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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 9/29/2014 3:43:07 AM

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I've been asked to expound about the cage. Excerpt from -=slave radio or just another Walkman?=-

When I found the Walkman in my storage box, it evoked an emotional reaction and many fond memories. You see, it was a form of freedom for a slave that spent over 6 months sleeping in my pretty red cage. It represents a granted freedom in that she did not have to ask to use it. She had to ask pee, ask to wear clothes, ask to eat, but this radio was within the cage and free for use anytime. It was given to her as the “slave radio”.

The cage is a special place. For me, the cage represents proof of surrender through sacrifice of freedom. They become my real captive in a real steel prison. For my slave, cage time makes them feel helpless, at my mercy and teaches them to trust me because I take good care of them while in my charge. It proves my ability to accept and take care of what they surrender… themselves. To others, a cage is something totally different. It is a place for torture, pleasure, punishment, objectification and a myriad of other things.

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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 9/29/2014 3:55:22 AM

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I read a horrible article in the Rolling Stone on solitary.

I'm pretty sure that solitary confinement would make me make friends with the junebugs.

I'm a thing that needs attention. I don't necessarily have to be obnoxious about it, but if its been too long since my guy really paid attention to me- I get pretty weird mentally.
I've always said the best punishment for me is to stop talking to me and to reject my touch.

This sort of thing would horrify and scar me. Forced introspection is something I only do, with a therapist, every other week. And even then I whine incessantly about it.

I'm actually pretty comfortable being alone. I can't even count the number of weekends I've spent never stepping out of my apartment, not talking to anyone on the phone, and not turning on the TV....especially when the weather is bad. I suppose a little bit of time on the internet is all the socialization I really *need* to maintain my usual level of sanity (take that any way you want...) What would happen if I lost my internet connect AND had no books to read as well? That's a good question I'd rather not find out.

I'm a social butterfly. I always have been. I'm ok alone- even happy.

But if you take away work, tv, internet, books, music, distractions- I'd totally break.

I live for work.
The few months I spent recovering from back surgery with no job- made me batty. I was so depressed. I watched SO much hulu.
I ended up memorizing a whole episode of Community- just for a job to do.

Like...over socialization- I need distraction and purpose.
Make me feel useless and lonely and I'll go crazy.

I'm not a social butterfly at all...I'm very comfortable being introverted. But like you, I need my job....as mundane as my current job is, it does at least give me SOME mental stimulation. I don't need to be social....but I do need mental stimulation...learning or some kind of mental challenge to keep me sane.

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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 9/29/2014 4:01:23 AM

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

I've been asked to expound about the cage. Excerpt from -=slave radio or just another Walkman?=-

When I found the Walkman in my storage box, it evoked an emotional reaction and many fond memories. You see, it was a form of freedom for a slave that spent over 6 months sleeping in my pretty red cage. It represents a granted freedom in that she did not have to ask to use it. She had to ask pee, ask to wear clothes, ask to eat, but this radio was within the cage and free for use anytime. It was given to her as the “slave radio”.

The cage is a special place. For me, the cage represents proof of surrender through sacrifice of freedom. They become my real captive in a real steel prison. For my slave, cage time makes them feel helpless, at my mercy and teaches them to trust me because I take good care of them while in my charge. It proves my ability to accept and take care of what they surrender… themselves. To others, a cage is something totally different. It is a place for torture, pleasure, punishment, objectification and a myriad of other things.

That's very interesting....a different way to look at it. I could probably deal with it if it was done in that manner....and the Walkman would definitely help. Like I said....I need SOME kind of mental stimulation.

But my other issue would be the bathroom.....damn....I'm getting old!! I get up at least twice a night! (yeah..I know....TMI...sorry)

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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 9/29/2014 6:16:30 AM

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

I've been asked to expound about the cage. Excerpt from -=slave radio or just another Walkman?=-

When I found the Walkman in my storage box, it evoked an emotional reaction and many fond memories. You see, it was a form of freedom for a slave that spent over 6 months sleeping in my pretty red cage. It represents a granted freedom in that she did not have to ask to use it. She had to ask pee, ask to wear clothes, ask to eat, but this radio was within the cage and free for use anytime. It was given to her as the “slave radio”.

