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LadyConstanze -> RE: Can someone please tell the male subs (12/21/2015 6:44:44 AM)

Please don't... What they eye has seen can never be unseen...




longwayhome -> RE: Can someone please tell the male subs (12/21/2015 7:18:28 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

I seriously don't have an issue with a kink that isn't mine, my kinks aren't everybody's cup of tea, fair dues, but I don't force my kinks on others, it's a matter of consent and respect, I view it the same way as BDSM in a vanilla environment, the people haven't consented to be part of a scene, so it's a violation of consent.

In case I go to a party, I don't go around and hit everybody with a whip who wears a slave collar, they haven't consented and they might actually have a dominant as well, so I would be disrespectful to their dominant AND I would be playing without consent.

Why is forcing a picture of genitalia on somebody acceptable?


Absolutely. [:)]




longwayhome -> RE: Can someone please tell the male subs (12/21/2015 7:20:03 AM)

I mean I agree that forcing a picture of genitalia on somebody isn't acceptable.

Just wanted to be clear after my last post was misinterpreted.




freedomdwarf1 -> RE: Can someone please tell the male subs (12/21/2015 7:34:43 AM)

You mean this bit -
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ORIGINAL: longwayhome
If women generally don't like dick shots (especially out of context) just suck it up (so to speak).
...in reply to Oside (who is a female)???

But I agree with this -
quote:

ORIGINAL: longwayhome
In the meantime don't lead with your dick (or think or vote or spend or stir tea with it). It's not one of your constitutional rights.


If I got the wrong end of the shitty stick - my bad.
But it wasn't obvious [to me] what you meant.




LadyPact -> RE: Can someone please tell the male subs (12/21/2015 7:52:20 AM)

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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1
You mean this bit -
quote:

ORIGINAL: longwayhome
If women generally don't like dick shots (especially out of context) just suck it up (so to speak).
...in reply to Oside (who is a female)???

I think that was just a chronological order reply. Most folks in these sections aren't nearly such sticklers about that as the folks down in P&R.






Wayward5oul -> RE: Can someone please tell the male subs (12/21/2015 8:32:10 AM)


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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1

You mean this bit -
quote:

ORIGINAL: longwayhome
If women generally don't like dick shots (especially out of context) just suck it up (so to speak).
...in reply to Oside (who is a female)???


I took this bit as directed towards those who were complaining about women complaining about dick pics-women don't like it so the dicks need to just suck it up.




OsideGirl -> RE: Can someone please tell the male subs (12/21/2015 8:36:51 AM)

By the way - the tagline for this site is:

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The Largest BDSM Community on the Planet!


Not "The largest kinky sex site on the planet!"

So, the stubborness of trying to force the "it's a sex site" label to fit the agenda, doesn't work.




Wayward5oul -> RE: Can someone please tell the male subs (12/21/2015 8:43:37 AM)


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ORIGINAL: respectmen
As been explained in this thread, that's basically the nature of such websites.

Except that this particular website specifically states that iusing these kinds of pics as a profile pic is not allowed. Period.

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I don't understand why women act like a flying cockroach landed on them whenever they see a cock pic on a website through a computer screen. It's so simple to just move on. Click to the next web page and its all history.


Yes it is easy to just move on. And we do, Not moving on would imply that we email every profile that we didn't like and tell them what they are doing wrong. We don't do that. But that doesn't mean that we have to like what we see, nor that we can't voice our opinion on it elsewhere. Especially in a place set aside specifically for, oh I don't know, discussion.

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There is nothing wrong of not liking it but to whine about it to the point of demanding men to not do it is going beyond too far.


No one is demanding anything. We are not going to admin and demanding that they start imposing and enforcing other rules. What we are doing is stating our opinion on it. We are allowed. Don't like it? You have the option of just move on. Click to the next web page and its all history.

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Men shouldn't get their sexual freedom taken away on a sexual website.

If you want people to take you seriously you should not make asinine statements like this. Christ in a cracker do you sound like a whiny adolescent griping about being grounded.





OsideGirl -> RE: Can someone please tell the male subs (12/21/2015 8:51:13 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul




Yes it is easy to just move on. And we do, Not moving on would imply that we email every profile that we didn't like and tell them what they are doing wrong. We don't do that. But that doesn't mean that we have to like what we see, nor that we can't voice our opinion on it elsewhere. Especially in a place set aside specifically for, oh I don't know, discussion.


No one is demanding anything. We are not going to admin and demanding that they start imposing and enforcing other rules. What we are doing is stating our opinion on it. We are allowed. Don't like it? You have the option of just move on. Click to the next web page and its all history.







Wayward nailed it.

The constant posts saying that the women are angry, when we're not. We're merely stating our opinion.




Lucylastic -> RE: Can someone please tell the male subs (12/21/2015 8:51:25 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul




quote:

Men shouldn't get their sexual freedom taken away on a sexual website.

If you want people to take you seriously you should not make asinine statements like this. Christ in a cracker do you sound like a whiny adolescent griping about being grounded.



