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Mistresses, Which of These Piss You Off Most - 1/25/2014 7:35:27 AM

Futuresocks

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I know they all suck, but which is worst in Your opinion? Feel free to order them from worse to just ordinary bad.

A. Empty "hi miss how r u doing" greetings.
B. Aimless "You are beautiful" compliments.
C. Failure to include a key phrase as requested in a message (thus showing they read Your profile).
D. Unsolicited dick pics.
E. Attempts by other Dom/mes to subvert You.

F. ? What is THE MOST infuriating thing you get from subs/slaves if it is consistently worse than these.

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RE: Mistresses, Which of These Piss You Off Most - 1/25/2014 7:55:23 AM

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D is the worst, including caged ones. Add to that unsolicited/main-profile pics of bare asses and out-of-shape naked bodies.
C (In my profile I say don't expect a response without my key words.)
A
B, I don't mind so much. On other sites where I show my photos, it's not impressive if that's the gist of the message.
E = N/A--No one has tried to subvert or interfere with me.*
I'll have to get back to you on Item "F" unless it gets covered by another Domme/Switch in the meantime.

* I did make the mistake of replying to a refused Friend Request from a Dom to inform him I don't accept these from people I don't know, and that it was a courtesy to introduce yourself first and ask for permission. He freaked out that I dared put him in his place. After blocking him, I thereupon added into my profile I don't want anything to do with Doms contacting me. This way they are forewarned if I choose to ignore them.

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RE: Mistresses, Which of These Piss You Off Most - 1/25/2014 8:38:39 AM

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D. Unsolicited dick picks are the worst.
A & B are mostly just annoying
C helps you weed out the wrong ones.

I refuse to even fool with the ridiculousness in E. They have block & delete buttons for a reason.

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RE: Mistresses, Which of These Piss You Off Most - 1/25/2014 8:48:59 AM

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The cock pics are definitely first, so D is on top. I agree that does include the shots in chastity devices. (Why guys think we're interested of shots where they've locked themselves up, I have no idea.)

Next, I'm going to take an option for F. That one is people offering Me money. I am very specific that I am not a pro/fin and, yes, I do find such offers insulting.

Followed by C. While it's not exactly the same as including a key word, I'm very specific in My profile that I am only interested in receiving email from three categories of people. 1. Those from the forums. 2. Those local to Me. 3. People I've already met in real life. If you're not in one of those categories and you send Me mail, I know you did not read My profile.

Doesn't happen often, but I'd follow that with E. Not saying it works but the attempts have been known to occur.

A/B to Me are pretty much the same thing. A waste of My time that I take care of with a quick delete.

Edited for better phrasing.

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RE: Mistresses, Which of These Piss You Off Most - 1/25/2014 8:57:30 AM

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I don't find any of that infuriating, I save my ire for things that deserve it.

This is (mainly) an adult kinky sex site, I understand people will behave in ways I wouldn't and send me messages I find foolish. Ah well. I shrug, delete, move on. Although I would rather not see a dick pic or the ugly gaping assholes, again it's not the end of the world to me.

I don't include a 'key phrase' in my profile since I assume those that contact me got mesmerized by a pic and didn't bother reading. It's how men (and sometimes women) are, why should I expect them to behave differently?

Although I'm not really searching, I do always respond to well thought out messages from people in this country, even if it's to point out they are not local to me.

For the rest of it I could care less. I think it's very important in life to let a certain amount of bull shit roll right off your back, otherwise you can get mired in it. And that's smelly.

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RE: Mistresses, Which of These Piss You Off Most - 1/25/2014 9:28:54 AM

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G. Threats.
F. As above, ugly gaping anuses
H. Msgs from doms/switches/bi-s as identified in their profiles [including pics of themselves being spitroasted], and then they whine, 'but I'm straight'; much easier now with the filter and hover functions [thanks, CO!] and I don't even have to bother reading/deleting/blocking
I. Group pics of themselves with their faces blacked out but not those of their friends [?!]
J. Empty profiles or those without a locale

Also as above: A B & C just make the sifting and pruning that much easier.

A. Empty "hi miss how r u doing" greetings.
B. Aimless "You are beautiful" compliments.
C. Failure to include a key phrase as requested in a message (thus showing they read Your profile).

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RE: Mistresses, Which of These Piss You Off Most - 1/25/2014 10:58:38 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Futuresocks

I know they all suck, but which is worst in Your opinion? Feel free to order them from worse to just ordinary bad.