The cage is a special place. For me, the cage represents proof of surrender through sacrifice of freedom. They become my real captive in a real steel prison. For my slave, cage time makes them feel helpless, at my mercy and teaches them to trust me because I take good care of them while in my charge. It proves my ability to accept and take care of what they surrender… themselves. To others, a cage is something totally different. It is a place for torture, pleasure, punishment, objectification and a myriad of other things.

This is awesome, thanks RS! Kind of helps in putting things into perspective as this form of long term confinement will be a bit new for myself as well as him. My question is how were you able to monitor her for the entire 6 months? Was it a quiet time for you? Where you spent quite a bit of it at home?

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Hmmm... what type of physicist is he?

Particle. But he's definitely a genius additionally.

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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 9/29/2014 7:28:01 AM

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its a fantasy, an unrealistic fantasy... to be mentally capable of living a full life but to be confined in this manner is in my book unhealthy... people need contact with other people to survive.... you would change and in doing so you would no longer be the person of interest, you would just be someone locked in a room.... I call unhealthy, now if you were mentally ill in some sorta way and you needed confinement then that's another story all together... I hope that made sense...

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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 9/29/2014 4:09:06 PM

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I've seen a couple threads around here about the use of cages and long term confinement and most of the dominants here don't seem to like the idea. Mostly because they figure that if the slave is confined to a cage, she can't be providing her Master with any service. Makes sense to me.

I was chatting with a dominant this morning and he was telling me that one of his biggest interest is in cages and keeping a slave confined when she isn't serving him. He also said that he likes to use long term cage confinement as a part of "training". He said that the purpose of this and the desired outcome, is for the slave to develop a strong dependence on him....a type of "Stockholm Syndrome" he called it. So that even after the slave is released from the cage and even allowed out into the world to socialize with others, she will still have that psychological dependence and connection to him.

Have any of you ever heard of anything like this actually ever happening in an M/s relationship? I can't believe that if someone is kept confined like that to the point that they have some kind of psychological change, that they wouldn't be damaged in some way and develop some serious issues with dealing with the outside world, especially when away from the Master.

What do you think?

Before making a comment I think I'd like to know what constitutes long term confinement. There was a case in America some years ago where a couple, Cameron and Janice Hooker, kidnapped and kept a girl, Colleen Stan imprisoned for seven years between 1977 and 1984. The case is well known and well documented and I imagine is what the dominant you were talking to is basing his fantasy on. However it wasn't any kind of dependency on the Hookers that kept her from running away it was brutal treatment and basic brainwashing.

BDSM and D/s are nothing more than a game grown ups play. Ok there might be a few hardcore practitioners out there, but mostly it's just dress up and role play.

Simple question, would you like to live in a cage? I know I wouldn't, but the odd few hours now and then? Yea I'd probably enjoy it.

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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 9/29/2014 5:53:29 PM

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ORIGINAL: smileforme50
I've seen a couple threads around here about the use of cages and long term confinement and most of the dominants here don't seem to like the idea. Mostly because they figure that if the slave is confined to a cage, she can't be providing her Master with any service. Makes sense to me.

I was chatting with a dominant this morning and he was telling me that one of his biggest interest is in cages and keeping a slave confined when she isn't serving him. He also said that he likes to use long term cage confinement as a part of "training". He said that the purpose of this and the desired outcome, is for the slave to develop a strong dependence on him....a type of "Stockholm Syndrome" he called it. So that even after the slave is released from the cage and even allowed out into the world to socialize with others, she will still have that psychological dependence and connection to him.

Have any of you ever heard of anything like this actually ever happening in an M/s relationship? I can't believe that if someone is kept confined like that to the point that they have some kind of psychological change, that they wouldn't be damaged in some way and develop some serious issues with dealing with the outside world, especially when away from the Master.

What do you think?

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ORIGINAL; longingtoserveBBW

Before making a comment I think I'd like to know what constitutes long term confinement. There was a case in America some years ago where a couple, Cameron and Janice Hooker, kidnapped and kept a girl, Colleen Stan imprisoned for seven years between 1977 and 1984. The case is well known and well documented and I imagine is what the dominant you were talking to is basing his fantasy on. However it wasn't any kind of dependency on the Hookers that kept her from running away it was brutal treatment and basic brainwashing.

BDSM and D/s are nothing more than a game grown ups play. Ok there might be a few hardcore practitioners out there, but mostly it's just dress up and role play.

Simple question, would you like to live in a cage? I know I wouldn't, but the odd few hours now and then? Yea I'd probably enjoy it.

