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RE: Trust is a lie in the BDSM world - 7/17/2006 11:58:20 PM

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RE: Trust is a lie in the BDSM world - 7/18/2006 6:42:09 AM

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ORIGINAL: rose442

How can anyone have trust in a relationship. When honesty is 1 sided. When you have a sub that tells all that she does, everyone she talks to, and everything that is said in her life.

But then you have a Dom that hides stuff, tells you it is none of your business what He does, or who He does it with. Who He talks to or what He says to them. Keeps secrets. How is that a trusting relationship? As far as I am concerned there cannot be a trusting relationship in this lifestyle if a Dom doesn't have to be honest with His sub/slave and hide stuff.
My rant is done for the moment.
rose442

I skimmed the thread and didn't see that anyone else picked up on this so I will bring it up.

rose, am I correct in assuming this is the same man that calls you fat, a bad mom, and insults the father(s) of your children as you showed us here?
subs and slaves weight?

Honestly, I know that no matter what's said to you, you will only hear what you want to hear. So maybe if you take all of your own words, as well as his, and look at them really look at them this whole relationship will begin to add up for you.

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RE: Trust is a lie in the BDSM world - 7/18/2006 7:44:35 AM

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What I note most about that thread is that she spoke highly about the man she calls Master in that thread. In this thread she's trying her damnedest to tear him down. I think she needs a good slap across the face with reality.

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RE: Trust is a lie in the BDSM world - 7/18/2006 8:37:13 AM

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I really probably should keep my thoughts to myself since I really know very little about this world! But isn't trust inportant to all relationships? Friends are merly just people you meet & may never see again without trust.Husbands & wifes becoming divorced when trust is broken.seems a male with a sub would want that high important level of trust also to make thrir relationship work.
In any case it seems the discussion should be between the couple not the whole neighborhood! How is it that your trustworthy to your Dom, when you can belittle him in front of his peers? Sorry If I am out of line posting here. Rainygrl

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RE: Trust is a lie in the BDSM world - 7/18/2006 8:39:29 AM

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lol They list me as Vanilla* Is that the bottom of your list here?
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RE: Trust is a lie in the BDSM world - 7/18/2006 10:46:34 AM

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lol i do not know what that whole "vanilla" icon is either..i didn't put it there...waits for S/someone to answer this question...

By the way pertaining to this post, and its subsequent 5 pages. Excellent advice has been given, here as well in prior posts, rather it is taken or not is up to the T/two involved.

"she" is a direct reflection of "Him." nuff said..i'll hush.

~nsty

EDIT: oops, the "by the way" wasn't directed at you rainy, but at the forum as a whole.

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RE: Trust is a lie in the BDSM world - 7/18/2006 10:54:16 AM

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This will answer the question the two of you posed:

http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=117979

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RE: Trust is a lie in the BDSM world - 7/18/2006 10:56:23 AM

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MrDiscipline, thank You

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RE: Trust is a lie in the BDSM world - 7/18/2006 10:59:07 AM

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You're very welcome.

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