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areacode613 -> RE: What acts are humiliating to you? (5/3/2004 10:12:52 AM)
As a Dom Male what I enjoy giving for humiliation training, is having the female sub humiliate herself for me. This has worked very well for me. As an example Hanging empty containers from nipple clamps and have her ad marbles one at a time as we play. There is no end to the creative ideas one can come up with. Simply having her use a very powerful vibrator on herself while I watch, and letting her go on and on. What I enjoy most about this type of humiliation is that I set up the task, and she runs with it. It puts responsibility on the sub for her own humiliation, which makes it "REAL" as to imposed upon her. I also enjoy the fact that I get to enjoy seeing where this goes. As a Dom, always in control it is nice to watch a submissive going on her own where she has never gone before. This is becomming a bigger part of my play all the time. I enjoy all aspects of humiliation play verbal as well. It of course goes without saying that this type of play is intended only for subs who enjoy this type of play. I also enjoy seeing a sub dressed down in public; short skirts, skimpy tops, see throughs all work wonders. I just bought a remote control vibrator to use on a shopping trip to the mall. Can't wait to try it out. Could be very effective as she buys condoms at the pharmacy, watching her squirm as starts to throb in her panties. I will let you know how it works.

MistressDREAD -> RE: What acts are humiliating to you? (5/3/2004 10:50:28 AM)
get a remote control one areacode613 they are as fun as all get out to use as they never know when or where Youll vibe em and humiliate them and show their reactions to the untimley buzzzzzzzzzz

MstrMrW -> RE: What acts are humiliating to you? (5/3/2004 11:21:50 PM)
About going in to buy cigs - one time I had a sub who had disobeyed an order to not wear any panties - so as punishment I had her take them off and put them in her mouth - then we drove to the local mini mart and I instructed her to go in and buy me a pack of my brand of cigs - keeping her panties in her mouth the whole time. Needless to say she was rather embarrassed ( as well as bare assed) since she couldnt speak and had to point to what she wanted, along with the fact that we were in public and engaging in lifestyle behaviour.

Sinergy -> RE: What acts are humiliating to you? (5/4/2004 8:11:38 AM)
Hello, Besides the legal issues behind public acts or scenes is the aspect of a non-consensual scene. While it is amusing to watch your submissive do humiliating things in public places, none of the other patrons signed on for that tour of duty. For me, it is disrespectful to force people to do things without having their consent up front. Sinergy

1Cowboy -> RE: What acts are humiliating to you? (5/5/2004 10:22:01 AM)
Most would consider submitting to some four legged sexual situations, for the private viewing/helping pleasure of their Dom and guests, privately, of course, to be one of the most humiliating situations.....and also one of the most pleasureable. 1Cowboy

MasterSaintans -> RE: What acts are humiliating to you? (5/8/2004 4:58:47 PM)
my Master has my labia's pierced 6 times, and there are times when i have been mouthy or plain bratty that he will put fishing line between the rings and then hang fishing wieghts on the line and makes me walk around the parties or dungeon's. Anywhere from a few minutes to an hour or 2, really depends on his mood and my bratty ness. believe me this is very humiliating to me. respectfully Master Saintans angel

MasterZues -> RE: What acts are humiliating to you? (5/9/2004 6:38:50 AM)
It depends on what you call humiliation, is it personal or public, I find making her go out with me in a see through top and no bra seems to have more of an affect on her than when I leave her sitting in the car playing with her pussy and tits and people walk by. A good one though is making them raise their skirts and pee while in public, standing leg spread, that seems to be it every time. It depends more on if it is day or night as to what the affect is Another I am training calls all free persons Master and Mistress or Sir and Maam in direct relationships and has never said she felt humiliated, she wishes she could wear her collar everywhere. On the personal side I find verbal works as well, having her address herself as a little cock sucking slut while begging to to do so, referring to themselves as a spoiled cunt that needs to be taught better. As with everything like this you have to pay attention to the result, some people can handle this sort of thing some cannot and it can have very lasting affects as with all the mental aspects of BDSM. Things like requiring they ask to pee, then taking them to do so, while watched, and as others watch. One I have not tried but might is having her crawl outside to pee and then cover it up. The list goes on and on. Z

Checkers -> RE: What acts are humiliating to you? (5/18/2004 8:17:41 PM)
Hi Mistress Kiss, et al; There are some interesting ideas about humiliation at The Frugal Domme web site; http://www.frugaldomme.com/frugal.htm (From their homepage use the sidebar link entitled "D/s techniques") One idea that I liked was applying the little pink "bra bow" somewhere on the clothing worn on the outside. More cute than humiliating, really. But you must admit that having to wear those frilly undergarments that square dancers wear does have some potentially humiliating aspects... unless you're a square dancer.... Checkers

biworship -> RE: What acts are humiliating to you? (5/20/2004 5:20:27 PM)
for me, public humiliation is best. i am a sub and i really met my Mistress by kneeling in public with flowers in hand and i asked Her permission to worship Her feet in public. i was timid and very humiliated at first, but after i got into it (sucking on her toes) i did not care who was watching. Later going shopping with a leash around my balls and hanging out my pants. Mistress would yank on it when and where she felt like it. Finally, CBT over Mistress knee and then strap on with verbal humiliation (in private).