What constitutes long term confinement? I think in this case I mean any period of confinement that has a long term effect on the confined person's psyche, mental state or personality.

Concerning the Colleen Stan case...yes....the Hookers used brutal treatment and brainwashing to cause a change in her mental state so that she would not escape on her own. But in the case of a Master and slave....it doesn't necessarily work that way. It doesn't sound to me like Resident Sadist used brutality and brainwashing to cause his slave to develop a sense of comfort when she was in her cage.

I know that a lot of people "play" at D/s and BDSM....but for some people it IS the way they manage their relationship. Going by Resident Sadist's description of his slave's experience with a cage, it doesn't sound to me like it was just "dress up and play". I know quite a few people who do not see their M/s and D/s relationships as "dress up and play" and I never make that assumption of anyone.

Would I like to live in a cage? I think it's something I would like to "try" just to see what it is like. Would I be able to deal with it long term (to the point that it had some psychological effect on me)....probably not. But, as evidenced by Resident Sadist's comments, it does't always have to be a negative experience for the slave.

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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 9/29/2014 5:59:30 PM

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^^ for the record- RS's cage is pretty much the hilton suites of cages.

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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 9/30/2014 10:03:47 AM

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I spent some time today trying to search out the pictures you posted at least a year ago of your cage, with the teddy bears in bondage inside, the phone and cushions. Just wonderful! Maybe you'd post them here? I wasn't able to find those posts for some reason.

Posts 5 and 6. Unfortunately the thread went bonkers after that.
http://www.collarchat.com/m_4482887/mpage_1/tm.htm

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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 9/30/2014 10:15:29 AM

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-=Monitoring=-
In this case, she was in the cage half the day, at night. It was quiet time for me. I was usually in the room or lounging about the house while she was caged. However at other times with other inhabitants, there was 24/7 for short periods, like for a weekends. In that case, they could call me on my cell from the cage phone and ask for help even if I was away.

-=Stretching Privileges=-
So I am with a couple friends in the living room and one particularly feisty cage inhabitant is in the dungeon caged. We were having a great time out in the living room and it was getting close to dinner. Next thing I know the doorbell rings and its a pizza boy. He has a couple large pizzas and everything is all paid for. She had ordered pizza from the cage for us with hopes of getting some too. When confronting her about the surprise, this clever slave said, "it was the best way I could think to serve you and our friends. My craving for a Hawaiian pizza had nothing to do with it honest!"

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ORIGINAL: GoddessManko

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

I've been asked to expound about the cage..........................................

This is awesome, thanks RS! Kind of helps in putting things into perspective as this form of long term confinement will be a bit new for myself as well as him. My question is how were you able to monitor her for the entire 6 months? Was it a quiet time for you? Where you spent quite a bit of it at home?

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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 9/30/2014 10:53:34 AM

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"I just read the thread on cages that you responded to and am curious about the "posh nest" cage you had for your slave. Can you please tell me a little about it? Dimension approximation etc?"

The cage is 79" x 32" x 32"
Had it painted Ferrari red at an auto shop
Padded top and bottom
Telephone, internet, laptop w/DVD player & internet TV, radio, reading light, remote control, food tray, watering bottle, pillow, sheets, blanket, battery powered emergency light and free slave snacks (no permission needed to eat)
Let out for rest room but also had bed pan for extended stays

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ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2

I spent some time today trying to search out the pictures you posted at least a year ago of your cage, with the teddy bears in bondage inside, the phone and cushions. Just wonderful! Maybe you'd post them here? I wasn't able to find those posts for some reason.

I think these are what you are asking about.

-=Caged Perspectives=-
[excerpt] I have an upcoming trial run with a potential slave to be. I was putting this together for her so she could learn a little about cages when I realized it might make for nice post. Like everything in life, it is a matter of your perspectives. Not everyone gets the same thing out of an identical act.........

-=She is caged, any questions?=-
(interview with cage inhabitant w/question from CM forum members) [excerpt] ....... I know how much she likes you guys at CollarMe so I thought I would open this thread for her to find in the morning. I will let her attend this thread periodically before breakfast and before bedtime. Feel free to leave your questions and comments for her here.........

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ORIGINAL: shiftyw

^^ for the record- RS's cage is pretty much the hilton suites of cages.

The Hilton holds more guests than my cage.

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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 9/30/2014 12:19:19 PM

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I was looking for the pictures of the cage that had the teddy bears in leather and chains inside, the telephone, other niceties! Are those pictures located in the threads you linked?