LC I promise not to.:)




Lucylastic -> RE: Can someone please tell the male subs (12/21/2015 8:55:11 AM)


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul




Yes it is easy to just move on. And we do, Not moving on would imply that we email every profile that we didn't like and tell them what they are doing wrong. We don't do that. But that doesn't mean that we have to like what we see, nor that we can't voice our opinion on it elsewhere. Especially in a place set aside specifically for, oh I don't know, discussion.


No one is demanding anything. We are not going to admin and demanding that they start imposing and enforcing other rules. What we are doing is stating our opinion on it. We are allowed. Don't like it? You have the option of just move on. Click to the next web page and its all history.







Wayward nailed it.

The constant posts saying that the women are angry, when we're not. We're merely stating our opinion.


Honestly I wonder if he has ever beheld a really angry woman.
If he had he would shatter like a white walker stuck thru with valyrian steel.




longwayhome -> RE: Can someone please tell the male subs (12/21/2015 9:19:44 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1

You mean this bit -
quote:

ORIGINAL: longwayhome
If women generally don't like dick shots (especially out of context) just suck it up (so to speak).
...in reply to Oside (who is a female)???

But I agree with this -
quote:

ORIGINAL: longwayhome
In the meantime don't lead with your dick (or think or vote or spend or stir tea with it). It's not one of your constitutional rights.


If I got the wrong end of the shitty stick - my bad.
But it wasn't obvious [to me] what you meant.


It was just a general reply and I didn't take the time to attach it specifically to the right person, so I can understand that it looked out of context. I was actually thinking more about @respectmen when I was posting rather than Oside, who happened to be the last poster when I started typing.

In that context I was asking men to suck up the fact that women don't generally like dick shots, not asking women to put up with it. Many apologies, not least to @OsideGirl, for giving any such impression

I have to admit I don't take much notice of who someone specifically replies to unless they include a direct quote.

More care required in the future on my part methinks.

[:)]

Ironic that I had to edit for my bad grammar - there's probably more in there if you look hard enough!




longwayhome -> RE: Can someone please tell the male subs (12/21/2015 9:30:00 AM)


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul




Yes it is easy to just move on. And we do, Not moving on would imply that we email every profile that we didn't like and tell them what they are doing wrong. We don't do that. But that doesn't mean that we have to like what we see, nor that we can't voice our opinion on it elsewhere. Especially in a place set aside specifically for, oh I don't know, discussion.


No one is demanding anything. We are not going to admin and demanding that they start imposing and enforcing other rules. What we are doing is stating our opinion on it. We are allowed. Don't like it? You have the option of just move on. Click to the next web page and its all history.







Wayward nailed it.

The constant posts saying that the women are angry, when we're not. We're merely stating our opinion.



Exactly.

The only people I see getting really angry are those men who object to what most women are saying (or their right to say it).

I'm not that keen on excrement or puke. It doesn't anger me, but I prefer to expect it before I see it and not come across it when randomly browsing. No-one gets angry with me for having that view, so why the anger over thinking a dick shot isn't putting your best foot forward when trying to attract women?

Not sure why men always believe that women should find their attempts to attract them sexy. Whatever happened to finding out what someone wants and trying to fulfil that instead of just expressing your own horniness?




PeonForHer -> RE: Can someone please tell the male subs (12/22/2015 11:38:48 AM)

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Whatever happened to finding out what someone wants and trying to fulfil that instead of just expressing your own horniness?


I think that's probably it, in a nutshell. Me, I took advice from various female friends, a few of whom were femdoms. I do remember thinking at the time, 'Really? *That's* what they want to see? Well, OK, I'll take your word for it...' Some of it was quite counterintuitive, really. But, mind you, I've never shown a cock-shot. No such pic exists, in fact. Too private.




LadyConstanze -> RE: Can someone please tell the male subs (12/22/2015 12:06:18 PM)


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

quote:

Whatever happened to finding out what someone wants and trying to fulfil that instead of just expressing your own horniness?


I think that's probably it, in a nutshell. Me, I took advice from various female friends, a few of whom were femdoms. I do remember thinking at the time, 'Really? *That's* what they want to see? Well, OK, I'll take your word for it...' Some of it was quite counterintuitive, really. But, mind you, I've never shown a cock-shot. No such pic exists, in fact. Too private.



If you need a good zoom, I got H a new Nikon for Xmas [:D]

(I think I best run for cover now)




PeonForHer -> RE: Can someone please tell the male subs (12/22/2015 2:05:58 PM)

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If you need a good zoom, I got H a new Nikon for Xmas


Brilliant! I'll just sit on my roof and pummel myself up a stiffy. H can sit on his roof with his Nikon, point it south and up into the sky ... yes - that could work! We'd need a clear day though, mind.




LadyConstanze -> RE: Can someone please tell the male subs (12/22/2015 2:09:32 PM)

I said zoom, not the freaking Hubble telescope [:D]




OsideGirl -> RE: Can someone please tell the male subs (12/28/2015 1:58:22 PM)

I just got a new twist on this.....someone sent me a penis pic that isn't their penis. It's some stock photo.




DocStrange -> RE: Can someone please tell the male subs (12/28/2015 10:32:41 PM)

Now that is just plain weird!




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