LipstickLeuger
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[QUOTE]Why would you think that you should have no input? I think you may have misunderstood what I was trying to convey. I do think that sometimes just blaming the whole 'other' group, is counter intuitive, and brings no understanding at all. Getting to know the 'other' group is important because not everyone in that 'other' group will be treating you the same way. For instance, what if I told you I am a Liberal Leftist and a hard core Radical Feminist? Would you say that you 'never guessed' because I discuss things rationally and you have respect for me? Or would you suddenly change how you view me and lose respect for me due to your stereotype of the whole group? Would you not believe that our discussions are true and that I was interested in what you had to say and in your feelings? The whole idea of someone can change based on how we view their assumed group. That was what I was trying to explain. All people should be valued and their beliefs and opinions and no one should be shamed into shutting up and not discussing their feelings rationally, without drama. That is very hard to find today and I think if we stopped with 'they said this and so we yelled over them' or vice versa, and just LISTENED without getting all angry, the world would be a happier place. I hope this explained it clearer, I sometimes hate the internet because it is hard to really get a feel for what the other person is saying, voice inflection and such. P.S. I bet you are wondering if it is true what I described myself as above....I'll never tell. LOL P.P.S. I do value your opinions as well.[/QUOTE] [QUOTE]I didn't say I shouldn't have input. I said they thought I shouldn't have input. I'm looked at as a white male by those feminists and a part of the rape culture. I'm perfectly fine with anyone being what they want to be. It's they, those "others" who stereo type me. Leftists say they are open minded, yet, you see so many post here showing they are closed minded it's laughable to us on the right that they actually believe that. You can be what ever you want and I take you as you present yourself to me. Continue to present yourself to me as you have and I'll continue to respect you, even if I don't agree with you. Discuss things politely with me and I'll continue to be polite to you. But, keep in mind, I still wonder why I have to explain this. Nobody on the left acts like that...with rare occasions. Why, I've told the story at greater length before and I won't bore people again now, but when a woman at work tried to get me fired, ruin my career, by charging me with a fake sexual harassment charge, so she could be promoted into my job, when she was found to be lying, they promoted her out to somewhere else and sent me to sexual harassment training where for two days I had to sit and be "taught" that it was my fault because I was a white male. (Sorry for the run on sentence). That's typical. I was actually talking back with the "instructer" for half a day or so until they sent my boss to tell me to not talk, just sit and listen, or loss my job. That sort of thing is common, not an exception. [/quote] That was getting way too long, so I shortened it. Yes, people seem to argue a lot here, but that is what the Dungeon is for, I guess. I frequent it because I like to debate and discuss, and am interested in talking to others with various points of view. I'm basically pretty mellow about others thoughts and ideas. I understand what you were saying in your post now. I was somewhat confused about you mentioning me being gay, but I see how you were drawing a parallel between us. I sadly must admit that often, males are ignored, and and this frustrates me as well. I am the mother of a young male and am pretty protective of him about this type of stuff. You can't go around blaming all males for what a few do or have done, and I have pissed off more than a few Rad Fems over my point of view on that. I can totally understand why you would be angry. You were treated very unfairly. It's women like the one you speak of that give all Feminist a bad name. We really are not like that, except for a few crack-a-lackies that really do hate men and those, thank God, are very few and far between. I am sorry you had to deal with that.
< Message edited by LipstickLeuger -- 6/21/2015 6:44:10 PM >
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