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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/24/2015 6:45:28 PM

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The main problem in regards of the topic of this thread is that women generally think men are beneath them. To be politically correct and not offend women, you aren't allowed to call this out.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/24/2015 6:47:14 PM

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It happens ALL THE TIME here though.

Perhaps...women think they are better than YOU specifically.

But I'd be surprised if that was limited to just the females here.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/24/2015 6:49:13 PM

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LOL I slept last night while doing this. I'm used to intern hours.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/24/2015 7:07:12 PM

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ORIGINAL: vulvakicker

The main problem in regards of the topic of this thread is that women generally think men are beneath them. To be politically correct and not offend women, you aren't allowed to call this out.

Now that I think about it, yes, I do believe that there are some men that are beneath me.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/24/2015 7:11:45 PM

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you are one very strange s.f.b vulvakicker but you are a yarpi, so I guess that is to be expected. Do you really believe that threats made over the internet and over multiple thousands of kms are going to impress or frighten anybody. Pull your head in.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/24/2015 7:31:51 PM

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Eh...idk- this isn't really Nicks m.o

What do you think now? :-)

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/24/2015 7:40:16 PM

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Congratulations on that new nick, Nick. Way to make absolutely certain that everybody here will despise whatever you say under it. In one deft move you've managed to do more damage for your cause than a hundred feminists ever could.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/24/2015 7:40:55 PM

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/24/2015 8:34:30 PM

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Say it poohbear...you know you want to

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/24/2015 8:40:37 PM

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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Eh...idk- this isn't really Nicks m.o

What do you think now? :-)

I've gotten PM's from both Nick and this guy.
I am STILL skeptical that this is Nick.

ETA- That is to say...maybe it is, maybe it isn't. But this is pretty much just garbage. If it is Nick- he's stopped trying and let himself go. He can troll better than this. I also don't think Nick would call someone a cunt like this person did. It wouldn't fit in his feigning respect for women schtick.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/24/2015 8:50:22 PM

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Say it poohbear...you know you want to

I did. I was very nice, even welcomed to CS. But I'm a wee bit cumfuzzled so I changed it while I still had the chance.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/24/2015 8:58:53 PM

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I've gotten PM's from both Nick and this guy.
I am STILL skeptical that this is Nick.

ETA- That is to say...maybe it is, maybe it isn't. But this is pretty much just garbage. If it is Nick- he's stopped trying and let himself go. He can troll better than this. I also don't think Nick would call someone a cunt like this person did. It wouldn't fit in his feigning respect for women schtick.

Hmm. Interesting. A different loon, or the same one, decompensating and with an extra wall of anonymity. OK: I don't want to soil Nick's rep. Er, yes, mm.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/24/2015 9:02:10 PM

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I mean I want to soil Nicks rep- but I don't want to give this one that much credit either.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/24/2015 10:12:14 PM

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What a colorful name, vulvakicker.

I wonder if this is the same guy, always 35, always from VA, who says he's submissive and sends tons of spam offering $500 to burn him with cigarettes and other sundry requests.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/25/2015 12:57:47 AM

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Don't you think that women have more OPPORTUNITY then men on dating sites?

No.

I'll qualify that. They have more opportunity than your average clueless dude, does.

However they don't have more opportunity than I do.

The dating site game works like this. Men are horny. They want to fuck. At least 80% of them are losers who have no fucking chance whatsoever. They're unsophisticated or they're ugly or they can't express themselves well or they have no idea how to talk to women.

Women are going to be besieged by these losers. Because - and here's the truly funny bit - the losers send out emails by the truckload. In contrast, guys like myself email very rarely.

What happens in the real world happens in the online world. The top 20% of men are monopolising 80% of the available attractive women.

A small percentage of women (maybe 2-5%) are going to absolutely insist on a guy with a decent set of abs and a good looking face. Those women are going to hunt by picture.

The bottom 40% will probably hook up with losers.

The rest of the female population are open to being intrigued, stimulated and seduced. And guys with game are going to aim at women they're comfortable engaging with. And they'll aim fairly and squarely at women's minds.

What that leaves is 50% of the available women being turned off by the hordes of losers. As a consequence, any dude who knows himself and has his shit together is going to come across like a breath of fresh air.

Fun fact: Kaliko used to turn dudes away because they lived more than an hour's drive away from her house.

It takes 24 hours for her to get to my house. By jet.

I'll add, that Kaliko is psychologically stable, attractive and has both a great job and a 140 IQ. So she's so far away from desperate, it's not funny.

So you have to ask yourself, why would a woman possibly let herself become involved with a man who lives - quite literally - on the other side of the world?

