading your posts, I think that - and I mean this sincerely and say it in the hope that you might profit from it - you should be willing to embrace at least the possibility that you screwed up, and that there's a chance that she just decided you're a dick.

God knows, this has happened to me in the past.

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ORIGINAL: Rawni

The time we waste on silliness... is about as questionable as some of the things people do.

If you already question so much and are still trying... I would question why.

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ORIGINAL: DsCouple23

I might as well give you the full story because well... it's a hell of a story.

Basically we talked for 3-5mo, facetimed a lot. I know her real name, she knows mine. I know a ton about her. She booked a plane ticket, and we were set to meet in Vegas for a weekend.

The night prior i tell her "do not go out", and me, being the perceptive individual, i already felt as if she would defy me. And, voila .. she did, she went out, got drunk, kissed some other guy (or more who knows), and then that guy drove her home and got a DWI. She then lost her wallet with her ID, which she needed to board the flight (she sent me reciept of the flight, it was real), so basically as i am about to board the bus to Vegas, she is telling me this... lol.

I suppose this at the time was a lesson on " you cant truly control one unless she wants to be, and from afar it's much more difficult to do so".

People get courage when not confronted face to face. Essentially she commited suicide on the relationship and that was it, what is funny is i saw she just opened another profile. I won't name her, but ... it's just so comical to me... i truly feel sorry for the next dom's she deals with. IMO she needs to grow up. I feel that's what's necessary in this case. as well as only face to face domination.

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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

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ORIGINAL: DsCouple23

I might as well give you the full story because well... it's a hell of a story.

Basically we talked for 3-5mo, facetimed a lot. I know her real name, she knows mine. I know a ton about her. She booked a plane ticket, and we were set to meet in Vegas for a weekend.

The night prior i tell her "do not go out", and me, being the perceptive individual, i already felt as if she would defy me. And, voila .. she did, she went out, got drunk, kissed some other guy (or more who knows), and then that guy drove her home and got a DWI. She then lost her wallet with her ID, which she needed to board the flight (she sent me reciept of the flight, it was real), so basically as i am about to board the bus to Vegas, she is telling me this... lol.

I suppose this at the time was a lesson on " you cant truly control one unless she wants to be, and from afar it's much more difficult to do so".

People get courage when not confronted face to face. Essentially she commited suicide on the relationship and that was it, what is funny is i saw she just opened another profile. I won't name her, but ... it's just so comical to me... i truly feel sorry for the next dom's she deals with. IMO she needs to grow up. I feel that's what's necessary in this case. as well as only face to face domination.

FR:

I don't believe her story. I've got a phone sex guy crying on my shoulder right now because he sent someone $400. to fly in to meet him. Of course, she had some sort of emergency. This guy should be used to it, because it's been done to him several times before. Ladies can come up with a million stories...funny thing is so many of them happen at the last minute.

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ORIGINAL: Rawni

And you would know that thinking about it like this and making it a big deal, is still too much wasted time right?

If you couldn't figure out the 'deal' in ten months, when you can figure out how much it takes to run a certain car, per mile, I wouldn't think this rocket science.

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ORIGINAL: xxblushesxx

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ORIGINAL: DsCouple23

I might as well give you the full story because well... it's a hell of a story.

Basically we talked for 3-5mo, facetimed a lot. I know her real name, she knows mine. I know a ton about her. She booked a plane ticket, and we were set to meet in Vegas for a weekend.

The night prior i tell her "do not go out", and me, being the perceptive individual, i already felt as if she would defy me. And, voila .. she did, she went out, got drunk, kissed some other guy (or more who knows), and then that guy drove her home and got a DWI. She then lost her wallet with her ID, which she needed to board the flight (she sent me reciept of the flight, it was real), so basically as i am about to board the bus to Vegas, she is telling me this... lol.

I suppose this at the time was a lesson on " you cant truly control one unless she wants to be, and from afar it's much more difficult to do so".

People get courage when not confronted face to face. Essentially she commited suicide on the relationship and that was it, what is funny is i saw she just opened another profile. I won't name her, but ... it's just so comical to me... i truly feel sorry for the next dom's she deals with. IMO she needs to grow up. I feel that's what's necessary in this case. as well as only face to face domination.

FR:

I don't believe her story. I've got a phone sex guy crying on my shoulder right now because he sent someone $400. to fly in to meet him. Of course, she had some sort of emergency. This guy should be used to it, because it's been done to him several times before. Ladies can come up with a million stories...funny thing is so many of them happen at the last minute.

ETA: This is not something I would ever do. If I plan on meeting someone, they know it. (and I'll generally pay my way) If I don't plan on meeting you, you'll never be waiting at the airport waiting what happened while I come up with a story about my poor Aunt Gina.