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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 10/2/2014 4:33:26 AM

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"Telephone, internet, laptop w/DVD player & internet TV, radio, reading light, remote control, food tray, watering bottle, pillow, sheets, blanket, battery powered emergency light and free slave snacks (no permission needed to eat) "

I gotta ask.....how does all that stuff leave any room for the slave???

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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 10/2/2014 6:41:13 AM

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I gotta ask.....how does all that stuff leave any room for the slave???

it's bigger inside
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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 10/2/2014 6:49:05 AM

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Mental fallout, potential physical harm from a confined space, social issues, dangers inherent to loss of provider care not to mention the exhaustive nature of creating a situation where another is dependent on you for everything. Physical confinement can be a useful, fun way to play willingly. However, the "Stanford experiment" back in the 70's also shows BOTH participants COULD suffer negative psychological effects from long term confinement of an individual depending on circumstances.
A couple of lines from Bon Jovi resonate with me, "Chains of love got a hold on me. When passions a prison you can't break free." Cultivate that thinking in a sub and enjoy a lifetime of pleasurable harvest..... Yet, there is something to be said for the loud, fatalistic clank of steel on steel as a temporary form of mind fuck.

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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 10/2/2014 9:02:36 AM

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But best of all, that cage has transformed some of my partners into loving and respectful slaves that learned to cherish the relationship.

I find it very interesting to read about cage experiences but not something I would ever do. Being caged for an hour or so during play sure but any long term serious confinement, absolutely not. Not being able to stay physically active and not being able to be outside would definitely be detrimental to my physical health and my emotional health. DVD player, laptop, TV, all those comforts of home would be of no use to me, I need a lot of physical activity and being outside.

I don't want to be transformed into a loving, respectful partner who learned to cherish the relationship. I cherish our relationship because it's worthy of being cherished, not because I learned to cherish it. I'm a loving and respectful partner because Master is worthy of my love and respect, not because something he did transformed me into being loving and respectful. Being loving, respectful, cherishing for me comes naturally when in the right relationship with the right partner.

He would not want to transform me or reconstruct my personality. He chose me because of who I am as I am, he didn't choose me so he could transform me or hope to transform into something he wants me to be.

I suppose this is just one of the reasons I'm a submissive and could never be a slave.

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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 10/2/2014 9:42:49 AM

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-=My Lil Red Cage=-

But best of all, that cage has transformed some of my partners into loving and respectful slaves that learned to cherish the relationship.

I find it very interesting to read about cage experiences but not something I would ever do. Being caged for an hour or so during play sure but any long term serious confinement, absolutely not. Not being able to stay physically active and not being able to be outside would definitely be detrimental to my physical health and my emotional health. DVD player, laptop, TV, all those comforts of home would be of no use to me, I need a lot of physical activity and being outside.

I don't want to be transformed into a loving, respectful partner who learned to cherish the relationship. I cherish our relationship because it's worthy of being cherished, not because I learned to cherish it. I'm a loving and respectful partner because Master is worthy of my love and respect, not because something he did transformed me into being loving and respectful. Being loving, respectful, cherishing for me comes naturally when in the right relationship with the right partner.

He would not want to transform me or reconstruct my personality. He chose me because of who I am as I am, he didn't choose me so he could transform me or hope to transform into something he wants me to be.

I suppose this is just one of the reasons I'm a submissive and could never be a slave.

I understand and agree with you completely. I could deal with being on a cage for a few hours.... But to do it to the point that it caused some significant change in me kind of freaks me out. I really would be very nervous that whatever change did occur might not be something that was good for either one of us.

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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 10/2/2014 10:10:09 AM

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.............so you have a backup in case something happens to you. But in the case of a fire....the captive might be able to call 911 or the backup friend....but would either one of them get there in time to get her out ?

What if the slave had a panic attack? ............

Fire and a myriad of other things like sinkholes, airplanes falling out of the sky etc . . . those are the risk aware part of the caging. As someone pointed out, more likely to die in traffic than of fire in hurricane proof brick house with concrete roof.

And my sage advice is that if you are prone to panic attacks, you probably shouldn't get in the cage. My cage inhabitants didn't have panic attacks. You could "what if" anything to death in BDSM if you try. I made the cage just about as safe as normal life is. That was a good enough standard in my books and theirs.

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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 10/2/2014 10:17:37 AM

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I gotta ask.....how does all that stuff leave any room for the slave???

it's bigger inside
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Besides being bigger on the inside, the clever use of baskets on the outside held most of that stuff. You can see by the pics much of it was attached to the bars and ceiling. One slave even decorated the ceiling with artwork and photos.

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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 10/2/2014 12:46:08 PM

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.............so you have a backup in case something happens to you. But in the case of a fire....the captive might be able to call 911 or the backup friend....but would either one of them get there in time to get her out ?

What if the slave had a panic attack? ............

Fire and a myriad of other things like sinkholes, airplanes falling out of the sky etc . . . those are the risk aware part of the caging. As someone pointed out, more likely to die in traffic than of fire in hurricane proof brick house with concrete roof.

And my sage advice is that if you are prone to panic attacks, you probably shouldn't get in the cage. My cage inhabitants didn't have panic attacks. You could "what if" anything to death in BDSM if you try. I made the cage just about as safe as normal life is. That was a good enough standard in my books and theirs.

I'm *not* prone to panic attacks..... But like I said.... With the low ceiling of that cage and not being able to stand up for an extended period of time, I wouldn't be surprised if I had my first one.....and the chances of it happening would increase the longer I was in.

As far as fire and other disasters....yes..... The odds are slim, but these things can't be just written off as nothing. And while you might not be able to prevent them from happening totally .. Why take the risk?

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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 10/2/2014 12:57:44 PM

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ORIGINAL: smileforme50
.............so you have a backup in case something happens to you. But in the case of a fire....the captive might be able to call 911 or the backup friend....but would either one of them get there in time to get her out ?

What if the slave had a panic attack? ............

Fire and a myriad of other things like sinkholes, airplanes falling out of the sky etc . . . those are the risk aware part of the caging. As someone pointed out, more likely to die in traffic than of fire in hurricane proof brick house with concrete roof.

And my sage advice is that if you are prone to panic attacks, you probably shouldn't get in the cage. My cage inhabitants didn't have panic attacks. You could "what if" anything to death in BDSM if you try. I made the cage just about as safe as normal life is. That was a good enough standard in my books and theirs.

I'm *not* prone to panic attacks..... But like I said.... With the low ceiling of that cage and not being able to stand up for an extended period of time, I wouldn't be surprised if I had my first one.....and the chances of it happening would increase the longer I was in.

As far as fire and other disasters....yes..... The odds are slim, but these things can't be just written off as nothing. And while you might not be able to prevent them from happening totally .. Why take the risk?

Time for a poll.
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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 10/2/2014 4:22:07 PM

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Time for a poll.

Jus sayin

I already know I'm going to be on the losing end of that!!

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RE: Cages and Long Term Confinement - 10/2/2014 4:24:16 PM

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Naaahhhh...

http://www.collarchat.com/m_4737712/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#4737713

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