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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/20/2015 5:26:01 AM   
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Women have their own equivalent of the pussy holy grail, as it were. Another reason why things even out.


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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/20/2015 5:39:17 AM   
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Women have their own equivalent of the pussy holy grail, as it were. Another reason why things even out.



Agreed. And as a woman who spends time with both women and men, I can assure you (general you, not you, specifically, Baroana) that women and men make fools of themselves equally over the opposite sex.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/20/2015 10:44:24 AM   
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But your position is that women should be dutifully shoveling through that nonsense to find the good guys. Not because it'll end in a potential match for them, either. But because the good guys deserve it. So I ask you, do women join personals sites for their own needs, or yours?


I believe that if a woman wants to find a significant other she is going to have to put in a lot of energy and effort. This includes going through her emails, instead of clicking them all and then deleting them (Deleted, Unread). Since you wrote, "shoveling through that nonsense" I assume you believe that all the emails you receive are from men you have no desire for. I'm saying that in the onslaught of emails you are receiving there are a few good men.

I believe that a lot of women join personal sites in order to find a good man. The ones who find the good ones put in the energy and effort to do so. The ones who are complaining that "I can't find any good man" and they are getting 100's of emails are not putting in the energy and effort that is required.


Excuse you. I found a great man in my search and it didn't involve giving a shot to every Tom, Dick, and Harry. I didn't have to go through every "hi how r u" to determine which guys were actually "nice," I went with the guys who caught my interest and it worked out well for both of us.

Women are perfectly capable of deciding for themselves what kind of people suit them. And before someone responds with "But then why do they always go for assholes!" - Nobody gets it right on the first try. Not women, not men, nobody. This is why dating exists as a concept.

The ladies aren't giving you a chance? Grow up. Dating (along with the rest of life) isn't fair.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/20/2015 10:49:12 AM   
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Brings up an interesting thought reading some of these replies...
If a man was truly submissive, wouldnt he have a more passive personality?

Not necessarily.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/20/2015 12:10:21 PM   
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here I will post two messages I just received today, and one from the other day I found particularly laughable... these are just a few out of hundreds I could copy paste. but seriously, who here is jealous of my opportunities??? messages separated by these @@@

Kittenluv954 on 3/20/15 at 3:03 PM:

Hello...do you always approach women this way? with your dick in your hand, drooling and asking questions about what they can do for you sexually? what a creepy loser *shudders*





DumbAss on 3/20/15 at 9:54 AM:

Hello...are you a good cocksucker?





Kittenluv954 on 3/20/15 at 9:01 AM:


Hello, I am in Sunrise.






DumbAss on 3/20/15 at 8:28 AM:

Alpha male here. I am in Boca Raton

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Kittenluv954 on 3/20/15 at 3:04 PM:

good luck with that, dudebro.





SumYoungDudeFromAnotherState on 3/20/15 at 10:44 AM:

It would be hot to see a picture of you presenting your holes from behind


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this little dudebro thought I had no right to my preferences, even told me VERBATIM they weren't valid. YAY for arguing with butthurt babies because my preferences ruled them out. but hey AT LEAST I HAD AN OPPORTUNITY!

DELETED UNREAD. lmao

Kittenluv954 on 3/9/15 at 9:23 PM:


I'm not here to validate my preferences.






HiIm24 on 3/9/15 at 9:10 PM:

There is nothing valid about discriminating based on age.





Kittenluv954 on 3/9/15 at 9:09 PM:

true, but it's still a valid preference





HiIm24 on 3/9/15 at 9:07 PM:

That's disappointing. A man does not have to be older to provide the maturity and stability you desire.





Kittenluv954 on 3/9/15 at 9:06 PM:

I like older men actually lol





HiIm24 on 3/9/15 at 9:04 PM:

The age difference is something I could handle. Could you?





Kittenluv954 on 3/9/15 at 9:03 PM:

thank you, and perhaps it is, but it was nice of you to message anyway :) best luck- k





HiIm24 on 3/9/15 at 9:00 PM:

You are a very beautiful woman. It is unfortunate that there is so much difference in our ages.

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this could literally go on and on. if I went through the pages of mail I have not bothered to reply to, I could dig up at least 100 more just like this just from this week. I mean... THE OPPORTUNITIES ARE ENDLESS here folks.... IM SO LUCKY!!!



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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/20/2015 12:34:03 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kittenluv954

here I will post two messages I just received today, and one from the other day I found particularly laughable... these are just a few out of hundreds I could copy paste. but seriously, who here is jealous of my opportunities??? messages separated by these @@@

Kittenluv954 on 3/20/15 at 3:03 PM:

Hello...do you always approach women this way? with your dick in your hand, drooling and asking questions about what they can do for you sexually? what a creepy loser *shudders*





DumbAss on 3/20/15 at 9:54 AM:

Hello...are you a good cocksucker?





Kittenluv954 on 3/20/15 at 9:01 AM:


Hello, I am in Sunrise.






DumbAss on 3/20/15 at 8:28 AM:

Alpha male here. I am in Boca Raton

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Kittenluv954 on 3/20/15 at 3:04 PM:

good luck with that, dudebro.





