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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

Aside from the illegal crap which I am very anti... being anti-lifestyle stuff seems to me more pro-butt hurt.

Case in point, there is a lot of anti-pro domme floating around, and yet business at the bunny ranch is booming. Why would anyone be anti-pro domme, it's either you use them or you don't... why the butt hurt?

Now, I am not a Top. I am sick and twisted Primal bastard that gets my freak on... and it is a big freak, once I own her. If I were to play in public it would not resemble consent at all from the outsider looking in, but she knows what she got herself into and did so happily.

That said, there is a HUGE list of things that have no interest for me and things that just squick me the fuck out, but I am not anti-X. Hey, if it is your thing, wooohooo, go get your happy on. For me it is not about "tolerating" X it is about "accepting" X as your thing and it's okay... not my thing, I do not have to participate, and I can wear my big boy underoos and choose to avoid it rather than condemn it.

So wot is it with the Anti-X movement?

Jus wunderin

P.S. they're fucking spider man, not sponge bob, you sick fuckers!

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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

I, personally, cannot fathom holding a pro-domme accountable for someone else's lack of fidelity. I have a hard time with people going nuts on the person their partner cheats with if it is a stranger to you. I put blame and accountability where it lies... with the cheater themselves.

It's like blaming the dog for biting the asshole that came in the yard. The dog does his/her job, the trespasser got what they came for.

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ORIGINAL: DaddySatyr


So ... when the married (30something-ish) lady came up to me, at school, and we started talking and she told me she was married and I still proceed to seduce/fuck her, I'm blameless?

That does seem like a moral compass that might be pointing at true North instead of magnetic North to me.



Michael

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ORIGINAL: sloguy02246

I think this is sort of mixing apples and oranges.

If a husband cheats on his wife by starting a personal relationship with another woman, the other woman does deserve some grief (assuming she knew the guy was married).

If a husband goes to a Domme for her services, that is something different as the interaction is a business relationship. His wife will still be angry, but the anger should be directed at her husband - not the Domme.

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So ... when the married (30something-ish) lady came up to me, at school, and we started talking and she told me she was married and I still proceed to seduce/fuck her, I'm blameless?

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ORIGINAL: orgasmdenial12

A lot of Pro-Dommes have their own ideology that I find offensive and immoral. For example, they are often pro- or neutral about men who cheat - many of their clients are men who cheat so it is in their interests not to condemn it too strongly. Another example is that many pro-dommes believe that all men have a submissive or switch side that they cannot share with their partners, so the men are 'forced' to see pro-Dommes. Basically, anything that's good for business, they will justify, even if it means dishonesty and manipulation for others.

I have *nothing* against women who charge for their services, whatever the nature of their services, but I am very wary about pro-Dommes because of the examples above. It's my experience that pro-Dommes are short on sympathy when you get cheated on, even if they're the one who facilitated the cheating. I never met a pro-Domme who would turn away a cheating man, so for that reason, I consider most pro-Dommes to be immoral.

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ORIGINAL: UnholyBear


The onus of fidelity and the morals are solely on the shoulders >snip<