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ORIGINAL: jdawg99

I'm not looking to offend anyone here. But looking over some posts and profiles on this site, some people need a reality check.
I would think it's quite obvious women have more opportunity. If a woman posts a pretty picture, all she has to do is sit back and let the suitors fill up the mail box.

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picture that could have been taken 20 years ago or may not even be the real person? Ever see that show Catfish on MTV? There are a lot of fakers, hackers, and scam artists out there.

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You won't get any sympathy from me if you are not willing to put any work into it. It's 2015, not 1910. It ain't taboo for a woman to approach a man anymore.

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ORIGINAL: jdawg99

I'm not looking to offend anyone here. But looking over some posts and profiles on this site, some people need a reality check.
I would think it's quite obvious women have more opportunity. If a woman posts a pretty picture, all she has to do is sit back and let the suitors fill up the mail box. Then you can come on here and complain about how 99% are creepy and wankers. Then you can start asking for "tributes" to prove worthiness of your time and make a business out of it. You expect serious subs to pay money to strangers on the internet without even talking to you and basing it off a picture that could have been taken 20 years ago or may not even be the real person? Ever see that show Catfish on MTV? There are a lot of fakers, hackers, and scam artists out there. Are there people actually dumb enough to give money to strangers on the internet just so a person that claims to be a woman will talk to you? Think how many legit men you are turning away with that kind of crap.

He's my advice for ladies that don't like the mail they get...don't accept any mail. Do your own searching and find a sub/dom that works for you. That's what us guys do! Both dom and sub men. We look for and find the perfect woman that fits our standards and needs. It's the same in the vanilla world as well. A man can go to a club or bar or whatever and ask out 10 women. If 9 say no it is no big deal. There are lots of fish in the sea. But if one says yes, then his night is set. But women sit back, wait to be approached, and then whine about how there aren't any good men in the world anymore.

You won't get any sympathy from me if you are not willing to put any work into it. It's 2015, not 1910. It ain't taboo for a woman to approach a man anymore.

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ORIGINAL: jdawg99

I'm not looking to offend anyone here. But looking over some posts and profiles on this site, some people need a reality check.
I would think it's quite obvious women have more opportunity. If a woman posts a pretty picture, all she has to do is sit back and let the suitors fill up the mail box. Then you can come on here and complain about how 99% are creepy and wankers. Then you can start asking for "tributes" to prove worthiness of your time and make a business out of it. You expect serious subs to pay money to strangers on the internet without even talking to you and basing it off a picture that could have been taken 20 years ago or may not even be the real person? Ever see that show Catfish on MTV? There are a lot of fakers, hackers, and scam artists out there. Are there people actually dumb enough to give money to strangers on the internet just so a person that claims to be a woman will talk to you? Think how many legit men you are turning away with that kind of crap.

He's my advice for ladies that don't like the mail they get...don't accept any mail. Do your own searching and find a sub/dom that works for you. That's what us guys do! Both dom and sub men. We look for and find the perfect woman that fits our standards and needs. It's the same in the vanilla world as well. A man can go to a club or bar or whatever and ask out 10 women. If 9 say no it is no big deal. There are lots of fish in the sea. But if one says yes, then his night is set. But women sit back, wait to be approached, and then whine about how there aren't any good men in the world anymore.

You won't get any sympathy from me if you are not willing to put any work into it. It's 2015, not 1910. It ain't taboo for a woman to approach a man anymore.

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ORIGINAL: GoddessManko

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ORIGINAL: NookieNotes

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ORIGINAL: Baroana

Women have their own equivalent of the pussy holy grail, as it were. Another reason why things even out.

Agreed. And as a woman who spends time with both women and men, I can assure you (general you, not you, specifically, Baroana) that women and men make fools of themselves equally over the opposite sex.

Thankfully none of my friends are that way. NONE of them glorify their sex lives.

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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SumYoungDudeFromAnotherState on 3/20/15 at 10:44 AM:

It would be hot to see a picture of you presenting your holes from behind

I've got to admit, that one did make me laugh.