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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 9/30/2014 1:34:07 PM

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

-=Monitoring=-
In this case, she was in the cage half the day, at night. It was quiet time for me. I was usually in the room or lounging about the house while she was caged. However at other times with other inhabitants, there was 24/7 for short periods, like for a weekends. In that case, they could call me on my cell from the cage phone and ask for help even if I was away.

-=Stretching Privileges=-
So I am with a couple friends in the living room and one particularly feisty cage inhabitant is in the dungeon caged. We were having a great time out in the living room and it was getting close to dinner. Next thing I know the doorbell rings and its a pizza boy. He has a couple large pizzas and everything is all paid for. She had ordered pizza from the cage for us with hopes of getting some too. When confronting her about the surprise, this clever slave said, "it was the best way I could think to serve you and our friends. My craving for a Hawaiian pizza had nothing to do with it honest!"

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ORIGINAL: GoddessManko

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

I've been asked to expound about the cage..........................................

This is awesome, thanks RS! Kind of helps in putting things into perspective as this form of long term confinement will be a bit new for myself as well as him. My question is how were you able to monitor her for the entire 6 months? Was it a quiet time for you? Where you spent quite a bit of it at home?

Thanks for your patience and insight in answering questions rendered RS, you really went all out in making the cage inhabitable for almost any newbie to the entire caging experience and I feel like I learned a lot from the interview thread as well. Especially how her feelings transitioned from beginning to end.
My issue with s types is the attachment issues where they need this constant, constant attention. I am very much *indulge and detach* in my methods. I don't need to be reminded every hour on the hour that I am a D. I like the idea of a keepsake, hopefully that will help. If a sub is constantly poking me with a proverbial stick in need of attention it will annoy. I refuse to be compelled.
I am supposed to be meeting a good caging candidate this weekend, I'm not terribly enthusiastic about it to be honest. I kind of already know what to expect. They all are so perfectly behaved and swear to be wonderful until they get "comfortable" or "demanding". I am pretty fine and OK with my methods, I don't feel like I should neglect my vanilla life to accommodate a sub. I realize the responsibility quite well and I don't want for them to assume anything until we decide to pursue something long term.
And even then to be CONSISTENT. I make my position, expectations and desires pretty clear from the beginning which is what matters no matter how I decide to indulge. My vanilla life is very demanding, as are my personal ambitions. Those should matter to my s as well, not just the whole kink play. It is 50/50 this interview/meeting will go well as I continue to outline my expectations and personal beliefs to this s. I would appreciate forthrightness than empty promises. Time lost cannot be regained and I dislike investing more of it than necessary to fruitless pursuits.
You helped me put quite a few things into perspective RS, a lot of these boys think there is some sort of brainwashing process that leads to the desire to submit or they think they can compel the D to perform, it turns me so far OFF to no end to where vanilla dating gets more appealing than being forced to be a pleaser D.

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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 9/30/2014 2:23:49 PM

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For me, the cage represents proof of surrender through sacrifice of freedom. They become my real captive in a real steel prison. For my slave, cage time makes them feel helpless, at my mercy and teaches them to trust me because I take good care of them while in my charge. It proves my ability to accept and take care of what they surrender… themselves. To others, a cage is something totally different. It is a place for torture, pleasure, punishment, objectification and a myriad of other things.

You have me rethinking my position on cages.

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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 9/30/2014 2:28:22 PM

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~FRing it~

I've never really thought about being caged either, but after reading the links...I'm intrigued as well

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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 9/30/2014 3:13:27 PM

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I am glad that sharing has opened up some perspectives about cages. I just reread the the two threads I linked -=Caged Perspectives=- and -=She is caged, any questions?=- and there is a short comment that that sums up the variety of uses a cage has:

-=My Lil Red Cage=-
My cage has been a sanctuary, a shelter, a refuge, a comfort and to one girl it literal was a “home” for 6 months. It has been a monument to love, a symbol of trust and a test of faith. It has been a tool to open minds, deconstruct personalities and then reconstruct them. That cage has been a hammer, anvil and a forge that melted, shaped and strengthen the constitution of more than one slave and relationship. That cage has been an adventure into some very, very dark fantasy and role play. Dark even by my standards! That cage has transformed humans into objects. It has transformed masochists into “its” to be beaten and tortured. It has transformed females into mere “things” to be fucked and used by anyone of any sex or species that Master chooses. It has transformed freedom lovers into captive “prisoners” to serve their captor’s dark desires. It has transformed young girls into non-speaking “animals” trained as obedient and sexy pets.