A. Empty "hi miss how r u doing" greetings.
This is mildly irritating. If they say that & nothing else, I just roll my eyes and don't answer. Nothing to go on means no answer.
B. Aimless "You are beautiful" compliments.
I wouldn't say that's "bad." I will normally write back "Thank you."
C. Failure to include a key phrase as requested in a message (thus showing they read Your profile).
I haven't requested that. Maybe I should. lol
D. Unsolicited dick pics.
Eeewww I can't stand that. What do they think, I will ask them to drop trou in the coffee shop so I can recognize them?
E. Attempts by other Dom/mes to subvert You.
I've had male Doms try to make me submit and it always pisses me off.

F. ? What is THE MOST infuriating thing you get from subs/slaves if it is consistently worse than these.
This type just kills me. The one who repeatedly writes to me to stick things in his peehole. GROW UP!! The one who repeatedly offers me $500 for scat. WTF!? It's on my Hard Limits list written out on my profile, for crying out loud.

I would have to say the worst are the ones who constantly ask me for things that are specifically on my profile as NOT wanted and then they get all butthurt when I tell them NO. They are not special little snowflakes.

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RE: Mistresses, Which of These Piss You Off Most - 1/25/2014 3:27:39 PM

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I find E to be quite humorous. Tho it happens very infrequently, it has a tendency to crack me up.
If in a decent mood will answer A with one word if at all
B with a thank you.
don't have a "key phrase
mostly wont bother with D.

most things are not worth getting infuriated about.

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RE: Mistresses, Which of These Piss You Off Most - 1/26/2014 10:14:21 AM

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quote:

A. Empty "hi miss how r u doing" greetings.
B. Aimless "You are beautiful" compliments.
C. Failure to include a key phrase as requested in a message (thus showing they read Your profile).
D. Unsolicited dick pics.
E. Attempts by other Dom/mes to subvert You.

F. ? What is THE MOST infuriating thing you get

D - unsolicited genital pictures followed by pictures of what THEY like to see or think is "hawt!". Um, it's not.

F - "i want 2 b ur boi"
This, as an opening line, is always the mark of a quality boy.

C. Hum, but I'd clarify that it is when they just send a message, but have not looked at my profile. Frequently they are looking for things on my "Nope I don't do that list."

A & B - I just chalk that up to sometimes maybe an opening line as awkward and this is an attempt, so I give them the benefit of the doubt. If the second one is just as lame, well they are out of the pool.

E. I have not had that experience yet. I think that might amuse me before I sent a tart message and blocked them.

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RE: Mistresses, Which of These Piss You Off Most - 1/26/2014 6:08:57 PM

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I would have typed this out but seeing as Chatte already said the things I would have it seems simpler to just quote her.

quote:

ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

I don't find any of that infuriating, I save my ire for things that deserve it.

This is (mainly) an adult kinky sex site, I understand people will behave in ways I wouldn't and send me messages I find foolish. Ah well. I shrug, delete, move on. Although I would rather not see a dick pic or the ugly gaping assholes, again it's not the end of the world to me.

I don't include a 'key phrase' in my profile since I assume those that contact me got mesmerized by a pic and didn't bother reading. It's how men (and sometimes women) are, why should I expect them to behave differently?

Although I'm not really searching, I do always respond to well thought out messages from people in this country, even if it's to point out they are not local to me.

For the rest of it I couldn't care less. I think it's very important in life to let a certain amount of bull shit roll right off your back, otherwise you can get mired in it. And that's smelly.

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RE: Mistresses, Which of These Piss You Off Most - 1/26/2014 9:43:18 PM

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How can someone else subvert you? "You're doing that wrong, you need to blindfold them before putting the gag on". All you need to do is ignore them or tell them to go away.

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RE: Mistresses, Which of These Piss You Off Most - 1/26/2014 9:46:42 PM

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My earlier response was to the spirit of your question, not whether anything you listed actually gets me pissed off, other than outright rudeness. More like annoyed.

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ORIGINAL: Futuresocks

C. Failure to include a key phrase as requested in a message (thus showing they read Your profile).

F. ? What is THE MOST infuriating thing you get from subs/slaves if it is consistently worse than these.

Anyone can read a profile. Whether they comprehended what they read -- that's another matter.
Re: (C) This is my first test. If someone cannot follow instructions or did a quickie skim job, having a mandatory key word(s) will automatically disqualify him if not contained in his initial contact message.
Last night a "slave" wrote there was nothing more he wanted to do with his life than to serve me.

I replied that I would never consider a sub/slave who couldn't follow a simple instruction in the first place.

