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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 12/27/2014 12:06:54 PM

Sirkin

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Personally, I put myself in a position to have enough time to sever ties with and move on past my past relationship before creating a new profile on this site. I sacrificed new opportunities until the right time so when I do get the opportunities I can exercise as much time with them without distractions from the previous relationship. The new person(s) in my life appreciate that and you lack the drama around you that sometimes (often) circles the bdsm lifestyle dating scene.

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 12/28/2014 1:06:48 AM

SubMaleLeeds

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Im very much single . Still seeking that elusive cuckoldress who actually does understand why a cuck needs to be cuckolded

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 12/31/2014 2:57:54 PM

treedcat

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Single here
Older maybe wiser but probably not

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 12/31/2014 8:40:04 PM

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Single and definitely wiser.

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 1/1/2015 4:39:12 AM

LiveSpark

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Very single and happy to wait until the right person comes along. I entered the Lifestyle under the mistaken impression that being in a D/s relationship meant not being in love. I know now that is not reality, not for me anyway. However this time I'm wiser and will wait for the right guy and do it right, starting slow and building a strong relationship.

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 1/1/2015 10:03:16 AM

smileforme50

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Funny experience I had when i first got into the "real life" side of all this.....

The first Dom I got involved with was married. For myself....on a very selfish note, I know....I didn't care. At the time, I wasn't looking for a LTR, and I wasn't looking to take him away from his wife. A few weeks into it, I learned that even if she found out, she probably wouldn't have been very upset. They slept in separate rooms, and she probably would have been better off without him. She probably would have been grateful to me if I would have taken him from her.

Although he said something so stupid to me one time......he told me that I was his "first priority relationship"

I told him he was fucking crazy. His wife was his first priority relationship.

He insisted that wasn't the case.

Until I asked him.....who does he spend Thanksgiving and Christmas with? Who does he go on vacation (with kids) with? Who will get his life insurance when he dies?

That pretty much stopped him from ever calling me his "first priority" again.

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 1/1/2015 10:12:33 AM

LiveSpark

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quote:

ORIGINAL: smileforme50

Funny experience I had when i first got into the "real life" side of all this.....

The first Dom I got involved with was married. For myself....on a very selfish note, I know....I didn't care. At the time, I wasn't looking for a LTR, and I wasn't looking to take him away from his wife. A few weeks into it, I learned that even if she found out, she probably wouldn't have been very upset. They slept in separate rooms, and she probably would have been better off without him. She probably would have been grateful to me if I would have taken him from her.

Although he said something so stupid to me one time......he told me that I was his "first priority relationship"

I told him he was fucking crazy. His wife was his first priority relationship.

He insisted that wasn't the case.

Until I asked him.....who does he spend Thanksgiving and Christmas with? Who does he go on vacation (with kids) with? Who will get his life insurance when he dies?

That pretty much stopped him from ever calling me his "first priority" again.

Let me ask you something, was he the one who told you she probably wouldn't be upset? If it was him chances are that's what he would say if only to put you at ease. I don't know maybe she wouldn't but it just sounds like something someone who's being unfaithful would say.

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 1/1/2015 11:03:01 AM

GoddessManko

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quote:

ORIGINAL: smileforme50

Funny experience I had when i first got into the "real life" side of all this.....

The first Dom I got involved with was married. For myself....on a very selfish note, I know....I didn't care. At the time, I wasn't looking for a LTR, and I wasn't looking to take him away from his wife. A few weeks into it, I learned that even if she found out, she probably wouldn't have been very upset. They slept in separate rooms, and she probably would have been better off without him. She probably would have been grateful to me if I would have taken him from her.

Although he said something so stupid to me one time......he told me that I was his "first priority relationship"

I told him he was fucking crazy. His wife was his first priority relationship.

He insisted that wasn't the case.

Until I asked him.....who does he spend Thanksgiving and Christmas with? Who does he go on vacation (with kids) with? Who will get his life insurance when he dies?