dixiedumpling -> RE: What acts are humiliating to you? (5/20/2004 8:39:02 PM)
I haven't been subjected to much humiliation in session. Humiliation is something I have loathed and dreaded all my life. Probably because my parents did such an excellent job of it. I don't like to be looked at or have attention called to me. Public humiliation would be beyond my ability (even though I have had a certain fantasy about masturbating in the backseat of the car as a former Dom drove down the road). In private, though, I got through a session where I was forced to repeat each slur on my character and agree that that was exactly what I was. It made me cry for Him to talk to me like that. He treated me like a nobody, worthless. Checkers, those frilly underpants are called pettipants. I have a couple pair. Want them?

Anubis -> RE: What acts are humiliating to you? (2/8/2005 6:12:28 PM)
Humiliation for me is to be loaned out. Being flogged while mistress watches. For some reason having her see me helpless and in pain is incredibly different than her putting me there.

Jeshy -> RE: What acts are humiliating to you? (2/8/2005 10:17:07 PM)
I absolutely LOVE humiliation. I think almost every little thing humiliates me come to think about it. Being dragged around on a leash in public, calling people "Sir" or "Ma'am," going into public braless on a cold day where it turns my nipples all hard to where the whole world can see..yeah that was really humiliating. Umm, having my Mistress drag me to a public bathroom and fuck me while I failed desperately to control my moans but failed miserably at. Getting on my knees and begging her for forgiveness for no other reason then because she told me to. Begging in general. Witnesses..that's a big one. Having someone watch me while I'm umm...being naughty is really humiliating. Being called a dirty little girl. Ohh! I hate giving details...so giving details is really humiliating especially when I'm telling someone else why I'm being punished. Ahhh. There's so much. The list goes on. The thing is about humiliation is that not everyone likes it, obviously. But for those that do, I guess that's where the "good" humiliation and the "bad" humiliation comes in. For me, if someone wants to humiliate me just for the sake of humiliating me, it doesn't work. They have to know how I like to be humiliated. It's like a double edged sword. For instance, some people find being slapped in public as humiliating. For me, if I was to be slapped in public, it would be humiliating yes, but it also has no appeal to me, thus being more harmful than helpful. I'm done ranting.

fencerpet19 -> RE: What acts are humiliating to you? (2/9/2005 1:59:16 PM)
My Master and I had an interesting conversation about what sort of stuff I got off to and did to myself when I was younger (around age 7 - 13). I had some pretty weird stuff. I think He is quoted saying that I was a "treasure trove of sexual perversions" haha [;)]. Anyway, later He made me do the same stuff to myself while He watched. It was rather humiliating because it brought back all these crazy childhood memories, and I felt so awkward doing all these childish things again with Him watching. I think if you can get inside a sub's mind and find out what makes em squirm, you can use that to your advantage. I also cringe at public humiliation [:@]

FangsNfeet -> RE: What acts are humiliating to you? (2/9/2005 2:27:21 PM)
Verbal is my favorite but I perfer not to use a persons past against them. Having you perform a task and then comming back to say "NO NO! ALL WRONG!" and spanking you regardless how good the job was done. Introducing you as "My SLUT" at places is nice as well. Or how about a role play scene of being a Drill Sergent and the sub is a grunt? A sub that I know can't stand saying that she's "Pretty?" She'd rather say she is fat and ugly to me on the phone than say how attractive she is. I hate low self esteem. I don't care how many spankings it takes. She will begin beliving that she is beautiful sooner or later and proudly tell it to me At most munches Submissives wear little or no clothing. Since I'm in charge of selectling clothes, I could make you wear something hidious as punishment. Instead of going on and on with ideas and things I've done in the past, just let it be known that I'm evil and will use humiliation any way I can to get what I want out of you.

