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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

I know far more decent human beings who are smart, attractive, successful, compassionate, witty and loyal women who are single than men.

I agree with Kana.

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ORIGINAL: shiftyw

I don't know.

I know decent single folks all over the spectrum. However I find those decent single folks are all looking for the holy grail- their standards are crazy high, which I think is fine- because none of them bitch and moan about when they have a hard time finding a partner. None of them feel owed anything. Many would rather be alone or go without sex than compromise on their standards.

I think that is often why these threads bother me, because I think some folks get frustrated too easily by their own standards, you set those standards and you can change them and be more or less flexible. Your standards and wants define your opportunity.

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ORIGINAL: Kana

Define opportunity.
I mean, this is the critical point of the whole question. This is why, when doing surveys, wording is everything.

If you mean do they have inboxes stuffed full like they wish their cunts were-sure.
But an email box full of spam doesn't necessarily mean that there's any real offers in the mix.


Quantity does not mean quality and usually means the obverse

My experience is that if you're a Man who knows what he's about, know how to approach people and act, and are actually dominant, you won't have any issues finding a chica. Here or elsewhere
Now maybe this is different on Match or nilla sites (I suspect it is, but who knows. Nilla women-all they do is complain about not being able to find good men either. Fuck, they have TV shows dedicated to this ), but really, in a lot of ways, I suspect that on a place like this, it may actually be far easier for a man to find someone than the other way around.
Grins-we sure have a lot less garbage to weed through.
Thank you for writing this.


This is very true in real life also. Go to a munch. Step back, sit still and really watch the dynamics at play. Its fucking fascinating. The doms that know what they are doing, that have some rep-they ain't single. Many have pick of the litter. And there's almost always an alleycat slave or two prowling and slinking about in the corner, waiting to pounce if something happens and His relationship status abruptly changes. Watch. Those guys, they don't stay single long unless they wanna.

Cripes. If nilla chicks can't find a decent guy, what makes you think BDSM, which ain't exactly a hotbed of mental health, especially on the male side, and is also small, and frequently almost incestuously interconnected, is going to be easier.
Preach!
Seriously Kana, thank you so much for this.

Maybe the real problem is a severe and chronic shortage of decent Men.
Not boys or whiny bitches.
Not Christian freaking Grey.

Men.

Just saying'

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ORIGINAL: myfairplay99

Women on this site are like spoilt children. A child that complains about not getting the 1000 gift while getting the 100 dollar gift.

Many to most women on here seem to want the ultimate while they aren't offering such themselves. But how dare men question women on their standards, that are way above their own of what they offer.

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Hi again and bye again, Nick!

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

I think that in numbers, women do have more opportunity. However; the quality of that opportunity is a vast wasteland. In the end, they may actually have less real quality opportunities than men.

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Wanna suck my dick, baby? Real opportunity for you here.

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Wanna suck my dick, baby? Real opportunity for you here.

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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Hi again and bye again, Nick!

Late to the thread, but yeah, LOL walks quacks, sounds....

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ORIGINAL: shiftyw
Eh...idk- this isn't really Nicks m.o.

He usually makes his own threads rather than whining on others. And generally tries to use "statistics" to back up his claims.

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ORIGINAL: NookieNotes

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

I know far more decent human beings who are smart, attractive, successful, compassionate, witty and loyal women who are single than men.

I agree with Kana.

I know more women who say that are not enough decent men, and more men who say they haven't found the right woman... It's perspective.

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

I think that in numbers, women do have more opportunity. However; the quality of that opportunity is a vast wasteland. In the end, they may actually have less real quality opportunities than men.