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Are The Messages Really True? - 9/10/2015 4:13:48 AM

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From another conversation:

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ORIGINAL: crumpets
I have seen skits where gamers read messages off of some chat site, where the women are inundated with "wanna fuck" messages.
Having watched this in mirth, I wonder how realistic these messages are.

I said I'd start a topic about this. I'm going to share some of my real conversations. No names. No calling anyone out.

I'd love if others want to join in.

I know there was a thread about crazy messages from the other side that I used to participate in now and again. Can't find it. Anyone?

OK, here goes with the first one. Just yesterday:

HIM:
Hello very interested in your ad I'm 5 11 190 lbs am not bi but not shy either looking for long term friends with benefits I am free tomorrow if you would like to meet and talk in person have sex that's fine with me I'm ddf can be dominant or submissive into different things I live in ---- hope to hear back from you I will lick you to

(includes cock shot, CL ad specifically says not to send cock shots)

ME:
Thank you, but including a cock shot is not the type of man I'm looking for.

Best of luck in your search.

HIM:
Whatever fuck you you want it in your mouth
But don't want to look at it that's a dumb bitch

ME:
See? And you just proved that you are not the kind of man I want around.

Best of luck to you. With that attitude, you're really going to need it.

HIM:
Well you prove your not the type of bitch I want to fuck

HIM:
Won't be long fatso your post will be flagged

HIM:
Won't be long now post will be deleted anything else you put up I will flag miss piggy

So, here you have proof of several things:

1. Man wants to fuck.
2. Man sends cock in hopes of fuck, even when asked not to (probably didn't read)
3. Man is generally illiterate.
4. Man gets cranky when he is denied the sex.
5. Man decides to flag my ad based on said denial, and will now go through the effort of flagging every one of my ads he sees, because I didn't give him the sex.

Case in Point #1. I had 4 or 5 of these types just yesterday from ONE ad.

Anyone else want to join.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/10/2015 5:58:10 AM

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I must apologize, as a man, for the trashy way men compose their cs-mail/tinder-text messages to women.

Men talk exactly that way to each other (witness the constant sexual banter in any decently realistic male-bonding war film, for example), so, we're extremely comfortable with outright outlandish direct sexual repartee.

However, we normally, just as instinctively, snap out of that base-behavior mode when speaking to members of the opposite sex.

One way to think about it is that we are told to treat our initial conversations with women as if we're talking to someone's mother, and not as if we're joking with our (male) friends. (This is good advice - but - apparently - some men haven't yet received the memo!)

While I am not new to the scum men write to women as pickup lines, my first exposure to the puerile codswallop that men apparently habitually text to women on Tinder was a "Machinima ETC" skit where the hosts read aloud both sides of apparently real creepy text message conversations as a male:female tag team.

This demonstration opened my eyes to what women go through, daily apparently, on Tinder, once a "match" is lined up.

Googling for "machinima etc creepy text theatre", perhaps the best of which was this one with Sasha Grey as a guest host:
Creepy Text Theatre with SASHA GREY - ETC News

But, that quick google also found plenty of the same unfledged ilk ...

To that end, here are some vanilla (in as much as Tinder is vanilla) Tinder messages, received by (real) women...who are universally disgusted with the way men approach them, at least on Tinder ...
READING MY CREEPY TINDER MESSAGES - Meghan Rienks
READING MY CREEPY TINDER MESSAGES - PeaceloveCaitlin
Girls Read Weird Tinder Messages - Pat Greenall
READING MY CREEPY TINDER MESSAGES! - Taylor Hansen
MY TINDER HORROR STORIES | + READING MESSAGES - marvelousmollie03
READING MY CREEPY TINDER MESSAGES - imthaaatgirl07 ♡
Reading My Creepy Tinder Messages! - NICOLE JULIANA
READING MY CREEPY TINDER MESSAGES - BRI DECERIO
READING MY CREEPY TINDER MESSAGES?!? - BEYOU FITFUL
READING MY TINDER MESSAGES: PART 2 - Taylor Hansen
READING MY TINDER MESSAGES?! - tewsimple
♡ Reading TINDER Messages! | College Girls Edition ♡ - Glam It Yourself
etc.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/10/2015 6:45:30 AM

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I see a fair amount of personal photos like this:

Yeah no, it's not her nickname. It's a Poison Lingerie ad.

I need to get right on contacting that one.

K.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/10/2015 7:15:02 AM

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Poison lingerie? Sounds itchy...

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/10/2015 7:33:38 AM

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How about this one, in which he feels that it's appropriate to judge me and my appearance, despite the fact that my profile is not aimed at him, nor is his at me:

HIM:
You really should have at least just one revealing picture.

