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Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s clot... - 7/6/2006 7:13:30 PM   
MaleModel


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Status: offline 		Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s clothes?  Do some women not care at all about this?  What drives its appeal?
My Mistress says, “it’s because I just like it, that’s all”
Is it “because you can?”  i.e., it exemplifies your control?  Or is there more to it?
I know My Mistress enjoyed it immensely when she coaxed me into my first panties.  Then we shopped together, which she loved, especially seeing if things fit or having me try them on in dressing rooms. That's easy for me to understand.
Since then, I’ve “developed” to the point where I got my first “outerwear” (skirts and tops) without her even asking.  This was a source of great pride to her…….I guess because my attitudinal shift was her doing, and done to please her.
Now I’m largely on my own, with just an occasional suggestion (“I would love you in a pink sweater”).  She loves that I have such “slutty” taste, e.g., very short skirts, metal belts, and says that’s the only way she wants me to dress.  I'm trending toward what she calles the "Biker Bitch" look.
Her close friends love me dressed this way too……they’re the only ones who’ve seen me……they get visibly aroused when I “dress up.”  Of course, I enjoy dressing up for Mistress and her friends.  What submissive male wouldn’t enjoy doing things that arouse women?
Do all men who “dress up” for their Dommes try to look ultra-slutty?  What is there in the submissive male psyche that pushes us in that direction?
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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/6/2006 7:31:26 PM   
LadyMorgynn


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Status: offline 		I'm not the least interested in having my slave dress in women's clothing.  On the contrary, I *enjoy* dressing him in my favorite types of men's clothing, finding a style/look that both suits him and pleases me.  Anything goes, as long as I like it... GQ, the lumberjack look, executive, preppie, dressed up, dressed down, and any combination thereof.  My own "Ken" doll <grin>  Hey, it's my dream!



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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/6/2006 7:40:44 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		My 2 cents...
I enjoy dressing SOME of my boys, othres I dont.  I am all about the asthetics, and if a boy looks exceptionally good in girlclothes than thats what I want to see him in.  I am a strange flavor of bisexual.  Asthetically, I far prefer females, physicaly sexually I prefer males.  My pets allow me to build the best of both worlds when I want it. And my boy now is as comfortable and hapy dressed as a girl as he ever was as a boy. It is definately more enjoyable to do when the pet gets into it as much as I do.

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/6/2006 8:22:35 PM   
MsKatHouston


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Status: offline 		I also enjoy it only with some submissives.  If the boy really likes it or really dislikes it then I like it.  If he doesn't really care either way than neither do I.

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/6/2006 8:24:18 PM   
michaelGA2


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Status: offline 		it gives Them the opportunity to view clothing one someone else before deciding whether or not to wear it Themselves...LOL

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/6/2006 8:29:15 PM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		I originally put a pair of rumba lace panties on my sub to humilate him. Much to both our surprise it excited him so much he could barely contain himself.   I personally love to get him all worked up, so I've expanded his cross dressing experiences with thigh hi's, garter belts, corsets, lace thongs (which he loves so much he won't wear mens underwear again he claims), a french maid outfit, high heels and a vinyl skirt.

We too do the shopping thing together and he got so into it, he ordered a bunch of stuff all on his own. He knows I like him to look slutty too .  I have to say, the man has some of the nicest legs in thigh hi's I've ever seen!

I opened the door to this fetish of his and we are enjoying it very much. It just makes me wonder what will lie behind the next door that I open.

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/6/2006 8:30:56 PM   
michaelGA2


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Status: offline 		They have to do something with those old styles they no longer where, what better way than to put them on a guy...lol

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/6/2006 8:31:54 PM   
kc692


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Status: offline 		I agree with the other dommes; I do not want my men feminized.  That is perfectly wonderful for those that do, but personally I want my women feminine and my men masculine.  So, SOME  dominant women like their boys in women's clothing, SOME do not.  After all, dominant women are not all alike, that might make us boring, and we can't have that!

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/6/2006 8:45:55 PM   
MysticFireTopaz


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Status: offline 		Not all Dominant Women like to dress their boys in Women's clothes.  I happen to be one that does.  Why?  I find it entertaining for some reason.
 