That pretty much stopped him from ever calling me his "first priority" again.

LOL! In a nutshell, yup! Most guys do respect that I am seeking a relationship and most married guys come clean right away. I think finsubs and kinky bottoms/ pro subs would be less inclined but you have to really outline you're not seeking that from these guys and even then, expect some to ignore that completely. You have to wade through a ton of emails if seeking a relationship on your terms is the gist of it.

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/4/2015 8:24:46 AM

backin15

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I'm Not Married! I'm single!!!!!!!!

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/4/2015 10:14:06 AM

wickkeddesire

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there are some. I think, or was that myth and legend. The women are just as bad. if they are up front honest about it why bother.
Or are you talking about the ones, they infest all fetish in vast numbers and drools, single sites to but the proportion varies, who join up while their partners slumbers/at work etc and think nothing of wasting may hours of your time...when they join they must chose carefully which badly interpreted stereotype they must live up too

They also view someone single on these sites as easy a hole and would show them a good riding for 5 minutes on the provsio they can sneak away which most cannot

i think on that other site 600 mailers 5 were single - an astonishing proportion is it not - less than half were honest about it from the start
one here perhaps 5 from 100, quieter but the argument can be made

No doubt this all sounds familiar..and you wish their profiles would state what they were

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/4/2015 10:16:34 AM

Kittenluv954

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single. the end.

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/4/2015 10:23:50 AM

mnottertail

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I'm single. Turns out I ain't no day at the fuckin' beach.

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/4/2015 12:30:21 PM

needlesandpins

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Ron, we all understand you perfectly. you just want blowjobs

smileforme50, that kind of shit is exactly what my ex told the piece of crap that helped him wreck our relationship of 16yrs. I was completely devastated by it. you don't believe what a guy tells you to get you to spread your legs for him. you use your brain, and realise that if his wife is still there she is there for a reason. it's not up to you, nor anyone else to decide whether you're doing her a favour, or not. I'd love to get my hands on his piece of trash to show her just how grateful I am.

op, I'm single. were I to be looking then I would not entertain anyone that is even remotely attached to someone else. nor if he has photos of another woman in his profile. nor if he thinks he can have others as well as me.

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/4/2015 12:39:31 PM

SlimMeDown

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I'm single

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/4/2015 1:33:10 PM

CreativeDominant

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

I'm single. Turns out I ain't no day at the fuckin' beach.

One thing we have in common...though I believe the weds were something along the lines of "you ain't no birthday cake".

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/4/2015 2:38:17 PM

CreativeDominant

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

I'm single. Turns out I ain't no day at the fuckin' beach.

One thing we have in common...though I believe the words were something along the lines of "you ain't no birthday cake".

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/7/2015 8:25:35 AM

luvnsub

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I think a lot of people play the "numbers game": the more e-mails you send out, the greater the possibility of responses. Unfortunately, lots of these folks don't take the time to read profiiles and recognize that they arent what is being sought.
Hamg in there don't get too discouragerd. I hope you find what you seek.

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/7/2015 1:39:54 PM

usememistress775

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

I'm single. Turns out I ain't no day at the fuckin' beach.

Dude I need a day at the fucking beach. The days I have end up being at regular beaches and all that touches my unmentionables is sand.

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/7/2015 4:54:00 PM

ExiledTyrant

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quote:

ORIGINAL: usememistress775

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

I'm single. Turns out I ain't no day at the fuckin' beach.

Dude I need a day at the fucking beach. The days I have end up being at regular beaches and all that touches my unmentionables is sand.

That's gotta be a new fetish. YKINMKATOK

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/7/2015 5:00:32 PM

usememistress775

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

quote:

ORIGINAL: usememistress775

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

I'm single. Turns out I ain't no day at the fuckin' beach.

Dude I need a day at the fucking beach. The days I have end up being at regular beaches and all that touches my unmentionables is sand.

That's gotta be a new fetish. YKINMKATOK

Nope. More of a reason why I hate the beach. Reminds me of Iraq...

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