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shouldiQmark -> Anal sex: reality or just porn? (9/7/2014 8:20:17 AM)

I've never really got it. Don't understand why anyone would have anything to do with particular orifice.
Do real people in real life do it or is it just in porn?
Is the female perspective different from the male?

Curiously, Mark.




ExiledTyrant -> RE: Anal sex: reality or just porn? (9/7/2014 8:22:25 AM)

It's like crocks, man. Some people love them, some people hate them, and some people have no opinion.

Jus sayin




CreativeDominant -> RE: Anal sex: reality or just porn? (9/7/2014 8:31:22 AM)

Personally, I love anal sex. Taking the hole considered forbidden...taboo...tight...pain/pleasure inducing...intimate. There is something so special about the moan that runs through he as I begin to push...the tremble...the louder groan when I push past her resistance.




FieryOpal -> RE: Anal sex: reality or just porn? (9/7/2014 8:39:28 AM)

~ FR ~ You're kidding, right? No matter. I've found that people are either anal-erotic or they aren't, whether it's receiving or giving, or both. There doesn't seem to be much middle ground there. Your perspective is subject to change in time. Or not.




ivone57 -> RE: Anal sex: reality or just porn? (9/7/2014 8:57:45 AM)

done it and my perspective is its just as good as vaginal sex sometimes... if the dildo isn't to large that is




LetstalkboutRAP3 -> RE: Anal sex: reality or just porn? (9/7/2014 9:21:46 AM)

People do it because its dirty good fun, like splashing in mud puddles on a rainy day. Other people don't like it because dirty and fun are mutually exclusive in their world. I feel bad for the latter group, they're missin' out.




ExiledTyrant -> RE: Anal sex: reality or just porn? (9/7/2014 9:28:00 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LetstalkboutRAP3

People do it because its dirty good fun, like splashing in mud puddles on a rainy day. Other people don't like it because dirty and fun are mutually exclusive in their world. I feel bad for the latter group, they're missin' out.


Out of curiosity, have you ever been raped?




InHisHeart -> RE: Anal sex: reality or just porn? (9/7/2014 9:30:34 AM)

I'm a female and I LOVE it! Why I love it, it feels great and can bring on mind blowing orgasms. Master also loves it, giving and receiving. He gives more than he receives but he is a Dom that enjoys getting pegged occasionally.




LetstalkboutRAP3 -> RE: Anal sex: reality or just porn? (9/7/2014 9:58:59 AM)


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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant


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ORIGINAL: LetstalkboutRAP3

People do it because its dirty good fun, like splashing in mud puddles on a rainy day. Other people don't like it because dirty and fun are mutually exclusive in their world. I feel bad for the latter group, they're missin' out.


Out of curiosity, have you ever been raped?


No.




Xnawtyx -> RE: Anal sex: reality or just porn? (9/7/2014 10:03:19 AM)

Ouch ouch ouch ouch @ anal sex




shiftyw -> RE: Anal sex: reality or just porn? (9/7/2014 10:05:52 AM)

We have a ton of anal. It's to the point where I expect it every time we have sex. I actually like being DP'd best, although so far only with toys. It's certainly not just in porn. I don't tend to have orgasms from it, but basically I enjoy it for him.




ExiledTyrant -> RE: Anal sex: reality or just porn? (9/7/2014 10:07:59 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LetstalkboutRAP3


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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant


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ORIGINAL: LetstalkboutRAP3

People do it because its dirty good fun, like splashing in mud puddles on a rainy day. Other people don't like it because dirty and fun are mutually exclusive in their world. I feel bad for the latter group, they're missin' out.


Out of curiosity, have you ever been raped?


No.


So your views on rape are speculative/theoretical.




