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J0K3ER -> RE: Serious question (10/25/2015 1:36:09 PM)
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ORIGINAL: DocStrange
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ORIGINAL: J0K3ER
I am gonna put this down as simple as I can without any crafting, like i were talking to the neighbor next door. it is just a simple question for ALL. ( men, women, dom/mes, switches and subs ). wait a second...... NO TROLLS!. Oh!... did i forget to say please? .... I dont say please to trolls in fine prints.
lets cut through the chase. if you live in the land of milk and honey, you probably have an idea on how people customarily dress up in an ordinary day. but, lets say you stumbled upon an exception. you went to a gas station, for your daily fuel up, or to a store to buy beer,.... and a woman !!! OMG! dressed up just like those " findomme or amazon" hoes. knee high boots, Crop Top,Stripe Skirt etc...
Now my question is: is it considered appropriate behavior to approach that woman decently, introduce yourself and ask her if she is into BDSM, i focus on the last part of the question which is ((( if she is into BDSM ))). and i will certainly consider your points of view.
No it is not appropriate. No matter how one dresses a man should always approach a woman in a chivalrous manor.
Many goth people dress in the manor your describe. Just because a person dresses differently that you expect, does not mean they are into BDSM or anything else for that matter. I will assume you do not get out or travel much. I have seen what you describe in almost every major city in the US. And a lot more common in the UK. Walk around in Koln Germany on a Friday night and you will see a lot of woman dressed provocatively.
the subtle statement you just made is an acknowledge to the subjectivity of my question.
you just assumed that " I DO NOT GO OUT AND DO NOT TRAVEL" yeah whatever, I know your state by the Inch. plus the other 47 states, plus canada, Mexico, west europe and the middle east and North Africa. so why can I not assume that a lady in 7" high heel-knee high
boots , chain-belts around her hips is not a fetishism? moreover what is likely to go wrong if I ask, as long as I keep my approach on the polite side.
and feeders keep alluding to my post as being a sexual harassment attempt , where in my post did i say I would ask her out? or even implied it. I am just doing a gallup poll of whether it is appropriate or not, from both men and women point of view, if you say NO. it is not appropriate. dont stop there please, I'd like to know why it is okay to strike a conversation with a lady and can ask her a very personal question as if she was married or if she is a member of people-helping organization. or is BDSM something people dont recognize as socially acceptable behavior. is BDSM shameful?.
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