|
RockaRolla -> RE: Skype (1/31/2015 4:14:42 PM)
|
If anything, I have the opposite problem of guys in a rush to move to Skype or some other IM platform. I interpret this as a lack of attention span as the medium lends itself to short messages sent quickly rather than in depth messages to be consumed at a slower pace. "It's so hard to communicate here!" No it isn't, it just requires more thought and effort.
I also think if you (general you) are so hung up on people needing to prove that they're "real" from the get go, your intuition may be off or you're just ignoring it. It also feels a little presumptuous to require a webcam ritual of sorts from a complete stranger. I can't speak for the OP as her profile is hidden (and also because I'm not the OP,) but if you're looking for a long term partner it's probably best for your time and sanity not to engage with every sub who messages you throwing their fetishes at your feet. There are plenty of those types to drive you crazy, and many of them will turn out to be the "get my rocks off online" variety. Starting off with real, human interaction, some vanilla talk before getting into fetishes, will go a long way toward establishing compatibility AND drive off the "fakes" because they're bored with the lack of sexy talk.
YMMV but I really get the impression that many of the people focusing on weeding out "fakes" are looking for a connection as quickly as possible and so jump in feet first, while taking a slower approach would solve that problem with less aggravation.
|
|
|
|