ME:
Why?

HIM:
Do you want the truth or do you want me to simply boost your ego?

ME:
Obviously the truth. Or why bother?

HIM:
Very well. The truth is you are simply average. Oh yes I am sure some men fall all over you trying to get between your legs but do they stay? Of course not. If they did you would not be here. So you are fooling yourself time after time into thinking you are hotter than you are. So with that said you have to try harder. You have to show more desirable men you have the goods. That you are not inhibited and that you are willing to take a chance.

This doesn't mean you have to give it all away immediately. But you do need to tease more and show yourself so that others can see your willing to put yourself out there.

ME:
Ahhh. I see.

Well, I'll tell you the truth, instead of boosting your ego in return.

I am of average looks. I know that. I don't have a problem with it. It's always been a benefit to me, actually. I have said many times I wouldn't like to look like a super-model. I would just be trouble, then.

I get plenty of attention, despite my average visage, because I am a sexual and sensual person, and people catch on to that fast.

Therefore, I have no shortage of suitors. Sure, you suggest they might not stay long... And that may be true in the experience of the LSE women you obviously prey on. They fall for words, and end up with nothing.

Oh, and I'm not a submissive. Not sure if you bothered reading my profile, or if your comprehension is less-than average, but I am primarily dominant, so simply pleasing and attracting men like yourself holds less interest to me than a dead ant on the sidewalk.

Best of luck to you in finding what you are looking for. *smiles*

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/10/2015 10:49:16 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kirata

I see a fair amount of personal photos like this:

Yeah no, it's not her nickname. It's a Poison Lingerie ad.

I need to get right on contacting that one.

K.

I you don't I will....it has to be the model herself...she is lonely....she will jump on any hit...if you are not going to act on that hot property how about passing along her hmu data? I will trade you a pony for it.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/10/2015 11:04:41 AM

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I kinda dig the look... Although I doubt it would look that stunning as the body actually moved. Or as MY body actually moved. LOL!

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/10/2015 11:16:14 AM

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I tend to delete mine as they come in. It's a question of keeping my inbox tidy enough so that I can find the mail I do want to reply to.

But I'll post some as they come in... it shouldn't take long.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/10/2015 11:28:09 AM

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Im the same as Ishtarr...delete..but if anyone wants to see some of the lesser ugly messages, there is a good thread in Polls about it...I wish I had saved some now.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/10/2015 1:01:58 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: thompsonx
quote:

ORIGINAL: Kirata

I see a fair amount of personal photos like this:

Yeah no, it's not her nickname. It's a Poison Lingerie ad.

I need to get right on contacting that one.

I you don't I will....it has to be the model herself...she is lonely....she will jump on any hit...if you are not going to act on that hot property how about passing along her hmu data? I will trade you a pony for it.

It would have to be a clydesdale.

K.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/10/2015 2:42:53 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

Im the same as Ishtarr...delete..but if anyone wants to see some of the lesser ugly messages, there is a good thread in Polls about it...I wish I had saved some now.

Polls! That's where I'll look. LOL! I wasn't sure even where to begin. I know I've contributed.

TY!

http://www.collarchat.com/m_4267202/tm.htm

Yes, these are all real.

Sheesh!

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/10/2015 2:57:21 PM

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I was just in another tab, ready to grab that link for you. (Holy crap! LP still knows her way around the joint.) They even changed the section header back to Polls and Random Stupidity. I kind of like that.

Anyway, Nookie, I know you and I have a different thought process about the mail thing. I've got a sig line that reflects my position on this thing. A part of how I got to that position? All I can say is that if you had been around before the spam filter was in place, it was far worse than now.

I've gotten some pretty bad crap over the years. Yes, the messages really can be that bad.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/10/2015 3:06:19 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: NookieNotes

From another conversation:

quote:

ORIGINAL: crumpets
I have seen skits where gamers read messages off of some chat site, where the women are inundated with "wanna fuck" messages.
Having watched this in mirth, I wonder how realistic these messages are.

I said I'd start a topic about this. I'm going to share some of my real conversations. No names. No calling anyone out.

I'd love if others want to join in.

I know there was a thread about crazy messages from the other side that I used to participate in now and again. Can't find it. Anyone?

OK, here goes with the first one. Just yesterday:

HIM:
Hello very interested in your ad I'm 5 11 190 lbs am not bi but not shy either looking for long term friends with benefits I am free tomorrow if you would like to meet and talk in person have sex that's fine with me I'm ddf can be dominant or submissive into different things I live in ---- hope to hear back from you I will lick you to

(includes cock shot, CL ad specifically says not to send cock shots)

ME:
Thank you, but including a cock shot is not the type of man I'm looking for.

Best of luck in your search.