SumYoungDudeFromAnotherState on 3/20/15 at 10:44 AM:

It would be hot to see a picture of you presenting your holes from behind


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this little dudebro thought I had no right to my preferences, even told me VERBATIM they weren't valid. YAY for arguing with butthurt babies because my preferences ruled them out. but hey AT LEAST I HAD AN OPPORTUNITY!

DELETED UNREAD. lmao

Kittenluv954 on 3/9/15 at 9:23 PM:


I'm not here to validate my preferences.






HiIm24 on 3/9/15 at 9:10 PM:

There is nothing valid about discriminating based on age.





Kittenluv954 on 3/9/15 at 9:09 PM:

true, but it's still a valid preference





HiIm24 on 3/9/15 at 9:07 PM:

That's disappointing. A man does not have to be older to provide the maturity and stability you desire.





Kittenluv954 on 3/9/15 at 9:06 PM:

I like older men actually lol





HiIm24 on 3/9/15 at 9:04 PM:

The age difference is something I could handle. Could you?





Kittenluv954 on 3/9/15 at 9:03 PM:

thank you, and perhaps it is, but it was nice of you to message anyway :) best luck- k





HiIm24 on 3/9/15 at 9:00 PM:

You are a very beautiful woman. It is unfortunate that there is so much difference in our ages.

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this could literally go on and on. if I went through the pages of mail I have not bothered to reply to, I could dig up at least 100 more just like this just from this week. I mean... THE OPPORTUNITIES ARE ENDLESS here folks.... IM SO LUCKY!!!




Hopefully he can see what is ENTIRELY WRONG with those emails but who knows, he might think "I don't see the issue here." LOL
By the way I lawl everytime you say "dudebro".

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/20/2015 12:38:38 PM   
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hey manko, im just GRATEFUL for these opportunities!

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/20/2015 12:39:16 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: NookieNotes


quote:

ORIGINAL: Baroana

Women have their own equivalent of the pussy holy grail, as it were. Another reason why things even out.



Agreed. And as a woman who spends time with both women and men, I can assure you (general you, not you, specifically, Baroana) that women and men make fools of themselves equally over the opposite sex.


Thankfully none of my friends are that way. NONE of them glorify their sex lives. None of them take it that seriously. If it comes up in conversation we laugh and joke about it sure but they don't get weepy/dramatic/weird about things. Nor do I try to get on a "I know best" pedestal in regards to their sex lives. Story sharing is fun but I think time, place and knowing one's audience is equally important. When I tried dealing with any sub who was dramatic/intense/emo it always put me in a bad mental space. My collared is exceedingly emotionally mature, his best quality. He scratches his head at most people, LOL. He's ridiculously easy going and not clinging to ideas of fantasy or chasing rainbows.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/20/2015 12:42:48 PM   
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hey manko, im just GRATEFUL for these opportunities!


Pffft, it reminds me of this South Park episode where they portrayed society's standards as an actual bar. And the bar had been lowered to the deepest depths of the ocean thanks to reality TV. It was hilarious, I love their satirical humor. "The bar has been lowered!" LOL, Steven Spielberg had to go retrieve it. Ah nerd hobbies, you make life so LOL.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/20/2015 12:44:16 PM   
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"Discriminating" in this context makes me laugh. As if he had a right to a chance with you that was denied.

Hey, that level of entitlement sounds familiar!

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/20/2015 12:51:45 PM   
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doesn't it? and what's funny is that I never reply to people I am not interested in for this reason. I made an exception, because his message was kind, and polite, and I felt a pleasant reply was in order. And then he reminded me why I was wrong LOL. But wait, there's more! I just received a message from someone asking how I feel about Alpha Doms who are into "taboo". I asked him to define taboo. lets all wait on the edge of our seats now for THIS reply, I bet its a whopper which will get him blocked and reported! but I'm blessed indeed for these opportunities! UPDATE: just as I expected, he's into several TOU violations. I would post it here but yeah, I'm not getting reported for what he says. but... OPPORTUNITIES though!

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/20/2015 2:47:22 PM   
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SumYoungDudeFromAnotherState on 3/20/15 at 10:44 AM:

It would be hot to see a picture of you presenting your holes from behind


I've got to admit, that one did make me laugh.

In the days of Jane Austen, a woman would always find an opportunity, early in the days of courting, to knock on her beau's door. When he opened it, he'd be treated to the sight of her bending over and with her knickers down. Looking through her legs, she'd say, 'Sir, may I present to you my holes?'

Ah, the days of courtly romance, so sadly missed. :-(

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/20/2015 2:58:28 PM   
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quote:

SumYoungDudeFromAnotherState on 3/20/15 at 10:44 AM:

It would be hot to see a picture of you presenting your holes from behind


I've got to admit, that one did make me laugh.

In the days of Jane Austen, a woman would always find an opportunity, early in the days of courting, to knock on her beau's door. When he opened it, he'd be treated to the sight of her bending over and with her knickers down. Looking through her legs, she'd say, 'Sir, may I present to you my holes?'

