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RE: Why don't women ask for face sitting (as opposed to... - 1/3/2014 11:49:19 AM   
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RE: Why don't women ask for face sitting (as opposed to... - 1/3/2014 11:57:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		i don't even care for regular oral sex, so why would i ask for a, something i don't like, and b ask for it in a position that is totally awkward and uncomfortable. On the rare, rare chance I'd want to, it's much more comofrtable to just lay back open up, and make him do all the work, plus if i wanted to smash my pussy into his face, it's still doable from on your back, and more comfortably to boot.



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RE: Why don't women ask for face sitting (as opposed to... - 1/3/2014 1:04:47 PM   
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I don't compare face sitting to blow jobs.

I compare face sitting to face fucking. By face fucking I mean, in this context, the man sitting, kneeling or bending over me, whilst using my mouth as a passive hole.


Agreed.
Facesitting is akin to a skull fuck.

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RE: Why don't women ask for face sitting (as opposed to... - 1/3/2014 5:11:58 PM   
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Oh. You meant the other way. meh.

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RE: Why don't women ask for face sitting (as opposed to... - 1/3/2014 7:51:28 PM   
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Narrow-minded or not, I would have the same reaction if I heard a grown man say he disliked it also, in all fairness. On a kink site (no offense to those who would call CM something else). I wouldn't expect to hear this on a vanilla dating site either, but it wouldn't come as a complete surprise. Out in "the world" it wouldn't faze me a bit, I'm sure there are many people on this earth who dislike sex of any kind, or even a simple show of affection.



There are men who don't like to go down on a woman. Master is one of those men. It's not something he likes so I don't get that pleasure. It was something I absolutely loved before I met him. I've learned to live without it though since he makes up for it with other pleasures that are just as good.

Men who don't like oral done on them? I've dated two men in the past who didn't like it. One was extremely sensitive and even the slightest touch would make him cringe. It was just too much for him. He apparently had nerves there that were ultra sensitive. The other one just said he never got anything from it. He never got hard from it. But going down on women did make him hard. Go figure. I wasn't complaining though.



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RE: Why don't women ask for face sitting (as opposed to... - 1/4/2014 12:23:00 AM   
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Men who don't like oral done on them? I've dated two men in the past who didn't like it.


I guess anything is possible, but I find that one hard to swallow.

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RE: Why don't women ask for face sitting (as opposed to... - 1/4/2014 12:33:01 AM   
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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal
Narrow-minded or not, I would have the same reaction if I heard a grown man say he disliked it also, in all fairness.

I've definitely met men who don't like oral. So far I've met 3. They feel that it's over-rated, the sensation. But all were vanilla men.
I haven't met a dom who doesn't like oral though, on knees and sucking a man is such a submission position that few doms will dislike it, but more for the symbolic aura of the whole action, than for oral alone.


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RE: Why don't women ask for face sitting (as opposed to... - 1/4/2014 12:36:20 AM   
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Men who don't like oral done on them? I've dated two men in the past who didn't like it.


I guess anything is possible, but I find that one hard to swallow.

Unless he is raping your face, getting a blow job can be very submissive. He lays down, you get on top of his cock with your mouth an take control of giving him pleasure instead of him taking his pleasure from you. . . blow jobs are in pretty switchy turf from some people's perspective and they really don't like it.

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RE: Why don't women ask for face sitting (as opposed to... - 1/4/2014 6:08:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		OK. I stand corrected. Previously, I couldn't have imagined a guy who didn't like a BJ, but, I do agree, to me, it's a submissive position to be giving the blowjob, although I then read RS's description which explains that a typical blowjob is passive - so it might actually be the submissive position to be the recipient.

I stand corrected. Amazed. But corrected.