HIM:
Whatever fuck you you want it in your mouth
But don't want to look at it that's a dumb bitch

ME:
See? And you just proved that you are not the kind of man I want around.

Best of luck to you. With that attitude, you're really going to need it.

HIM:
Well you prove your not the type of bitch I want to fuck

HIM:
Won't be long fatso your post will be flagged

HIM:
Won't be long now post will be deleted anything else you put up I will flag miss piggy

So, here you have proof of several things:

1. Man wants to fuck.
2. Man sends cock in hopes of fuck, even when asked not to (probably didn't read)
3. Man is generally illiterate.
4. Man gets cranky when he is denied the sex.
5. Man decides to flag my ad based on said denial, and will now go through the effort of flagging every one of my ads he sees, because I didn't give him the sex.

Case in Point #1. I had 4 or 5 of these types just yesterday from ONE ad.

Anyone else want to join.

Oh my, wait until you reach my age (60). The insults include "saggy", "wrinkled", "dried up","senile". It's also mentioned quite frequently that, at my age, I should be thrilled a man, any man, even messages me and how dare I refuse to have sex with these generous men. Yowza.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/10/2015 6:23:40 PM

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I'm 37 and just had a 37 year old man call me old.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/10/2015 6:42:51 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: IronicTautology
Oh my, wait until you reach my age (60). The insults include "saggy", "wrinkled", "dried up","senile". It's also mentioned quite frequently that, at my age, I should be thrilled a man, any man, even messages me and how dare I refuse to have sex with these generous men. Yowza.

I just got a fabulous one!

Him:
You ask allot for someone of your size. From your words it's quite apparent your in need of something to satisfy your loneliness. You should make changes to your image and so many words would not be necessary.
Good luck in your quest.

Me:
LOL! And for someone who takes such a superior attitude, writing to people on craigslist to try to make them feel bad (notice the try) is a spectacularly telling pastime.

Best of luck to you in everything! :)

(No additional commentary forthcoming—just replied a few minutes ago. I kind hope he keeps sparring!)

ETA: I should have thrown in a comment about his poor grammar... maybe I'll get a chance. *fingers crossed* Hoping he'll write back...

< Message edited by NookieNotes -- 9/10/2015 6:43:46 PM >

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/10/2015 6:49:28 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: NookieNotes
*fingers crossed* Hoping he'll write back...

Are you sure you aren't a masochist?

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/10/2015 6:50:23 PM

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You should make changes to your image and so many words would not be necessary.

For each picture, you can remove a thousand words.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/10/2015 6:57:34 PM

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I made the mistake once of putting up an ad in the W4W section of CL. In the 2-3 days of having it up I got seven responses, all from men.

I'm not going through the effort of digging up the emails now. But of those two:
-One was seeking a female playmate for his wife, who had no idea the conversation was taking place. These two are on Fet and it seems to be an ongoing issue between them.
-One sent me a cock shot, then accused me of being a male luring women to my apartment because I wouldn't give him the sex.
-One tried to sell me on his bi bbw sub, then continued to harass me though email telling me to call/meet up with him. His reasoning was that I'd either give in and date him or deal with harassment, both were fine with him. (Fuck me or you'll suffer)
-One kept trying to ask me if I wanted to see "her boyfriend's cock." Riiiiight.

I took it down pretty soon after that.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/11/2015 3:25:14 AM

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Shoot me ahead of time, if this is how most men respond to women.

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RE: Are The Messages Really True? - 9/11/2015 6:22:05 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul

quote:

ORIGINAL: NookieNotes
*fingers crossed* Hoping he'll write back...

Are you sure you aren't a masochist?

Awww. I just don't understand why others don't think it's as fascinating as I do. I mean, these people will keep going, sometimes for months. I am amazed at how badly they need people to acknowledge them, even in negative ways.

To be clear, I simply respond to each email until I get bored. LOL! Sometimes it's really fun and takes a while. Today, here on CS, someone got me there in three messages.

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

You should make changes to your image and so many words would not be necessary.

For each picture, you can remove a thousand words.

He was suggesting that if I showed tits, I could remove all that stuff about the kind of man I prefer that is not him.

quote:

ORIGINAL: RockaRolla

I made the mistake once of putting up an ad in the W4W section of CL. In the 2-3 days of having it up I got seven responses, all from men.

Sounds about right. Although I've met some pretty amazing people off CL, too. It's just more challenging. LOL! Like naked rain forest hunting.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Telios
Shoot me ahead of time, if this is how most men respond to women.

Most are not nearly so creative, to be fair. Most are really just boring. Some are fascinating and wonderful. Others are delightfully (to me) horrid.

Chin up!

*smiles*

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