Ah, the days of courtly romance, so sadly missed. :-(


Just when I thought this thread couldn't get any funnier, peon causes me to laugh like an utter maniac. I was worried people around me might have thought I lost it, haha! Then again...

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/20/2015 3:28:54 PM   
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Pussy is everywhere. It's not scarce, so there's no supply/demand situation from which women would draw power. If there was, you might see a wage gap favoring women instead of men.


So is gold.

(And by the way...the minute women quit saying "Yes" to 72 cents....they'll suddenly, en masse, get what they ask for).

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/20/2015 3:47:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie


quote:

ORIGINAL: Baroana

Pussy is everywhere. It's not scarce, so there's no supply/demand situation from which women would draw power. If there was, you might see a wage gap favoring women instead of men.


So is gold.

(And by the way...the minute women quit saying "Yes" to 72 cents....they'll suddenly, en masse, get what they ask for).


Bingo baby.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/20/2015 4:44:28 PM   
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I'm not looking to offend anyone here. But looking over some posts and profiles on this site, some people need a reality check.
I would think it's quite obvious women have more opportunity. If a woman posts a pretty picture, all she has to do is sit back and let the suitors fill up the mail box. Then you can come on here and complain about how 99% are creepy and wankers. Then you can start asking for "tributes" to prove worthiness of your time and make a business out of it. You expect serious subs to pay money to strangers on the internet without even talking to you and basing it off a picture that could have been taken 20 years ago or may not even be the real person? Ever see that show Catfish on MTV? There are a lot of fakers, hackers, and scam artists out there. Are there people actually dumb enough to give money to strangers on the internet just so a person that claims to be a woman will talk to you? Think how many legit men you are turning away with that kind of crap.

He's my advice for ladies that don't like the mail they get...don't accept any mail. Do your own searching and find a sub/dom that works for you. That's what us guys do! Both dom and sub men. We look for and find the perfect woman that fits our standards and needs. It's the same in the vanilla world as well. A man can go to a club or bar or whatever and ask out 10 women. If 9 say no it is no big deal. There are lots of fish in the sea. But if one says yes, then his night is set. But women sit back, wait to be approached, and then whine about how there aren't any good men in the world anymore.

You won't get any sympathy from me if you are not willing to put any work into it. It's 2015, not 1910. It ain't taboo for a woman to approach a man anymore.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/20/2015 5:13:01 PM   
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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/20/2015 5:34:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: jdawg99

I'm not looking to offend anyone here. But looking over some posts and profiles on this site, some people need a reality check.
I would think it's quite obvious women have more opportunity. If a woman posts a pretty picture, all she has to do is sit back and let the suitors fill up the mail box. Then you can come on here and complain about how 99% are creepy and wankers. Then you can start asking for "tributes" to prove worthiness of your time and make a business out of it. You expect serious subs to pay money to strangers on the internet without even talking to you and basing it off a picture that could have been taken 20 years ago or may not even be the real person? Ever see that show Catfish on MTV? There are a lot of fakers, hackers, and scam artists out there. Are there people actually dumb enough to give money to strangers on the internet just so a person that claims to be a woman will talk to you? Think how many legit men you are turning away with that kind of crap.

He's my advice for ladies that don't like the mail they get...don't accept any mail. Do your own searching and find a sub/dom that works for you. That's what us guys do! Both dom and sub men. We look for and find the perfect woman that fits our standards and needs. It's the same in the vanilla world as well. A man can go to a club or bar or whatever and ask out 10 women. If 9 say no it is no big deal. There are lots of fish in the sea. But if one says yes, then his night is set. But women sit back, wait to be approached, and then whine about how there aren't any good men in the world anymore.

You won't get any sympathy from me if you are not willing to put any work into it. It's 2015, not 1910. It ain't taboo for a woman to approach a man anymore.



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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/20/2015 6:05:43 PM   
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Read the thread.

There are many clues.

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RE: Women Have So Much More Opportunity - 3/20/2015 6:10:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: IcarusBurning


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ORIGINAL: Kittenluv954

I totally won't message to tell someone I'm not interested anymore lol, I know better after years of being attacked, insulted, debated with, and invalidated to bother myself with it. I reply to those I'm interested in, delete those I'm not, and block the ones who can't accept that.

*edit* I have no clue how I messed up this quote. my reply was to icarusburning, re: women who don't reply to messages at all.


I totally understand your point of view, especially given that women on here must be receiving hundreds of messages to swim through, the only practical approach is not to reply to someone you are not interested in. I am by no means finding fault in your ways.

However, for a moment spare a thought for the guy. He too might be genuinely looking for someone "his type". Trust me, sometimes hearing a "no thank you" also helps people tune in better to who all might be more suited , otherwise sometimes we are left guessing , well not forever ( no one is that stupid) but for rather lengthy stretches of time.


Yeah, it's always nice to get a pleasant "no thank-you" rather than silence, but especially when it's a first email.... I don't give silence a moment's thought other than to assume she's not interested.

As for
quote:

no one is that stupid
.... I'm not so sure about that.

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