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ORIGINAL: kinkyAbstract
Ha ha. It was a joke. Oh my god. Are you kidding me? Ha! You just blew my mind! I seriously can't believe you took time or made the decision to respond to that.
Ah. I see. The old 'it was only a joke' defense. Pretty soon, this will be a social experiment.
Gotcha. *wink wink, nudge nudge*
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Really? So to post here is to be attacked by "this community." And no dear, read the OP. There is no attitude there. I knew exactly what I was doing and how I was doing it. And it shouldn't receive that kind of response amount intelligent people. I mean, this is getting pretty bad. I really feel like your reaching now. I knew that people might get hyped up about it. But there shouldn't actually be a reason to take it personally unless you actually are insecure about it yourself. Do you get that? That is what happened here. That, or your "community" is so used to bullying every idiot fool that does post here with a negative connotation towards a topic, ignorant, and offensive that your "community" just jumps the gun anytime they feel like someone is crossing a line. I'm sure this happens every time. My surprise is in the refusal to look at it. I knew it happens. It's why I wrote the post the way I did. And as you said, "I posted" so you actually just confirmed what I'm trying to say here. You also say that your "community" here does this repeatedly through many of the threads here. So much so that it would be apparent by simply reading though some old posts. Lol. Your so called "standards of behavior" which in reality is more like delusions of grandeur. Because I know this isn't how any of you speak to people in the world that have people in it you see face to face. And again, as you said yourself, you have to read around to learn the rules to know, "what this community is about, the standards of behavior." The implication being that it is different from the standards of behavior in real world or even other places on the internet for that matter. So it is my fault that I don't subscribe to the convoluted perspective your "community" has built for itself here? Sorry but I subscribe to academia, where people can reference the accepted methods of things like behavior and communication, not your "community."
The standards of academia are called such because they apply to academia.
The standards of football games apply to football games.
You would not take either to the other and hope to fit in.
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Lol! No it's now! I said, I'm in the sex worker industry so it makes no sense I would have a problem with it (it meaning, with someone else being a sex worker). Also, I'm not a female! Lol. So I would have to say, "I'm a male. Who dresses like a female. Therefore, I know what it is like to be a female, and I don't think there are any problems with discrimination against women." And that is surely not like anything I was saying.
I didn't say you were female. I was simply making a point that obviously went over your head. Shame.
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Awe, Thanks hun. But you're confused. Those weren't questions.
So, you didn't mean to include those questions marks (red and bold mine):
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ORIGINAL: kinkyAbstract
I am just curious. Because it clearly states in the Terms and Conditions of Collarspace.com that the website does not allow users to advertise services. Well, what the fuck do you call what they are doing? They advertise services and request money for those services... And everyone knows for a fact that they aren't advertising sex, because that would be illegal. So therefore it must be services! Right? Lol.
And your Subject line:
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ProDom and FinDom. Why are they allowed on this site?
Oh, and this wonderful little tidbit posted below:
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ORIGINAL: kinkyAbstract
I am not talking about my opinion here, I'm asking a fucking question!?!?!? Hello? Knock! Knock! Is your head hollow of your brain mush?
So, which is it? Do you see why you may be having trouble with your communication, now?
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Lol, this is so disappointing. None of you can actually argue with anything I say or have said. You just change what I say by projecting, judging me, adding words to mine, assuming the wrong thing and then respond to that. I just have to correct everything everyone thinks I'm saying. My writing style has always been very neutral.
Your writing style is far from neutral. You may think it is neutral. Others don't read it as such. Perhaps you could work on your communication style.
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And what you say in the quote is just complete bullshit, you say I, "...got several perfectly considerate and well-reasoned answers" Considerate? LOL, I can't begin to understand how anyone would think so. Total bullshit! Well-reasoned answers? Are you reading the right thread? No one even answered my question! Ever! Anywhere!? If they mention it, they use it as a way to insult me through some sarcastic remark they think is witty. It's old and troll-like. Boring and unoriginal. Then you say I, "...either railed against them or ignored them in favor of more and more inflammatory behavior." I railed against being attacked personally rather then having a discussion about why people are allowed to do something that's apparently not allowed. If it is allowed, how is it allowed? Under what circumstances? How can you be sure? Is there a way to find out for sure? There is really so much more to this conversation rather than what has become of it. It's really sad and fucking retarded this is common place here. What kind of person does't allow the other party in the conversation to have an opinion, and telling them what their thoughts, feelings, and beliefs are? Narcissists, dictators, tyrants, and abusive people do that. Not saying that you are. I'm just saying. And I didn't intentional ignore any repsonses, I was just trying to get to all of them. But with all the corrections and your alternate reality or "community" and all it's special rules, its time consuming.
Hmmm. My mistake. I really did think that several of your first replies were quite well-reasoned. Apparently others here think so. Again, you are the odd person out, here.
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I couldn't sum this up better, so again. If people would just take the time to understand things before they react to them the world would be a happier place. Not that anyone cares or wants a happier place to live.
Interesting. I'm not the one railing that everyone misunderstands me. In fact, I'm pretty sure that people here understand me just fine. But I'm sure you are the special snowflake that is right while everyone around you is wrong.
It happens.
And this:
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ORIGINAL: kinkyAbstract
By the way... In the words of many of you here:
It's a free site. If you don't like the way I wrote the OP the leave! You don't have to come here! No one asked you to come to Collarspace.com.
If you don't like it then leave damnit, nobody wants to hear you complain about people who don't do things the way you want and expect them to! This site wasn't made for you and doesn't cater do you.
Now, if you argue with this you are an idiot. And you don't deserve the brain stuck inside your skull. This has been your philosophy and logic so it must also then apply to you. But this whole thread has been a mirror you refuse to look at.
This is just precious. Yes. You are the ONE person here who makes any sense at all. The rest of us have simply been waiting, praying for guidance like yours, so that we may see the light of "how to do the forum thing right."
Thank you. Be blessed!
*gigglesnorts*
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