kinkyAbstract
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you are perfectly free to leave...but before you do, please show me one free website out there that does not have ....."sex workers" amongst the members, especially an adult only site.
The site is full of scammers of all kinds..predators, wankers, hookers, crazies and abusers. you want to legislate morality on a BDSM site?
Plus what Maria said.
Until recently there was a fora section for professional services.
Am I also imperfectly free to stay? Not that this is relevant to the original question. I'll play along just in case there some connection I don't see.
You are trying to make the connection when its a simple as the nose on your face...
What's with the quotes around the term SEX WORKERS? And your punctuation? Incomplete sentences? What do ".." and "...." mean to you? In English they mean nothing and are just incorrect use of the period or ellipses. And why are you uses the ellipses to omit something you are saying as if it isn't relevant. Are you letting us know that while typing you had a thought but it wasn't related, so you decided to leave it out? Either way, I'm sure it's better off left out, so thanks for sparing us. Is it the number of periods represents the length of the omitted thought? Or did you confuse two periods, ".." with the colon ":" perhaps? Because you don't form a sentence with a list separated by comas, so the colon would have made sense. You just have it turned on it's side, which is not a punctuation mark.
PS I have a few paralysed fingers, but please take the piss out of my punctuation and grammar, it makes what you spout so much more...Important. NOT.
Okay back to trying to understand what it is your attempting to call me out on. SEX WORKERS! Does this term bother you? I don't understand the quotes at all. What do they mean? You can't be quoting me directly because I used the term SEX INDUSTRY WORKER. Hmmmmmm. I am guessing that you have some sort of negative connotation you associate with the term, as the common theme here with people is negativity! Well, shake it out! Shake that negativity right out your skull. The term SEX WORKER was coined by Carol Leigh. She was an activist for the rights of "sex workers." The term "sex worker" is the term that has been adopted and accepted by "sex workers" and the whole industry. So the term "sex worker" is the political correct term for a "sex worker" and therefore does not inherently have any negative connotation with it. So any that you think is there, is your own ignorance.
You are so very wrong, I started out in this lifestyle learning from prodommes, Ive been on the fringe of sex industry worker on and off since i was 19. I know many still in the area, as well as pro subs dancers, hookers, cam girls and findommes. I have nothing against women doing what they choose to do with their lives. Its called CHOICE and I am VERY pro choice.
Lol! " scammers of all kinds..predators, wankers, hookers, crazies and abusers. you want to legislate morality on a BDSM site?" The fact that you think those types of people and BDSM are one thing is perfect! Lol.
I never said they were one thing, that would be idiotic. For you to assume that I meant that, means you jump to some really dumb assumptions.
And then you seem to feel that morality is the opposite of BDSM. I would say, and most would agree that morality usually come down to respecting other people. Do onto other as you want done to you, right? So let's say morality = respect. Morality doesnt = respect.
So you are asking me if I want respect among people that particapatePARTICIPATE in an online BDSM community? What does it matter what I want? And are you seriously asking this question? BDSM is all about respect! Respecting kinks, fetishes, limits, boundaries, similarities, differences, threshold, likes, dislikes, interests, turn-ons, turn-offs, etc.
You havent been around long have you. There is just as much "false" morality in the BDSM community(hah) as there is in politics.
You earn respect, it isn't given ....courteousness? maybe, civility? yes, to begin with. Stop trying to teach your granny to suck eggs.
Until recently I gave people too much credit! Silly me.
yeah silly you
Oh I wondered when you would get back to me.
Now if you would like to actually stick to the topic, instead of attempting to give me grammar nazi intervention, go right ahead.
Sorry to keep you in suspense.
Excuse me? Would I like to stick to the topic? I'm sorry, I don't follow what you are talking about. Where did we go off topic? Oh yes, when you responded to the original post!?
I can leave?
The original post doesn't ask whether or not I may leave collarspace.com if I don't like it. It doesn't state that I don't like anything! It doesn't state whether I like anything! Talking about me making assumptions, lol.
Grammar nazi? Lol. It's called language! There aren't multiple ways to use it. And it's not like you simply made mistakes or had a couple errors! As is totally acceptable to have them, nobody is perfect. But no, you intentionally make up your own punctuation. Many people do it, especially online but it is completely retarded. I only got off topic because you attacked me off topic. But yeah, turn it around on me. I'm the one dodging the topic here.
Lol, the fact that you think following grammar rules makes someone more important, sound important, seem more important, or whatever is sad. Sorry but the use of proper syntax is not extra! It's absolutely standard and required to properly communicate with the expectation that others will be able to understand what it is you are writing. I don't follow grammar rules to seem important, as if it's option that you only use if you are trying to go the extra mile! Ha ha. You don't get extra points or gold stars for knowing the rules, it's expected of you to know those things. It doesn't make you exceptional at all. I'm sorry you think so.
It's common courtesy to follow the same rules of writing that everyone else learned in school. It's rude to expect other people to know what your made up rule are. To expect them to take extra time out of their day so that that can try and piece together what you mean to say from the run-on and incomplete sentences that make no actual sense if you read them as they are written. Of course, it all makes sense to you because you wrote them, and that's how your brain thinks about using the language. So I don't really find this off topic since you are posting in a public message board without proper etiquette. And I don't need to hear your argument against this. There isn't one. And I have heard many people go on about it in many different ways. But the fact is that there is no excuse for it and the very fact they you would try to defend it is laughable. And it also shows your lack of awareness in how what you do may affect other people. Or your lack of giving a fuck about other people.
You started in the lifestyle learning from ProDommes? That's wonderful. I'm happy for you, I think. You still didn't actually address why you put the quotes around sex worker then. So, yeah. Off topic again... How am I wrong about the term sex worker?
Ha ha ha. I didn't assume you meant anything. What you wrote implied it! Seriously?
Actually a synonym for moral is respectable. But I also never said that respect does in fact equal morality. What I did say was "lets say respect = morality" just for the purpose of that particular conversation. So you are in agreement that respect does not equal morality, but what is your point? Again here, totally dodging the actual point I was making. Hypothetical must be a new concept for you.
Oh no! I made a mistake! Ha ha. Did you copy and paste my post into Microsoft word to see if you could catch me? Lol. Do you actually think that I was saying people can't have spelling errors? I was actually saying it is immature and ignorant to think that it is acceptable to make up your own rules of grammar and punctuation expecting others to understand it. I actually never mentioned spelling.
So, basically, since not everyone does things the correct way or follow the established guidelines then why should I? Since it's all fucked up, why bother fixing it? It will just get fucked up again? I'm sorry you feel this way, but I"m not responding to this because it's too much and would require a whole lot of effort from you to even understand. But this type of thinking is a problem in our world today, it needs to go away and it will. Younger generations of people have not adopted this kind of thinking, luckily.
Yeah, silly me. Can't you actually come up with something to say on your own? None of this means anything. You haven't actually said anything nor did you negate any points I made with any evidence for anything that you have said. What you have said has nothing to do with what I wrote in response to you. Unbelievable! Lol.
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