In the days of Jane Austen, a woman would always find an opportunity, early in the days of courting, to knock on her beau's door. When he opened it, he'd be treated to the sight of her bending over and with her knickers down. Looking through her legs, she'd say, 'Sir, may I present to you my holes?'

Ah, the days of courtly romance, so sadly missed. :-(

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ORIGINAL: MathewIndio

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
However, you have made it clear that you don't care how women feel by invalidating everything a woman says including telling her a guy isn't creepy when she tells you he is. Your assessment is not more important than ours. Nor should it be. Yet you consistently act and speak in such a manner. Honestly, to me, that's creepy. You telling me some guy isn't creepy when I think he is also tells me that you will ignore my hard limits because you believe they are as invalid as my feelings are to you.

I know women who go to their email boxes, click all the emails and deletes them (Deleted, Unread). They wave their hands and say, "All these men are creeps, pervs, etc." Then they ask why can't they find a good man? My one friend let me look at her emails before deleting them. I ask her, "Why is this guy creepy? He looks normal to me." How can these women know they are creepy without even looking at their profiles or reading their emails?

You are accusing me of not caring how women feel, I invalidate women because I'm curious how does she know all these men are creeps and pervs without even looking at their profiles or emails.

How is it I'm ignoring your hard limits?

Would you be so kind as to tell everyone on the forum how do you know all these men are creepy and pervs without looking at their profiles or reading their emails?

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: jdawg99

I'm not looking to offend anyone here. But looking over some posts and profiles on this site, some people need a reality check.
I would think it's quite obvious women have more opportunity. If a woman posts a pretty picture, all she has to do is sit back and let the suitors fill up the mail box. Then you can come on here and complain about how 99% are creepy and wankers. Then you can start asking for "tributes" to prove worthiness of your time and make a business out of it. You expect serious subs to pay money to strangers on the internet without even talking to you and basing it off a picture that could have been taken 20 years ago or may not even be the real person? Ever see that show Catfish on MTV? There are a lot of fakers, hackers, and scam artists out there. Are there people actually dumb enough to give money to strangers on the internet just so a person that claims to be a woman will talk to you? Think how many legit men you are turning away with that kind of crap.

He's my advice for ladies that don't like the mail they get...don't accept any mail. Do your own searching and find a sub/dom that works for you. That's what us guys do! Both dom and sub men. We look for and find the perfect woman that fits our standards and needs. It's the same in the vanilla world as well. A man can go to a club or bar or whatever and ask out 10 women. If 9 say no it is no big deal. There are lots of fish in the sea. But if one says yes, then his night is set. But women sit back, wait to be approached, and then whine about how there aren't any good men in the world anymore.

You won't get any sympathy from me if you are not willing to put any work into it. It's 2015, not 1910. It ain't taboo for a woman to approach a man anymore.

Great way to fail on your very first post. Try reading the entire thread before giving us your sterling wisdom after one day on this site.

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi
I have never met your friend so I have no clue why she chose to delete the messages she did. Maybe she is really good at spotting creeps and maybe she has no clue and just likes to delete them. She is the only one who is going to be able to answer the question. What I want to know is why you think this one women represents all women? Personally I know a lot of them and I can't think of one who operates the way you described. So maybe the problem isn't with women in general and more with the ones you choose to hang out with. Something to think about.

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ORIGINAL: MathewIndio

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi
I have never met your friend so I have no clue why she chose to delete the messages she did. Maybe she is really good at spotting creeps and maybe she has no clue and just likes to delete them. She is the only one who is going to be able to answer the question. What I want to know is why you think this one women represents all women? Personally I know a lot of them and I can't think of one who operates the way you described. So maybe the problem isn't with women in general and more with the ones you choose to hang out with. Something to think about.

