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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/7/2015 5:27:33 PM   
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I'm single. Turns out I ain't no day at the fuckin' beach.


Dude I need a day at the fucking beach. The days I have end up being at regular beaches and all that touches my unmentionables is sand.


That's gotta be a new fetish. YKINMKATOK


Nope. More of a reason why I hate the beach. Reminds me of Iraq...


Soldier or fell asleep on the wrong plane?


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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/7/2015 6:05:59 PM   
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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/7/2015 6:22:03 PM   
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I'm single and would love a day at the beach

Same here.


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(but the day at the beach wasn't part of the question was it)

Who cares?

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/7/2015 6:31:44 PM   
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I'm single and would love a day at the beach

Same here.


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(but the day at the beach wasn't part of the question was it)

Who cares?



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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/7/2015 7:38:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant


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ORIGINAL: usememistress775


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

I'm single. Turns out I ain't no day at the fuckin' beach.


Dude I need a day at the fucking beach. The days I have end up being at regular beaches and all that touches my unmentionables is sand.


That's gotta be a new fetish. YKINMKATOK


Nope. More of a reason why I hate the beach. Reminds me of Iraq...


Soldier or fell asleep on the wrong plane?



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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/8/2015 4:43:35 AM   
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Marine


Thank you!!!

Glad you made it home xoxoxo

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/8/2015 7:19:47 AM   
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In fact I am single, so are the rest of my personalities.

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/8/2015 10:20:16 AM   
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Is there anyone on this site who is not married and wants a monogamous relationship?
No doubt some people are poly-oriented and good for them. End of the day, that is their personal, private business.

I am sick and tired of married men approaching me when my profile states explicitly that I do not seek a poly relationship. Is anyone encountering this?




Yes, Single. Just move to Cincinnati LOL. You are too far away from me :(

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/8/2015 3:12:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		Um . . . if MPD means there is more than one of you, that makes it poly doesn't it? I think the OP wants a monogamous relationship.

just sayin'

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ORIGINAL: usememistress775

How silly of me, I forgot to answer the OP's question.

In fact I am single, so are the rest of my personalities.



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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/8/2015 4:41:44 PM   
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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/8/2015 4:50:01 PM   
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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/9/2015 1:20:21 AM   
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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/9/2015 11:36:29 AM   
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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/10/2015 7:22:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SavvyFLRDomme

Is there anyone on this site who is not married and wants a monogamous relationship?
No doubt some people are poly-oriented and good for them. End of the day, that is their personal, private business.

I am sick and tired of married men approaching me when my profile states explicitly that I do not seek a poly relationship. Is anyone encountering this?



No.....sorry....I'm afraid not.

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/11/2015 6:04:02 AM   
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Is there anyone on this site who is not married and wants a monogamous relationship?
No doubt some people are poly-oriented and good for them. End of the day, that is their personal, private business.

I am sick and tired of married men approaching me when my profile states explicitly that I do not seek a poly relationship. Is anyone encountering this?


Wow I've never heard this one before.

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/11/2015 9:23:34 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SavvyFLRDomme
Is there anyone on this site who is not married and wants a monogamous relationship?
No doubt some people are poly-oriented and good for them. End of the day, that is their personal, private business.

I am sick and tired of married men approaching me when my profile states explicitly that I do not seek a poly relationship. Is anyone encountering this?


Wow I've never heard this one before.


Not a very welcoming and supportive comment to make to a new poster. Kind of snarky even; clique-ish.

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/11/2015 10:57:33 AM   
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Wow I've never heard this one before.


Not a very welcoming and supportive comment to make to a new poster. Kind of snarky even; clique-ish.


That was me being serious not tongue in cheek, I haven't seen a femdomme write about being unable to find a single sub before. I've been routinely assured that male subs outnumber female doms to such an extent that this wasn't a thing that happened. So I am kind of hung up on the Mind = Blown

The OP doesn't seem to be in the thread anymore, I wish she was because I have to believe that what she's looking for is entirely doable and the community could have a discussion about profile tweaking, I think those conversations are often quite productive.


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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/12/2015 4:31:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SavvyFLRDomme

Is there anyone on this site who is not married and wants a monogamous relationship?
No doubt some people are poly-oriented and good for them. End of the day, that is their personal, private business.

I am sick and tired of married men approaching me when my profile states explicitly that I do not seek a poly relationship. Is anyone encountering this?



I'm in Utah and married to 11 women...and I find you incredibly attractive.

Dinner?

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/12/2015 6:52:53 PM   
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That was me being serious not tongue in cheek, I haven't seen a femdomme write about being unable to find a single sub before. I've been routinely assured that male subs outnumber female doms to such an extent that this wasn't a thing that happened. So I am kind of hung up on the Mind = Blown

The OP doesn't seem to be in the thread anymore, I wish she was because I have to believe that what she's looking for is entirely doable and the community could have a discussion about profile tweaking, I think those conversations are often quite productive.




If you separate kinky bottoms and pushovers from submissives, that perceived disparity you mentioned suddenly starts to vanish. If you further reduce that to just those looking for committed relationships, while having other reasonable requirements, the dating pool for most lifestyle dommes isn't amazing.

I mean, when the term mistress is used in a vanilla context, it's referring to the woman a man cheats on his wife with. A woman he mostly uses for sex. In vanilla and BDSM, men tend to use a mistress as a brief escape from their lives. These are the women that get the most false promises and are often spoiled, but at the end of the day, they're rarely given emotional intimacy nor cuddles. Too often, they're left without any love.

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RE: Anyone single on this site? - 2/12/2015 8:17:07 PM   
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Ok. Throw me into the pile of "single and seeking" (more or less...complicatated).... Uh RS, I think you should be the one to name our house of alone people. Can't be the "Phoenix Dynasty"...maybe the "Sybil Set" our motto could be "all for one and, hey, who the hell are you!")


I remember those old Sybil movie posters where the name Sybil repeated. Great ads... so I took that as inspiration.






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