notaBULL
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ORIGINAL: alpha499 yes, fear is a natural reaction that cant be be altered by any discipline course, and courage is the act of overcoming fear, fear is always accompanied by an unpleasant feeling of danger, or insecurity, but i can guarantee you this from experience , a sub can be trained to fear his Mistress without feeling insecure, and that completely breaks the literal definition of fear, unless this is a parallel world to our world. I am being totally sincere here. Whatever M/s dynamic that works for you, is your business and between you and your Dominant master. But inducing fear is not my vehicle of choice. Why would I want my slave to fear me? I'm not the type of a Mistress who inspires submission and subservience through fear. If I were, then I would be encouraging negativity, and I do not invite negativity into my life. Period. In the same vein, a loyal pet dog willingly and enthusiastically obeys me. . . out of love and devotion. [S/]He thirsts for my displays of affection, he hungers for every kind word and every show of loving kindness I decide to bestow upon him[/her], including what mercies I choose to grant. Ha! Try to get a cat to obey you out of fear, and it will only end up backfiring on you in one way or another. Or in a dozen different, unpleasant ways. All you'll end up with when you raise an iron fist so to speak - specifically with a punishment (& humiliation) dynamic - is a neurotically troubled being. Insecurity is a walk in the park compared to the whirlwind you will reap as a result. Besides, I love it when the man I fancy begs for what he wants, without having to resort to begging for me NOT to [do or be whatever]. quote:
ORIGINAL: notaBULL I thought warriors went to war, not bedrooms In Greek and Roman mythology, Ares/Mars was the God of Sex and War. The planet Mars in astrology symbolizes BOTH sexuality, as one's desire nature, an indicator of sex drive and passion, AND of aggression (which can be channeled either positively as assertiveness or negatively/destructively). He was also Lord of the War Victory Dance, a consort worthy of his partner-mate Aphrodite/Venus, the Goddess of Love, Beauty and the Arts. Isis to the Egyptians, and [Assyrian] Astarte* to the Mesopotamians, was the Battle Goddess of Love and War. These are ancient Archetypal symbols which have universal meaning and significance. DreamLady Edited to add: * Ishtar to the Babylonians I think you people on here are way too focused on sex, like Luba said: "Let it go" slavery is servitude and has nothing to do with sex, if a Mistress would ask me for sex, I would run
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