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RE: Why don't women ask for face sitting (as opposed to... - 1/4/2014 8:40:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't ask...I tell. Why I don't ask for it often? Because (at least in my opinion) it isn't about licking pussy. Nine times out of ten if I am the doing/having this done the man in question is being poked, pinched, slapped in his thighs, nuts, dick, etc. Facesitting for me doesn't relate to a blowjob because, for me, it is still about humiliation. But then I have never gotten the thing about blowjobs being submissive either. Unless the guys has you backed against a wall, so you can't get away, and is choking you with his cock, how is it submissive? They are the ones putting their precious little tool into an object with TEETH. Anyway....facesitting doesn't require a lady take her clothing off. It is a power place and if it is uncomfortable she is unlike to have someone do it.

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RE: Why don't women ask for face sitting (as opposed to... - 1/4/2014 10:00:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		In my experience as a sub, facesitting is never asked for, it is taken once I am tied up and if she is in the mood. Cunnilinngus on the other hand is asked for or demanded depending on the situation.

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RE: Why don't women ask for face sitting (as opposed to... - 1/4/2014 10:42:08 AM   
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RE: Why don't women ask for face sitting (as opposed to... - 1/4/2014 11:15:54 AM   
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RE: Why don't women ask for face sitting (as opposed to... - 1/4/2014 11:55:18 AM   
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RE: Why don't women ask for face sitting (as opposed to... - 1/4/2014 3:43:08 PM   
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The OP has obviously never met you :) Good to see you are still posting :)

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RE: Why don't women ask for face sitting (as opposed to... - 1/4/2014 3:52:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Theologian
OK. I stand corrected. Previously, I couldn't have imagined a guy who didn't like a BJ, but, I do agree, to me, it's a submissive position to be giving the blowjob, although I then read RS's description which explains that a typical blowjob is passive - so it might actually be the submissive position to be the recipient.

I stand corrected. Amazed. But corrected.


Three m/f couples enter the public dungeon. An M/s pair, a D/s pair and a pair of kinky exhibitionist swingers. They all do the exact same act, the guy tells the girl to strip and stand at his side but, it is for entirely different motives and it gets entirely different reactions.

For the M/s pair, it is like taking the car cover off a hot rod you have been working on. It deepens their bond, she obeys and feels owned, feels closer to him . . . feelings of pride and ownership.

For the D/s pair, it was an act of humiliation. She is exposed, vulnerable, naked and embarrassed . . . feelings of power, domination and subjugation.

For the exhibitionists, it is sexual. She loves showing off and turning on strangers . . . with her tits and ass on display, they both scan the crowd to see who's eye they have caught . . . feelings of lust and hedonistic pleasure.

So, it is the same exact act but from different perspectives, just like the blow job example. For me, if she on the floor kneeling before me, even if she is doing all the work, I do not feel submissive. I do not feel violently aggressive either. Sort of like the difference between hunting and cooking over a campfire verses having a wench serve me dinner . . . I feel it is civilized sex and she is my subordinate serving me.

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RE: Why don't women ask for face sitting (as opposed to... - 1/4/2014 3:53:46 PM   
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The other one just said he never got anything from it. He never got hard from it. But going down on women did make him hard. Go figure.



Cabin Boy is like that. It was one of those things I tolerated occasionally because he enjoyed it so much. Meh, can't win 'em all. We mostly found other things to do, and I could always hold it out there for a treat.

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RE: Why don't women ask for face sitting (as opposed to... - 1/4/2014 3:57:05 PM   
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... Point is, I have a much better understanding, now, of why it is that nobody has ever asked me, to date...


Point is, as been recently noted, it's not an activity that generally involves "asking". (Waves at Mummy.)


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RE: Why don't women ask for face sitting (as opposed to... - 1/4/2014 6:30:16 PM   
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Lucy,
The OP has obviously never met you :) Good to see you are still posting :)

Awwwwwwww huggggs n kotc for you. I hope life is keeping you happy hon. And its good to see you back!!!!


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RE: Why don't women ask for face sitting (as opposed to... - 1/4/2014 6:41:35 PM   
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Because they would have to wash!



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