I have chatted with several women who won't bother reading any emails (Deleted, Unread) because they believe they are all creeps, perv, etc. Both on this site and other dating sites. There are several women on this forum who admitted that they do this too. I never said this one woman represents ALL women. My point is that there are women who Delete, Unread their emails and then complain they can't find any good men. My question is how do they expect to find any good men if they don't even bother reading emails or looking at their profiles. One person made a valid point. She is able to read the first few lines of every email sent to her without ever opening the email. From this she is able to make a decision.

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ORIGINAL: MathewIndio

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi
I have never met your friend so I have no clue why she chose to delete the messages she did. Maybe she is really good at spotting creeps and maybe she has no clue and just likes to delete them. She is the only one who is going to be able to answer the question. What I want to know is why you think this one women represents all women? Personally I know a lot of them and I can't think of one who operates the way you described. So maybe the problem isn't with women in general and more with the ones you choose to hang out with. Something to think about.

I have chatted with several women who won't bother reading any emails (Deleted, Unread) because they believe they are all creeps, perv, etc. Both on this site and other dating sites. There are several women on this forum who admitted that they do this too. I never said this one woman represents ALL women. My point is that there are women who Delete, Unread their emails and then complain they can't find any good men. My question is how do they expect to find any good men if they don't even bother reading emails or looking at their profiles. One person made a valid point. She is able to read the first few lines of every email sent to her without ever opening the email. From this she is able to make a decision.

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1
Why don't you now start another ridiculous thread discussing why women hover over the first few lines of an email and then delete it?

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ORIGINAL: NookieNotes


I wasn't talking about glorifying their sex lives. I was talking about people making fools of themselves over the opposite sex. For love. For lust. For infatuation.

I don't know a single person who has not at some point in their lives. Including me.

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ORIGINAL: MathewIndio

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1
Why don't you now start another ridiculous thread discussing why women hover over the first few lines of an email and then delete it?

No, I don't have any interest in doing that. Why don't you create a thread instead of suggesting other people do it?

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9 pages later... do you think you've changed the world?

There is no spoon, Neo.

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ORIGINAL: MathewIndio

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi
I have never met your friend so I have no clue why she chose to delete the messages she did. Maybe she is really good at spotting creeps and maybe she has no clue and just likes to delete them. She is the only one who is going to be able to answer the question. What I want to know is why you think this one women represents all women? Personally I know a lot of them and I can't think of one who operates the way you described. So maybe the problem isn't with women in general and more with the ones you choose to hang out with. Something to think about.

I have chatted with several women who won't bother reading any emails (Deleted, Unread) because they believe they are all creeps, perv, etc. Both on this site and other dating sites. There are several women on this forum who admitted that they do this too. I never said this one woman represents ALL women. My point is that there are women who Delete, Unread their emails and then complain they can't find any good men. My question is how do they expect to find any good men if they don't even bother reading emails or looking at their profiles. One person made a valid point. She is able to read the first few lines of every email sent to her without ever opening the email. From this she is able to make a decision.

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ORIGINAL: GoddessManko


Ah OK, I would call remaining in a toxic environment/allowing it to have a negative effect on you as foolish and in such regard only a select few I would hope, do that. As far as "bad experiences" relationship wise, they are always learning experiences and that's really how we grow as people into becoming who we are. I truly believe pain allows people to go through profound metamorphoses and that's why I love it so much.

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ORIGINAL: SeekingTrinity
And again...why the hell does it matter so much to you what these women do? If they never date another man as long as they live...what's it to you?

Life must move pretty slow in your world if you feel the need to devote your time and energy to something that has absolutely nothing to do with you. Shouldn't your focus be on YOUR dating life...not the dating lives of others?

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ORIGINAL: SeekingTrinity

Sweetie, you haven't been attacked by me. Trust and believe you'd know it if I did attack you. You aren't asking a question. You are bitching and moaning about what other people chose to do as far as THEIR dating life went. It's not your business, nor do you have any dog in the fight as far as what they do in their life goes. If they want to ignore every message, it's not your business. If they never date again because of how they handle things, it's not your business.

And no amount of going on and on and on about it over and over and over again will change that