CreativeDominant -> RE: Anal sex: reality or just porn? (9/7/2014 10:11:49 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Xnawtyx

Ouch ouch ouch ouch @ anal sex
Yeppers...that's one of the best sounds at the start of it.[sm=passthelube.gif]




FieryOpal -> RE: Anal sex: reality or just porn? (9/7/2014 10:14:18 AM)

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ORIGINAL: InHisHeart

Why I love it, it feels great and can bring on mind blowing orgasms.

It's the G-spot stimulation. Some angles are better than others, one in particular IMO. In other words, in the male it's the prostate stimulation, with females it's the indirect G-spot stimulation which can bring on those assgasms.

If you don't mind, a brief comment here. I'm so glad to hear a femsub who doesn't think that having a Master who wants to bottom on occasion, especially one who enjoys getting pegged, is "un-Domly" of him. Believe it or not, there are male subs who think that fucking their Mistress is somehow "un-Dommely" of her. [8|] I'm talking about regular vanilla intercourse, not even BDSM or kinky stuff.

(I have a pet theory that these are males who aren't any good in bed in the first place, which is part of their attraction to D/s and to becoming a *submissive* male. It lets them get off the hook.)

ETA: By "angles" I mean angle of entry or sexual positioning.




Arturas -> RE: Anal sex: reality or just porn? (9/7/2014 10:23:28 AM)

To enjoy all of her in a single session while she is bound and helpless will include forced anal sex while I talk dirty to her. It is an act of power and she protests of course but ultimately would be disappointed if I did not take her this way also. I use a condom for that and remove it before penetrating her vaginally again in between whippings. Not to talk dirty, the other thing.




LetstalkboutRAP3 -> RE: Anal sex: reality or just porn? (9/7/2014 10:28:45 AM)


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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant


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ORIGINAL: LetstalkboutRAP3


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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant


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ORIGINAL: LetstalkboutRAP3

People do it because its dirty good fun, like splashing in mud puddles on a rainy day. Other people don't like it because dirty and fun are mutually exclusive in their world. I feel bad for the latter group, they're missin' out.


Out of curiosity, have you ever been raped?


No.


So your views on rape are speculative/theoretical.



You do realize I have a private mailbox if you'd like to have a private conversation, no? Last time I checked this thread was about anal sex, I assume consensual anal sex, and the last time I talked about rape in a thread the poor guy/girl's thread got deleted...




ExiledTyrant -> RE: Anal sex: reality or just porn? (9/7/2014 10:33:52 AM)

Yep, I'm aware. Nevertheless if we look at the nature of topic, have a gander at your profile, and were privy to the yanked thread, then my question is very relevant.

It could be that leather mentality, start at the bottom and experience your way to the top, or that my theme song is spot on... Either or.

Jus sayin




InHisHeart -> RE: Anal sex: reality or just porn? (9/7/2014 10:38:27 AM)


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ORIGINAL: shiftyw

We have a ton of anal. It's to the point where I expect it every time we have sex. I actually like being DP'd best, although so far only with toys. It's certainly not just in porn.


Same here, I'd say about 8 out of 10 times we'll go from vaginal to anal sex and DP is always an added bonus. Some form of anal play takes place every time we have sex. He's a definite ass man which works for me.




LetstalkboutRAP3 -> RE: Anal sex: reality or just porn? (9/7/2014 10:38:45 AM)

Fair enough. To answer your question, my views on rape are theoretical, as opposed to anecdotal.




ExiledTyrant -> RE: Anal sex: reality or just porn? (9/7/2014 10:46:14 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LetstalkboutRAP3

Fair enough. To answer your question, my views on rape are theoretical, as opposed to anecdotal.


Awesome. Now, I'd love to see you expound upon consensual "play rape", your scenario, setting, et al in detail. I'm confident you would get a great deal of feed back and participation, as well as curb a few knee-jerk reactions from people that have experienced the non-consensual atrocity. I'd follow that thread, and since forum posts are linked to our profiles, it would benefit you, in many ways, to reveal the details of that devil.

Jus sayin




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