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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: ReMakeYou
You're free to post whatever you want on your profile. If your goal is to attract women, it might be handy to listen to what they say. The same applies to women who are having a hard time attracting men.

This. I never understand why people don't get this.

Basic strategies of advertising just aren't this complicated.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: ReMakeYou
You're free to post whatever you want on your profile. If your goal is to attract women, it might be handy to listen to what they say. The same applies to women who are having a hard time attracting men.

This. I never understand why people don't get this.

Basic strategies of advertising just aren't this complicated.

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

I tend to chat a lot with kinksters and sometimes dominant men, nothing wrong, again if they behave like you'd expect a grown man with manners to behave anywhere, it's absolutely fine, I'm not looking for anybody and make that quite clear, they are aware of it and it's fine, made a lot of good friends this way.

The immature ones with cock shots just get blocked, same as the ones who think women are fetish delivery systems who owe it to them to get them off.

I just don't have time for guys who don't have the basic social graces or think the internet allows them to behave in a way that makes you wonder if they've been raised in a cave, yet oddly enough those seem to be the ones who always complain the most about women and why oh why can't they find anybody to fulfil their kink

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ORIGINAL: MistressRage

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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

I tend to chat a lot with kinksters and sometimes dominant men, nothing wrong, again if they behave like you'd expect a grown man with manners to behave anywhere, it's absolutely fine, I'm not looking for anybody and make that quite clear, they are aware of it and it's fine, made a lot of good friends this way.

The immature ones with cock shots just get blocked, same as the ones who think women are fetish delivery systems who owe it to them to get them off.

I just don't have time for guys who don't have the basic social graces or think the internet allows them to behave in a way that makes you wonder if they've been raised in a cave, yet oddly enough those seem to be the ones who always complain the most about women and why oh why can't they find anybody to fulfil their kink

High fives!!!!!

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ORIGINAL: Cuckingcurious
I don't think it's too difficult to meet somewhere in between. You expect us to talk to you till sometimes our ears bleed and our jaw cramps so you should be prepared to send some visual stimuli our way at some point. We want to see the goods without that bulky sweater on...

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ORIGINAL: respectmen

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One is about an experience. The other is generic hatred for an entire gender.

You missed my point but anyway....

So I guess it's all okay for a male to make any negative generalisation on women and he will be all in the clear of being a misogynist? Cool


LadyConstanze

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The immature ones with cock shots just get blocked, same as the ones who think women are fetish delivery systems who owe it to them to get them off.

So basically, a man is "immature" simply because he is running his sexuality not how a woman would run hers? What if men said women are immature if women are not more like how men want them to be?

Why is it only men who treat the opposite gender as a "fetish delivery system" when men simply have kinky desires but this doesn't apply to women who have kinky desires? Why is it that when a male offers something kinky/sexual, he's likely deemed to be controlling and self serving but when a woman offers something kinky/sexual, she's offering a gift to men?

If you want to talk about bigotry against a gender's sexuality, instead of talking about "slut shaming" let's talk about how massively fucking discriminated men are just for having a fucking penis.

First, this video goes even further and shows how men are even treated as potential pedophiles just for having a penis. That's it, a penis!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3fL9RmVtMP0


Also, just because men have a fucking penis, this type of androphobia follows on with any male can easily just be deemed as a "do me sub", or in the vanilla world, someone who generally just wants to use women simply because he is seeking something sexual. Having a penis, the default position is that he is guilty.

There is this word called "prejudice"...I am sure most or all of you know what that word means. Not to mention, it's androphobia.

Let me try to explain this more clear. These days we all see the words "islamophobia" or "xenophobe" being thrown around. So why do people use these words?

It's when a person holds a default position that a muslim is potentially guilty of being someone evil until proven otherwise or have a generalisation that most muslims are evil. This is all based on them being muslim, nothing more.

Is this correct? Is this what you would consider as "islamophobia"?

So it would make perfect sense to classify it as "phobic" when a woman holds a default position that a man is potentially guilty of being someone evil until proven otherwise or have a generalisation that most men are evil. This is all based on them being male, nothing more.... Androphobia?

So how are we to know that most men are "do me" just because women said so? Why is a bigots word taken over the word of the actual men who are being accused of this? Sounds very unfair to me.

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Well, at least you know we're laughing.

It is laughable that men think we're going to be attracted to the random cock shot

Do women find certain ways of expressing sexuality to be attractive that men really don't? Men are different, yes? Why are men always shamed and laughed at for being different compared to women when it comes to sexuality, but if its the other way around, it's misogyny and oppression against women?

My point here is that men are always expected to change and appease for women. But when its men expecting women to change and appease for men, it's considered as patriarchy enforcing and chauvinism.

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Do you really think do me bottoms don't exist? I can assure you that they do. Nobody said it was limited to one gender, either.

They certainly do exist, no denial there. My whole point is that many to most times men are labelled this, it's likely not to be true. It's likely to be judgement clouded by bigotry instead of reality.

It all stems from a man being in the default position of being guilty until proven innocent just for having a penis. This also follows on outside of this website as I showed in that video. It's a very common mindset to have on men anywhere in society. A very unfair one too as you can see that it can cause more misconceptions than things being true. Similar to how muslims are treated when being under the suspicion of being terrorists.

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ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul

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ORIGINAL: Cuckingcurious
I don't think it's too difficult to meet somewhere in between. You expect us to talk to you till sometimes our ears bleed and our jaw cramps so you should be prepared to send some visual stimuli our way at some point. We want to see the goods without that bulky sweater on...

So women are obligated to send you private pics of themselves, just because you talked to them for a while? Sorry, but it is the rare man that is that good of a talker.

Oh, and sorry about your penis.

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ORIGINAL: Cuckingcurious
I don't think it's too difficult to meet somewhere in between. You expect us to talk to you till sometimes our ears bleed and our jaw cramps so you should be prepared to send some visual stimuli our way at some point. We want to see the goods without that bulky sweater on...

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ORIGINAL: Cuckingcurious

No I wasn't talking about me specifically I was talking about how men think in general. I could care less about a nude myself. I've seen titts and ass since I can remember. Public nudity isn't a big deal in Germany.

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
OK, the kidding aside, can I ask you a question? Yes, I'm basing part of this on your screen name but since you are curious about being a cuckhold, how much do you really know about it? Granted, like just about everything else, people have their own way of going about it. Still, it's very much a relationship thing where SHE is in charge of her sexuality. You're not really the one making the decisions. You don't get much of a voice in who she dates, who she sleeps with, whether or not you get to attend, fluff, or clean up. The reason these dynamics work for some people is because the male is relationship oriented with the gal and she expresses that sexuality in the way that she wants. Depending on how she wants to dictate that, it's up to her how much or how little you get.

Have you talked with many of the females who have experience with this?

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ORIGINAL: Baroana

To stop publishing their profile in white text with a white background? I cannot read a thing they've written.

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
Now, we know the numbers on cs are about 70% male to 30% female. We also know that conservatively at least 30% of the female profiles are actually written by men, and probably it's closer to 50%. That means that there are only 15 to 20 women to every man. As such, how many women feel they have to write strange men because they aren't getting enough mail from men? Close to zero.