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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/6/2006 8:47:45 PM   
michaelGA2


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Status: offline 		especially seeing a beer-belly male in a blue chiffon and high heels...LOL

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/6/2006 8:49:50 PM   
stockingluvr54


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Status: offline 		"What is there in the submissive male psyche that pushes us in that direction? "

I have no definate idea....but many perceptions?. That's why I'm here....kind of trying to figure out whether I'm comming, going , or shittin...??? Recently started to CD (just underwear) after a pro interviewed me for a meet and I told her of my fetish for women wearing said items. She instructed me to buy these for our meet.... I had a pretty good idea what she had in mind and was excited? Well she dressed me up and I was HOOKED...period...done! I'm a half assed CDer now...lol!!!I've noticed that in my past normal relationships that trying to get your girl to wear the stuff is usually somewhere between "ok..if I must" or they bitch about it or just go along with it to please me? Well that takes the fun out of it because then it becomes one sided if she's not really into it also......??  So now that "normal" relationships are obviously out of the question for myself.....I seek a woman to take the lead that just might enjoy feminising her guy once in awhile or tolerate the fetish and we in return want to thank her through submission? GIVE and take...etc? Also think it would be a big relief to turn over control.....or give up the macho stereotype we're programmed with? Think that some of us sub minded men are just tired of playing that Me Tarzan...You Jane thing? Especially if we're really not that macho guy? Just give it up so we can let our guard down? Just be yourself or "at ease" with an understanding dominant. A person gets tired of hiding their inner feelings/fetishes,etc.You even mention something like this to a "normie" and they're gone and half the town knows...? I think that's why some of us(me anyways) seek a woman to take the lead? I've never lived it so I can't talk from experience but that's why I'm drawn towards finding a dominant at this time.....if nothing else...at least she'll probably understand me better than I do and most likely not be judgemnetal....just pass you by... or dismiss you...or take the lead and mold you? Think it boils down to if we can keep the lady happy...it'll come back to us? Just my perception as I can't say from any RT lifestyle stuff.........

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/6/2006 8:50:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		There's only one way I want my men in women's clothing, and that's in a corset, platform heels and fishnets, a la Franknfurter from Rocky Horror Picture Show.  I don't want him to look like a woman.  I want him to look like a man in corset and fishnets.  Call it a fetish.

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/6/2006 8:53:54 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		Mine right now is going to be my baby girl. I want him to take his young innocent look to a different level. It is defiantely a power rush, but its also amazingly attractive... to me.  Whether anyone else wold think so, I dont know.  But I also dont care.. its my kink.. get your own *grin*

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/6/2006 8:57:05 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: michaelGA2

especially seeing a beer-belly male in a blue chiffon and high heels...LOL



You just ruined the fetish! LMAO!

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/6/2006 8:58:35 PM   
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sorry




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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/6/2006 9:11:34 PM   
LadyMorgynn


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Status: offline 		Yeah, my girl is going to be in heels, stockings, latex, low-cut, see-through, low-rider jeans, whatever strikes my fancy... along with lots of chic/hip accessorizing and maybe a pink or magenta streak in her hair. AND manicured nails.  I'm planning on having SOOOOo much fun ;)

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ORIGINAL: kc692

I agree with the other dommes; I do not want my men feminized.  That is perfectly wonderful for those that do, but personally I want my women feminine and my men masculine.  So, SOME  dominant women like their boys in women's clothing, SOME do not.  After all, dominant women are not all alike, that might make us boring, and we can't have that!


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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/6/2006 9:12:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MaleModel

Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s clothes? 


I don't...

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/6/2006 9:18:59 PM   
michaelGA2


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Status: offline 		would it help imagining a sumo wrestler in a nice evening gown complete with the long gloves?

LOL


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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/6/2006 9:38:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Evanesce

There's only one way I want my men in women's clothing, and that's in a corset, platform heels and fishnets, a la Franknfurter from Rocky Horror Picture Show. I don't want him to look like a woman. I want him to look like a man in corset and fishnets. Call it a fetish.




Yes, I go for that whole androgynous thing too. Otherwise, it is just too silly.

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RE: Why do Dominant women like their boys in women’s ... - 7/6/2006 9:45:11 PM   
MistressLorelei


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Status: offline 		I do not want to see my submissive male looking like a female... especially in public.  I don't care for cross dressing, or total feminization. I want him to look like a male who happens to be wearing pretty panties underneath his jeans.

I think feminization is a very intense exchange of power and role reversal.  It can be an aspect which signifies the female-led authority and control over the relationship.  It has an element of humiliation, and as far as panties (and sometimes stockings too) are concerned, for some reason (and I don't really care why) it excites me to no end.

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