My answer would probably be something along the lines of 'because he actually stood out amongst the sea of average'.

So. The answer to your question is: No. If you have your shit together, you have an advantage. If you don't have your shit together, then you're average and will probably whine a lot.

The solution is to stop whining and start growing as an individual. Choose a path of growth and ever-increasing strength, knowledge and virtue. Work on your weaknesses and turn them into strengths. Become an amazing man - or at least AIM to become an amazing man.

Because even if you fall short, you'll still stand out amongst the sea of average.

It's not about them. It's about you.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/25/2015 2:53:34 AM

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And I have known many men over the years, many of them have been submissive. 9 times out of 10 it's lack of effort/excuses.

And I have interacted with many "problematic" submissive men, and found them to be quite obliging, when given consistent rules to follow. Like unruly dogs, some submissives can get wild when they feel no one is in control, then they get labeled as "not submissive."

Shame, really.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/25/2015 6:34:35 AM

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Sexiest not sexist.

Man that one letter changed my whole post!

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/25/2015 1:20:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: NookieNotes

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ORIGINAL: GoddessManko

And I have known many men over the years, many of them have been submissive. 9 times out of 10 it's lack of effort/excuses.

And I have interacted with many "problematic" submissive men, and found them to be quite obliging, when given consistent rules to follow. Like unruly dogs, some submissives can get wild when they feel no one is in control, then they get labeled as "not submissive."

Shame, really.

Well, like self-identified brats, that type of sub is not for everyone.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/25/2015 2:05:28 PM

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ORIGINAL: Awareness

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ORIGINAL: MathewIndio
Don't you think that women have more OPPORTUNITY then men on dating sites?

No.

I'll qualify that. They have more opportunity than your average clueless dude, does.

However they don't have more opportunity than I do.

The dating site game works like this. Men are horny. They want to fuck. At least 80% of them are losers who have no fucking chance whatsoever. They're unsophisticated or they're ugly or they can't express themselves well or they have no idea how to talk to women.

Women are going to be besieged by these losers. Because - and here's the truly funny bit - the losers send out emails by the truckload. In contrast, guys like myself email very rarely.

What happens in the real world happens in the online world. The top 20% of men are monopolising 80% of the available attractive women.

A small percentage of women (maybe 2-5%) are going to absolutely insist on a guy with a decent set of abs and a good looking face. Those women are going to hunt by picture.

The bottom 40% will probably hook up with losers.

The rest of the female population are open to being intrigued, stimulated and seduced. And guys with game are going to aim at women they're comfortable engaging with. And they'll aim fairly and squarely at women's minds.

What that leaves is 50% of the available women being turned off by the hordes of losers. As a consequence, any dude who knows himself and has his shit together is going to come across like a breath of fresh air.

Fun fact: Kaliko used to turn dudes away because they lived more than an hour's drive away from her house.

It takes 24 hours for her to get to my house. By jet.

I'll add, that Kaliko is psychologically stable, attractive and has both a great job and a 140 IQ. So she's so far away from desperate, it's not funny.

So you have to ask yourself, why would a woman possibly let herself become involved with a man who lives - quite literally - on the other side of the world?

My answer would probably be something along the lines of 'because he actually stood out amongst the sea of average'.

So. The answer to your question is: No. If you have your shit together, you have an advantage. If you don't have your shit together, then you're average and will probably whine a lot.

The solution is to stop whining and start growing as an individual. Choose a path of growth and ever-increasing strength, knowledge and virtue. Work on your weaknesses and turn them into strengths. Become an amazing man - or at least AIM to become an amazing man.

Because even if you fall short, you'll still stand out amongst the sea of average.

It's not about them. It's about you.

This would be an excellent post for a sticky thread re how to succeed with women online and in real life. I suspect the men who need this advice the most are men who would regard themselves as not needing it.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/25/2015 2:07:03 PM

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ORIGINAL: NookieNotes

And I have interacted with many "problematic" submissive men, and found them to be quite obliging, when given consistent rules to follow. Like unruly dogs, some submissives can get wild when they feel no one is in control, then they get labeled as "not submissive."

Shame, really.

TOTALLY agreed!!! But it also starts with actually meeting someone (which many do not even attempt). Funny story from a Domme. The sub shows up to her front door, as she opens it, he starts RUNNING!!!! YES, actually running down the street, she's an older lady and used to this so she yelled after him "run baby, RUN!" He returned moments later and explained he was indeed afraid. Heard about this encounter years ago and still find it quite funny.

ETA; she was actually a ProDomme so it's not even like he wasn't going to be within the realm of "safe, sane and consensual". LOL!

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