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RE: Mens Reproductive Rights - 6/26/2015 8:59:04 AM   
Aylee


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What I AM saying is men have NO rights when this sort of thing happens, and NO politician is bold enough to take this issue on.


Why should they take it on? What's to be gained for them by taking it on?

If you were a left wing politician, you'd think, 'Balls. This is just the typical male, bellyaching. Women are the oppressed sex here - I'm on their side'. If you were a right wing politician, you'd think, 'There's a problem here, but, fortunately, nobody is blaming right wing values. Instead, the men who are hard done by on this are blaming feminists and feminism. Brilliant - I'm safe! All I have to do is talk about how I don't like feminists every now and then. That's fine, because there aren't any feminists in my party anyway'.
I'd like to ask you something, Peon. Describe a feminist fro me.



https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feminism

That's pretty much what I go by.


Try this link. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feminist_movements_and_ideologies

They list 20 "types" of feminism. Lots of information there.

Now describe a feminist.

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RE: Mens Reproductive Rights - 6/26/2015 7:03:37 PM   
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I feel very strongly that there is no good answer to any of this.

The woman is granted the right to elect abortion because it is her body, and by law her body and anything it holds is hers to decide what to do with. However, if you are in a commited relationship, and you get pregnant, don't you own your partner the respect of talking it over with them, before you abort or anything to do with something they helped create? Still, forcing a woman to remain pregnant instead of giving her the right to abortion, such as having her husband have to sign for her to abort, could be turned against her in abusive situations, in situations to teach her a lesson and to keep her tethered to someone she does not want a connection with. So, the final choice must be hers to protect her.

As far as making a male pay for a child that is not his: even though I understand that the reason that the unborn child of a married woman is given as the husbands own seed, even if it is not, it was done in olden times to afford the child protections of having a male not leave the woman high and dry with her unable to support the child. They did not have DNA tests, that they have now and women were not able to support themselves as they can now So, that law should be changed for fairness. I do believe that most men these days WANT a hand in raising their child, and would be happy to pay child support if they know that their child is taken care of and if they have free access to that child. (instead of holding it over their heads as a bone as is want to happen with some people)Most guys DO love and want a child that they think they helped create. I see too many good Daddies out there to think otherwise.

There really is no good answer, and it frustrates me as I have not only daughters, but a son. I see it from both sides.

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RE: Mens Reproductive Rights - 6/27/2015 4:07:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aylee


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer


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ORIGINAL: CreativeDominant


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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What I AM saying is men have NO rights when this sort of thing happens, and NO politician is bold enough to take this issue on.


Why should they take it on? What's to be gained for them by taking it on?

If you were a left wing politician, you'd think, 'Balls. This is just the typical male, bellyaching. Women are the oppressed sex here - I'm on their side'. If you were a right wing politician, you'd think, 'There's a problem here, but, fortunately, nobody is blaming right wing values. Instead, the men who are hard done by on this are blaming feminists and feminism. Brilliant - I'm safe! All I have to do is talk about how I don't like feminists every now and then. That's fine, because there aren't any feminists in my party anyway'.
I'd like to ask you something, Peon. Describe a feminist fro me.



https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feminism

That's pretty much what I go by.


Try this link. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feminist_movements_and_ideologies

They list 20 "types" of feminism. Lots of information there.

Now describe a feminist.


I stand by my definition as per my own link. Thus

"Feminism is a range of movements and ideologies that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve equal political, economic, cultural, personal, and social rights for women.[1][2] This includes seeking to establish equal opportunities for women in education and employment. A feminist advocates or supports the rights and equality of women."

I'd only add that the Wiki definition dwells on the idea of equality, whereas I'd add in the key idea of 'liberty'. The 'liberty' facet of feminism is considered somewhat old hat these days, but I think it's been revived recently by various sorts of 'difference' feminists. Ecofeminists and conservative feminists, for instance, tend to be 'difference' types. These believe that men and women are essentially different and have different strengths. Yet, they still, at bottom (and not without some intellectual headaches) hold to the idea that feminism is about equality and liberty - 'equal with men', but 'free to be what we truly are' (whatever 'truly are' might mean).

The reason I stick pretty damned rigidly to this is firstly and mainly because 'feminism' has had so much bile and vitriol thrown at it in its life that you need to go back to first principles in order to cut through such tiresome, eternal propaganda. That's been the case right from the very first suffragettes, and the anti-propaganda has never lost any of its venom. It's now got to the stage that, for many, a feminist is pretty much "by definition" a self-aggrandising man-hater.

However, and (very much) secondly, self-aggrandising man-haters *do* exist. Not in anywhere near the numbers that the right wing press bangs on about so energetically, but they are around. To them, I want to be able to say - and sometimes *do* say, on occasion - "You may think yourself a feminist, but that's not a feminist argument. That's just a "me, and people like me, first" argument. And I absolutely relish the look of disbelief and vibe of 'How dare you contradict me! You're male!' ... because it is of course balls that a man can't be a feminist and that, in fact, is contained in the very first principle of feminism.

In short, I use the terms 'feminism' and 'feminist' scrupulously ... principally because I can't stand the horseshit propaganda that's so often thrown around about it.


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