This worked to one sub's benefit today. His first "hi/hi there/hello/how are you" 1-3 word-type message might have been ignored by many women.
His second message contained my key words, with an additional sentence which was conversational, therefore inviting a pleasant response.
(Of course, I had to give him a couple tips about how much better his second message was than his first, and recommended putting his nude pic into his photo gallery and go with a clothed shot for his primary profile pic.)

Re: (F) Some choose to disregard certain requirements specified, believing they should and will become the notable exception to the rule.
Not infuriating, but oftentimes pathetic. If you're only one year away from the stated age range, then give it a try. Maybe two years. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Five years' difference? 10-12 years? Who are you kidding?

"Local" and "nearby" do not mean two states away or clear across the country, much less overseas!

No, I do not cam, and I don't have time to chat with random strangers. Offering me money will not change my mind, and I consider this an insult.

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RE: Mistresses, Which of These Piss You Off Most - 2/6/2014 11:29:34 PM

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all of the above ugh

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RE: Mistresses, Which of These Piss You Off Most - 2/7/2014 10:42:56 AM

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F. As above, ugly gaping anuses

Are there such things as beautiful gaping anuses, then?

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RE: Mistresses, Which of These Piss You Off Most - 2/7/2014 11:43:28 AM

GoddessManko

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Wow, nothing on that list annoys me. I guess I'm that desensitized? LOL
In any case, I can usually preview an email before clicking it and unless it's over two paragraghs I can do so successfully and then decide whether it is worth a click. (inside info)
Amazingly though, despite not having a keyword, some try to correct me about #3 lacking from my profile.
And then I tell them as politely as possible:
"Read the entire thing".
It is often not spiteful but it does annoy more than most things. I'm surprised anyone contacts me at all with the brash nature of mine.
There is more of my personality on the forums than in my profile so, meh.
Perhaps in my mind if they really want to get to know me, they have plenty of material for their investigative interest. :)
I'm kind of that way. :)

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RE: Mistresses, Which of These Piss You Off Most - 2/7/2014 1:10:44 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

quote:

F. As above, ugly gaping anuses

Are there such things as beautiful gaping anuses, then?

Ones with long-stemmed roses flourishing out of them? Those could be beautiful if you squint a little. Topical as well, what with V-day coming up/

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RE: Mistresses, Which of These Piss You Off Most - 2/7/2014 9:59:31 PM

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Yes, 'ugly gaping' may seem redundant, but my penultimate pup had a nice pert tight ass and a relatively cute balloon-knot tight anus that winked fetchingly when THINGS were done to its owner, and seemed to *beg* to be pegged by a gracile strapon and its careful owner/operator.
I treat good men's rectums like a Girl Guide camp; I leave 'em better than I found 'em. I'd like to think if they were in a photo line-up [I'm laughing and reminiscing with this image], one would be hard-pressed [;-)] to figure out which ones I'd worked up to fisting, which if the good man is built for it, is an amazingly intimate act.

But the unsolicited photos I get sent are rarely rosebuds & the last two were particularly bleak: both were gaping, and one was not clean; eurgh.

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RE: Mistresses, Which of These Piss You Off Most - 2/11/2014 3:41:13 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Futuresocks

I know they all suck, but which is worst in Your opinion? Feel free to order them from worse to just ordinary bad.

A. Empty "hi miss how r u doing" greetings.
B. Aimless "You are beautiful" compliments.
C. Failure to include a key phrase as requested in a message (thus showing they read Your profile).
D. Unsolicited dick pics.
E. Attempts by other Dom/mes to subvert You.

F. ? What is THE MOST infuriating thing you get from subs/slaves if it is consistently worse than these.

E is the most annoying. I am smaller and petite and have smile on my face so they think they can get over one me.
A like really get teh fuck
D i dont allow unsolicited face pix sent. profile pix are a must but dont send them to me unless i ask.
B hey way to stand out kid

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RE: Mistresses, Which of These Piss You Off Most - 2/17/2014 4:30:17 PM

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F. Going into detail about their kink but acting as if they need advice. It's always someone way older than me.

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RE: Mistresses, Which of These Piss You Off Most - 2/17/2014 4:38:54 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsGypsey

quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

quote:

F. As above, ugly gaping anuses

Are there such things as beautiful gaping anuses, then?

Ones with long-stemmed roses flourishing out of them? Those could be beautiful if you squint a little. Topical as well, what with V-day coming up/

Now, that was rather disturbing, Ms G, and in multifarious ways.

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