But best of all, that cage has transformed some of my partners into loving and respectful slaves that learned to cherish the relationship.

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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 10/1/2014 2:52:46 AM

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Weird thing.....

I am not usually claustrophobic. I am one of the few people out there who can actually handle having an MRI done without and problem.

But when I woke up this morning....just a few minutes ago....I was thinking about the image of RS's cage. As I was lying in bed and still in the "floating between asleep and awake" I started to imagine myself in the cage for an extended period of time. I don't know how long....just at SOME point I started to get a bad feeling in my stomach and what really bothered me wasn't the idea of not having the freedom to go where I wanted or do what I want. What freaked me out was the low ceiling of the cage.

Like I said....an MRI doesn't bother me. But I think after a relatively short time in a cage like that, the inability to stand might be sending me in to some kind of panic attack. And I'm not usually prone to panic attacks....but I think this might do it.

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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 10/1/2014 3:32:34 AM

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Here's another issue about cages.

I saw this on one of the other threads that RS linked (BTW....thank you very much RS for all those links....they have been VERY interesting and have given me things to think about)

Anyway....somebody brought up the issue of the Master leaving the premises while the slave is locked in a cage. Of course...the first thing that pops to mind is fire hazard. If the Master is at work and away from the house for 9 hours....is it acceptable to leave the slave locked in the cage for that whole time? If the slave is alone and locked in her cage and the house catches on fire....the slave is probably doomed. But someone in another thread said:

"I'm of the opinion that unless one's house burns down on a regular basis, or the person in the cage has known medical issues, a captor should have no problem leaving a person caged in a comfortable position while the captor is out of the house for work or whatever. I speak as someone who looks for caging / confinement as the captive. For me, anything on the trust system - a key in an envelope, or my word to stay in an unlocked cage - makes the caging playtime and not real. I'm not sure what the odds are of a house burning or my having a medical problem but I suspect I'm in more danger driving on the Jersey Turnpike. "

What do you all think? Is the risk for anything happening to the slave while they are alone so minuscule that leaving them locked and alone wouldn't be a problem? Or are you of the philosophy "Don't even take those chances"?

ETA.....looking at the post I did right above this one. I wonder about the possibility of even someone who isn't claustrophobic (like myself) having a panic attack while they are locked in a cage. And if they do....and their captor is away for 8 hours....what will that do to the slave?

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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 10/1/2014 4:26:48 AM

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-=Caged vs acts of god=-

Although the probability of a serious weather event is predicable, earthquakes, sinkholes, fire, the apocalypse and other acts of god are not. What if I died while away? As mentioned in one of those threads you found interesting, I had a backup person. The slave could call them or any of our other local friends for help. Also, there were spare cage, cuffs and collar keys in the room.

What about the Alien Zombie Apocalypse and there is no phone or internet service? That is where my backup person and their family comes in. We had an acts of god protocol and were to check in with each other should the ZA hit.

Risk is something in everyone's life. My old house had a concrete roof, brick walls and was in a flood safe zone. In fact, the hurricane flood shelter was just at the end of the block. Nonetheless, in the 2005 hurricane season, the stream overflowed and the floods came right up to my doorjamb. Only reasonable way to avoid that happening again is to get out of Florida and stay away from hurricane alley altogether. The house was 5 acres on a lagoon . . . wouldn't have traded it for the world. The pretty red cage and its few risks, wouldn't trade it for the world.

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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 10/2/2014 4:29:22 AM

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"What if I died while away? As mentioned in one of those threads you found interesting, I had a backup person. The slave could call them or any of our other local friends for help. Also, there were spare cage, cuffs and collar keys in the room. "

Ok....so you have a backup in case something happens to you. But in the case of a fire....the captive might be able to call 911 or the backup friend....but would either one of them get there in time to get her out ?

What if the slave had a panic attack? I mentioned before....I'm not prone to panic attacks, and I can handle an MRI with no problem, so I might go into that cage with no issues, but after looking at the pictures I started wonder if the low ceiling of it and the inability to stand up for several hours (unless I could sleep) might trigger some kind of panic episode. So even if the slave can call the backup person....how long would she be subject to this panic attack until that person got there?

As much as cages might intrigue me....I can't help but wonder about these things.

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