LadyAngelika -> RE: What acts are humiliating to you? (2/9/2005 4:14:13 PM)
I've read all the posts on this forum. Interesting contributions :) A few things I agree as well are Lawrence's concept of "good humiliation" vs "bad humiliation". Also, I stay away from public play because I find involving passers by into my kink is a non-consensual act. As for actual techniques, I identify a lot with GoddessMarissa's approach. I prefer mental/physical humiliation over verbal, though now and then, verbal can be fun. I just find sometimes the verbal humiliation is too easy, especially if it's just insults. Dog training can often be effective way of humiliating. In fact, making a sub act out or make sounds like an animal will get them red as a tomato. Now it's also important to gage just how much humiliation a sub can handle. For some, pushing humiliation limits, even if it goes into the difficult to do, hard to swallow category, just going through with it is a rush. I don’t do a lot of cross-dress play but I do often have a boy wear pink panties under a suit when we go out for dinner and/or write slut boy with my red lipstick on his ass or chest. Though I have never actually gone through with it, I always threaten to tell our server about his little secret. Another important factor for humiliation play is getting inside the submissive’s head. The most successful humiliation play I have had was when I understood what exactly was humiliating to my sub. Two examples come to mind. One is of a man who today is a successful entrepreneur in the technology industry and probably could have any woman he wanted (well at least from the gold digging batch). But when he was in high school, he was a nerd. When he tried talking to popular girls or walked by them, they would mock him. A few weeks after he confided this to me, I waited for him to arrive wearing a school girl outfit (it’s not just for sub girls anymore!) and you should have seen his eyes when he walked in the door. I told him he better get this stupid tutoring session over with quickly because I had better things to do then hang out with a loser like him. Well… let’s say it was a very intense afternoon. Another is one is the time I trained a tomboyish girl to act like a lady. I knew this was a sore spot for her because she got nagged by her mother all the time growing up. So to get her in heels, lingerie, short skirts and putting make-up on was a kind of cross-dressing for her even though she was biologically a girl. The process took a while and was often humiliating for her but she kept coming back for more. It ranged from learning how to walk in heels to eyebrow plucking to all sorts of mannerisms, etc. She was absolutely breath taking as a girlie girl. In the end she said being made to do it instead of being nagged at for not doing it made all the difference. As my approach to everything else in kink, just because I’m the Domme and I say what goes doesn’t mean I treat every sub the same way. Custom designed torture is still very much the best ;) - LA

biworship -> RE: What acts are humiliating to you? (4/28/2005 1:20:05 AM)
MistressDread, i am a submissive and want to commit as a slave. Verbal and physical humilation will help me achieve the state of total servitude and devotion to my Mistress. i want to be in that place all the time and let my mind sink deeper and deeper under Mistress control. Total humilation in private and in groups is the best way to train a slave wanting to be owned. You are doing good work Mistress and i applaud You.

biworship -> RE: What acts are humiliating to you? (4/28/2005 1:24:32 AM)
You are truely an artist in Your use of humiliation of males. i have been dog trained and it is humiliating at first, but something happens in my mind and with constant training Espectially in front of Mistresses friends. i really embrace the humilation and want to be treated that way all of the time.

LadyAngelika -> RE: What acts are humiliating to you? (4/28/2005 5:08:14 AM)
As much as I enjoy humiliation play, I could not keep a sub in humiliation all the time for a few reasons. First, it's because humiliation play is mentally draining for a dominant. Don't get me wrong, it's a good mental drain, but after a while, we need a break. Second, because ultimately, I want to respect my submissive. And there needs to be positive feedback in the loop as well. Third, because humiliation will lose it's effect after a while... i.e.: the routine will get old. - LA

cellogrrlMK -> RE: What acts are humiliating to you? (4/28/2005 9:48:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressKiss Now see....here is where the rubber hits the road. I think that some of these acts cross the line of humiliation between a Master and submissive and imposing your kink on others in public. There are so many great things that can be done in a subtle manner, but you start subjecting others to your kink in this manner and you risk getting arrested. The sad part is that the submissive is probably the one who will end up in trouble with the law since she actually did the act. If you are in a BDSM-friendly environment, that's one thing, but a classy restaurant and bringing out panties in front of all there - obviously, as you mentioned, enough to get people to look - that is unfairly subjecting your kink on someone else. Not only that, but doing anything like that in a family restaurant is just plain wrong. You are not the one that has to explain why the pretty lady is walking to a table with her panties in her hand. That's walking a dangerous line, especially when it can mean that your submissive could face legal charges and/or have a criminal record afterwards. No one has the right to risk allowing children to witness acts related to BDSM. Trust me, I live in Texas where a woman was arrested for having a Passion Party in a private home and selling vibrators. If cops in Burleson will make an example out of her, they'll do it to your submissive. Dominants are supposed to protect submissives from such harm. A criminal record - in my humble opinion - is harmful. The dominant must be responsible enough to keep her safe in this regard. I haven't read beyond this post yet to see further responses, but this was my thought as I read the post above it.

ruffnecksbabygir -> RE: What acts are humiliating to you? (4/28/2005 11:01:42 AM)
Master enjoys verbally humiliating me, and i have grown to enjoy it a lot! At first i just didn't know how to feel about it, it turned me on but i felt i should be offended! then i gave up on the "offended" attitude and just accepted it and now it just excites me tremendously! He also has me refer to Him as Sir in front of all my family & friends, and in public as well....i'm also used as His toilet and i find that very humiliating.

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