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ORIGINAL: SubGuy4Life

Hello all,
This is my first post and although I have been on the collarme website for awhile I am now trying to become a more active member, I am however a novice and apologize if I offend anyone.

I have developed a deep craving/need to be a cuckold, but not the fake cuckold crap that comes up in a quick google search. I am seeking a Goddess to love and be loved by. Are they real Women out there that enjoy/want to be a cuckoldress, or is cuckold something that fake subs have twisted and warped so much that a Mistress hears cuckold and runs for the hills? I am not a cross dresser, sissy, nor do I consider myself gay in the slightest fashion. I have always toughly enjoyed sex and I think the combination of that and wanting to a submissive drives my desire to be a cuckold. For example it could be said that sex is the thing I want most, giving control of that to a Mistress is submission. Then to add on to the fact that she takes what I want most and teases me about having sex with other people is ultimate submission. I am not saying I never want sex (quite the contrary) but I think there would be a huge power exchange there. Which I think is what drives women to be dominate. Am I crazy/ making any sense? How do I get past the stereotypical crap that is associated to find a Mistress that is looking for similar things and not the fake money grabbing people on here? Is my idea even real or has it been also warped by the fake crap, ie maybe I am looking for something that isn't real. Any advice would be greatly appreciated, or at least to know there are like minded people like me.

Thank you all for your time!

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ORIGINAL: Moderator3

FR

Will I need a broom and a mop or are we going to go for the big trash bin?

Let's control the urge to call other members names please.

Thank you

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ORIGINAL: thompsonx

Okay, let me fix that.

I have handcuffs and leg irons.
Don't threaten me unless you are serious.

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ORIGINAL: Bhruic

Is Cuckold really the correct term for what is being described here?

Traditionally a cuckold was a husband. It seems to me that the cuckold fantasy involves the humiliation of watching another man have sex with the woman that is properly yours, and being denied sex with the woman who is properly yours.

Without that close connection, and subsequent humiliation, isn't it just sexual denial?

Just curious.

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha



What do you do when she leaves you for the guy she is fucking? Intimacy is a slippery slope. These are real considerations.

I like the idea of cuckolding in theory, but I am sexually conservative in that I don't like penetration sex or oral sex with random guys. I can orgasm really, really easily though from nipple stimulation among other things, so I can get off sexually with men without having them get access to me in sexually dangerous (as in disease) ways. So the idea has crossed my mind.

But moreso, I really get hot with the idea of going out to clubs and whatnot and making out with random guys while my primary is just my driver or gets my drinks - having other men try to pick me up, etc. But leaving it at that. There's less risk. No further encounters.

When you start to get into full blown sexuality, there comes a risk of intimacy, and you can't protect against that. And what about jealousy? I guess for a cuckold that's part of the rush. I think I understand the cuckold mindset pretty well, but it seems like one of those that are much better fantasy than reality. You also have to find a woman who likes sleeping around without the risk of emotional connection, and I think that's rare.

And again, once you find her, what do you do when she dumps you for the guy that offers her more?

Akasha